Brutal Does this happen to you guys?

[Tryna Ascend]

Where people ghost you IRL

Like for example you talk to people and you get to befriend them

then maybe a couple of weeks or months or a year later they ghost you and act like you never had a big friendship bond to begin with and then they go befriend someone else

this is what happens to me alot, I dont say much at all and I know Im a good friend because I am nice and loyal to people if people have a problem I always try my best to help them and some brocels I befriended here can attest to that

People know that I am low value, they know that I am just a nobody, I have no sexual experience, I have no friends or social circle to begin with, they know I am quiet and they know I skipped going to highschool early so I am unable to talk about highschool shit and gossip about other people and on top of all that I am an ugly curry I do not look pleasant to look at and people have said this to me so any chance of being a social chameleon or an extrovert goes right out the window because whenever I speak people just look at me blabber some words and then ignore me

I can get along with people very easily but its keeping them as a friend that's hard, I see so many people that have friends for years and hang out with them meanwhile the people I befriend I may hang out with them once in awhile but then we stop and then they act like I don't exist anymore

It hurts alot too because you expect this from foids but you never expect this from a male friend

Why does this happen? And does this happen to any of you? And any of you guys socially isolated aswell?

I don't want to be lonely I just want someone that I can call my brother thats pretty much it

 

[Tryna Ascend]

@Transcended Trucel @wei#3959 @Doomer Guy @DarkStarDown @Count Yorga

thoughts?

 

[RollD20]

Often.
I've given up on trying to hold even basic friendships because its clear they dont care to.
I think at a certain age its impossible to find friends, unless you really hobby max hard.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

same happened to me and I did it to others. If you aren't very rich, high status, knowledgeable, athletic, or entertaining. People will ghost you. You need at least one of those traits

 

[Tryna Ascend]

Often.
I've given up on trying to hold even basic friendships because its clear they dont care to.
I think at a certain age its impossible to find friends, unless you really hobby max hard.

I meet my friends from hobbies but they dont even care about me

you need some bit of status to make friends whether thats already having a pre-existing social circle or your a social chameleon who knows how to say the right things at the right time

 

[Tryna Ascend]

same happened to me and I did it to others. If you aren't very rich, high status, knowledgeable, athletic, or entertaining. People will ghost you. You need at least one of those traits

I am knowledgeable and athletic but still doesn't go anywhere

I am really quiet and reserved but I can be funny and make people laugh (I dont jestermaxx) but still people dont care

they know I am low value because I have 0 sexual experience and I have no friends

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Often.
I've given up on trying to hold even basic friendships because its clear they dont care to.
I think at a certain age its impossible to find friends, unless you really hobby max hard.

yup without extreme hobby maxxing finding friends is hard. As a wageslave I don't have much time to do so. And further, if you do get friends, then you don't have as much time to grind to money Maxx. No winning in life.

There 4 key burners in life:

• money/work
• health/solitary hobbies
• family
• friends

u can only have 2 running in most cases. https://jamesclear.com/four-burners-theory

 

[Tryna Ascend]

and I did it to others.

I am not gonna lie I did it to others aswell

mainly because I was very quiet and had anti social disorder or was very anti social because of being severely abused but I really regret it I could of made a good friend group if I was never abused because it fucked me in the head so much

 

[runforrest]

Most of our fellow zoomers are wokes and they will cut you off if they find you boring and quiet, or dont sense any adventure from you.

Foids do this more often than men too. If you arent jestermaxxing you simply dont exist for them. They justify it by saying its your fault for being dry.

 

[RollD20]

you need some bit of status to make friends whether thats already having a pre-existing social circle or your a social chameleon who knows how to say the right things at the right time

Back in school days i played the chameleon role and simply said lines I saw on TV
It doesn't get far works sometimes but they aren't really friends more like you might talk to them once a week or twice if you pass by.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

I am not gonna lie I did it to others aswell

mainly because I was very quiet and had anti social disorder or was very anti social because of being severely abused but I really regret it I could of made a good friend group if I was never abused because it fucked me in the head so much

same. I did it because of it taking too much time and energy. Also my curry parents brainwashed me hard to hate non-muslims/non-religous folk. This fucked me over hard. later on when I was older, I had already gotten used to being a full loner and I just couldn't bother to care about friend maxxing.

