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Does your school life decide if you become an incel?

TheOrangeCat

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This may sound like a weird question but I feel like school is the only place where you're "forced" to have social interaction (ignoring jobs with frequent customer contact) and if you don't find friends there and make yourself a name, chances are good that you'll become an Incel, in retrospect id probably want to repeat my high school time in order to not end up as an Incel. Is this cope or is high school really a deciding factor on becoming an Incel?
 
I think a lot of what dictates wether youll have inceldom or not isomewhat unrelated to life events (autism and looks for example) but its safe to say that if you got none or almost none positive social interaction with women in school youre fucked. I often wish i could repeat my life from age 12 onward knwoing what i know now
 
It's decided the moment you're conceived. Biological determinism.
 
I think a lot of what dictates wether youll have inceldom or not isomewhat unrelated to life events (autism and looks for example) but its safe to say that if you got none or almost none positive social interaction with women in school youre fucked. I often wish i could repeat my life from age 12 onward knwoing what i know now
Same here, if I could travel back like 10 years I'd be true Chad
 
no

inceldom is decided from the day you are born
 
 
No, your genetics decide if you become an incel.
 
School life is consequence, not a cause.

The true cause is bad DNA.

That’ll dictate your school life, dating life, professional life, etc
 
Luck is technically more important though. After all, it's your luck who decides your genetics.
but your personality is the most important of all @PersonalityChad
 
Highschool never ends
 
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It’s largely genetic determinism, the competition in a school environment just makes life 100x worse.
 
It's not the school, it's your genetics from a foid perspective. Behaviors are shaped over the years and deepen, and then you realize: “I am an omega.”
 
Did not pop up when creating the threat, apologies
 
Its not the cause but the evidence and confirmation of a subhuman.

You were born as subhuman, school just confirmed that not a single of females in your age group is interested in you or sees you as a male worth of reproducing.

It should be enough to tell you something, if you are self aware and high iq enough. But then you have millions of coaches who will tell you “its cause you didnt bench press during school BRO” and then you get an army of 20 something cucks in the gyms trying to “improve” and finally get that female attention they missed in school, but they will never get it because problem was never lack of muscles but their inferior genes.
 
This may sound like a weird question but I feel like school is the only place where you're "forced" to have social interaction (ignoring jobs with frequent customer contact) and if you don't find friends there and make yourself a name, chances are good that you'll become an Incel, in retrospect id probably want to repeat my high school time in order to not end up as an Incel. Is this cope or is high school really a deciding factor on becoming an Incel?
Think about it this way.

School is sort of a miniature version of society: it's a large social group that have social standings, rules, literal standing(grades), etc. Within this miniature society it's a perfect place for children to learn the basic norms, behaviours, moral code and such expected out of them by society, known as secondary socialisation; meaning that it is extremely vital to the development of your social, educational and specialist skills, even for a non-NT you are able to develop proper social skills during this time period.

If you weren't able to develop this social skills during adolescence, you'll struggle later in life as you have not formed the necessary understanding in social solidarity to have proper comprehension or just any willpower on acting as what is expected out of you; making you an outlier.

Furthermore, due to this, most will fall into a rabbit hole where they constantly achieve nothing due to their failed comprehension of society and crumble into themselves, eventually falling into the blackpill pit where they feel as though society has done them injustice to them, or feel as though their efforts are pointless; this is how nearcels turn into incels.
 
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But if you were born incel, you would've still been incel even if you were able to get past all of that.
 
This may sound like a weird question but I feel like school is the only place where you're "forced" to have social interaction (ignoring jobs with frequent customer contact) and if you don't find friends there and make yourself a name, chances are good that you'll become an Incel, in retrospect id probably want to repeat my high school time in order to not end up as an Incel. Is this cope or is high school really a deciding factor on becoming an Incel?
Your school life is affected by your genes
 
Genetics decides.

School life just shows where you stand. If no girls show you any interest in your formative years, you know.
 
This may sound like a weird question but I feel like school is the only place where you're "forced" to have social interaction (ignoring jobs with frequent customer contact) and if you don't find friends there and make yourself a name, chances are good that you'll become an Incel, in retrospect id probably want to repeat my high school time in order to not end up as an Incel. Is this cope or is high school really a deciding factor on becoming an Incel?
Totally.
 

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