They completely miss on the fact that going to escorts can involve you being scammed, robbed or even assaulted and killed. Plenty of escorts are involved in criminal activities and the moment they see a low-confidence anxious inexperienced young male they will take advantage of this situation. For the record I am over 40 and have been going to escorts for quite some time, but it didn't resolve my social anxiety or feelings of inferiority, in fact it made it worse because I have been insulted, humiliated and robbed by escorts numerous times for being a loser that has to pay for sex. I have been robbed. scammed more times than I can count and degraded too.
Additionally the hypergamy in my country became so bad that plenty of escorts now only see attractive, confident guys(and I am not talking about hygiene which I am fanatical about-but about looks and personality). They demand photos first and a paid expensive first date to evaluate you.
This leaves you with low end escorts who otoh will often demand you give them money up front and then they or their boyfriend throw you out of the place under any pretext. Otherwise you can find your wallet emptied or watch stolen etc and they adamantly deny anything happened and start assaulting you.