 

[Tryna Ascend]

Back in school days i played the chameleon role and simply said lines I saw on TV
It doesn't get far works sometimes but they aren't really friends more like you might talk to them once a week or twice if you pass by.

Dude but doesn't other people feel the same way?

Why do guys want to chase foids who will ghost them or cheat on them anyways

where is the brotherhood at?

 

[Tryna Ascend]

Most of our fellow zoomers are wokes and they will cut you off if they find you boring and quiet, or dont sense any adventure from you.

Foids do this more often than men too. If you arent jestermaxxing you simply dont exist for them. They justify it by saying its your fault for being dry.

Im not trying to sound like a narci but I 100% guarantee you I am more adventurous then 90% of zoomers

most zoomers are just mindless drones who go on there phone 24/7 and talk about mind numbing shit (foids, sports, nigger music) whereas I just want to go out there and have fun, I could be an extrovert if people gave me a chance but nope

Idk mang I dont know what I do wrong I hate this always happening to me

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

same happened to me and I did it to others. If you aren't very rich, high status, knowledgeable, athletic, or entertaining. People will ghost you. You need at least one of those traits

Not just that, but we are so socially isolated that the little interaction meant so much for us. When they thought they would talk to a stranger a few times to form networks, we think we have found someone to connect to in life. It’s like comparing how a virgin sees sex vs someone who has had sex with hundreds of people sees it.

 

[RollD20]

Dude but doesn't other people feel the same way?

Why do guys want to chase foids who will ghost them or cheat on them anyways

where is the brotherhood at?

I was asocial except with few people.
Ironically this might of given the impression that I was the quiet kid I think. But I was very much nerdy, into chess and things so I guess I had an easier time talking to fellow 'outcasts'

But your right at a certain point you realize these people don't really care about you its just normal niceties we exchange, then once school was over it was all done.
There is no brotherhood among men anymore why do you think 80% of men are depressed at this point, society has destroyed brotherhood in the name of chasing the stinky roastbeef poontang, just look at modern media and how heavily sexualized it is now compared to even 10 years ago

 

[Count Yorga]

Don't even think about it. Never. Live your life exclusively according to your personal standards.
Never pay attention to other people's opinion.

 

[Tryna Ascend]

There is no brotherhood among men anymore why do you think 80% of men are depressed at this point, society has destroyed brotherhood in the name of chasing the stinky roastbeef poontang, just look at modern media and how heavily sexualized it is now compared to even 10 years ago

I hate this generation so much being a zoomer fucking sucks all people talk about is foids foids foids

nothing else of substance they talk about I hate it I hate it I hate it

 

[Tryna Ascend]

Don't even think about it. Never. Live your life exclusively according to your personal standards.
Never pay attention to other people's opinion.

It is hard dude Its not good for your health to be lonely

I dont care what people think about me its just that I am lonely thats pretty much it );

 

[ElTruecel]

Yea I’ve been ghosted by people I’ve known since kindergarten. Happens but what can you do

 

[Tryna Ascend]

Yea I’ve been ghosted by people I’ve known since kindergarten. Happens but what can you do

Mogs me for having a friend that long

 

[RollD20]

I hate this generation so much being a zoomer fucking sucks all people talk about is foids foids foids

nothing else of substance they talk about I hate it I hate it I hate it

Well, its not just this gen so you can be happy about that.
21st century is just fake as it could be, I think the only gen that had anything that still resembled true brotherhood was boomers

 

[Count Yorga]

It is hard dude Its not good for your health to be lonely

I dont care what people think about me its just that I am lonely thats pretty much it );

Since I got used to being alone, it might sound strange, it's easier for me.
I will always rather be alone than suffer toxic normies and rude foids (I had very bad experiences with them.)

 

[Tryna Ascend]

Well, its not just this gen so you can be happy about that.
21st century is just fake as it could be, I think the only gen that had anything that still resembled true brotherhood was boomers

boomers had it made

things were SOOOO much better for them its ridiculous

 

[Count Yorga]

@Tryna Ascend​

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I wish you a nice day: -)

 

[Tryna Ascend]

I wish you a nice day: -)

Thanks you too

 

[Tryna Ascend]

W

Since I got used to being alone, it might sound strange, it's easier for me.
I will always rather be alone than suffer toxic normies and rude foids (I had very bad experiences with them.)

Was it hard to get to the point of being used to being alone or was it a long process?

Because right now I have a hard time accepting it

 

[Count Yorga]

W

Was it hard to get to the point of being used to being alone or was it a long process?

Because right now I have a hard time accepting it

It happened to me by accident. I had a knee injury and HAD to be home for about 2 months. So, I had no choice. And ... something strange started to happen: as more and more days passed, I slowly GET USED to that situation. So much so that I started to like it. I got peace, stability, ... I had no drama, unpleasant meetings, conversations, dark looks, arguments. I've gotten so used to it that now it's no problem for me to be alone.

 

[Feeshtu]

I actually used to have a lot of friends when I was a child.
Then I became more and more isolated the older I became.
Now, I haven’t had a friend in years.
I think that other men and I are not on the same level.
I’m in my early 40’s and I still play video games all day.
Other guys my age have families and work all day. So we have very different lives.
The only other hobby I have is exercise. I’ve tried posting ads for a workout partner and all I get are gay dudes responding.
Straight guys just don’t respond for some reason.
So I just workout alone.

 

[Count Yorga]

W

Was it hard to get to the point of being used to being alone or was it a long process?

Because right now I have a hard time accepting it

Usually, some things happen by chance. If I hadn't hurt my knee, it would have been difficult for me to be alone.

 

[Tryna Ascend]

Usually, some things happen by chance. If I hadn't hurt my knee, it would have been difficult for me to be alone.

Hmm true but I remember I LDAR for a year due to being severely depressed but even after that whole ordeal I still want to make friends

I think its different person to person also I am naturally extroverted but trauma led me to be an introvert quiet guy

 

[CopingForBrutality]

yup without extreme hobby maxxing finding friends is hard. As a wageslave I don't have much time to do so. And further, if you do get friends, then you don't have as much time to grind to money Maxx. No winning in life.

There 4 key burners in life:

• money/work
• health/solitary hobbies
• family
• friends

u can only have 2 running in most cases. https://jamesclear.com/four-burners-theory

Brutal burner pill tbh, most incels would do money + solitary/health hobbies as their two

 

[Kamikaze69]

I am knowledgeable and athletic but still doesn't go anywhere

I am really quiet and reserved but I can be funny and make people laugh (I dont jestermaxx) but still people dont care

they know I am low value because I have 0 sexual experience and I have no friends

Athletic=Chadlite

 

[Kamikaze69]

same. I did it because of it taking too much time and energy. Also my curry parents brainwashed me hard to hate non-muslims/non-religous folk. This fucked me over hard. later on when I was older, I had already gotten used to being a full loner and I just couldn't bother to care about friend maxxing.

Do you not make friends with now Muslims in school days

 

[Count Yorga]

Hmm true but I remember I LDAR for a year due to being severely depressed but even after that whole ordeal I still want to make friends

I think its different person to person also I am naturally extroverted but trauma led me to be an introvert quiet guy

I agree. It all depends on what someone is like.

 

[Kamikaze69]

same. I did it because of it taking too much time and energy. Also my curry parents brainwashed me hard to hate non-muslims/non-religous folk. This fucked me over hard. later on when I was older, I had already gotten used to being a full loner and I just couldn't bother to care about friend maxxing.

Are you from Pakistani because pakistani muslim parents teach thier children to hate non Muslims

 

[Tryna Ascend]

Athletic=Chadlite

Well if thats the case why am I still an incel and friendless

its almost like facial attractiveness and social value matters :O

 

[Kamikaze69]

Well if thats the case why am I still an incel and friendless

its almost like facial attractiveness and social value matters :O

You have a strong body physique. You still can be chad

 

[Tryna Ascend]

You have a strong body physique. You still can be chad

I am skinny irl and its hard for me to put on weight

 

[blackpillednigga]

relatable and truecel trait. I'm a curry and even the other manlet curries I try to interact with end up forgetting my existance a few weeks later. only for academic stuff do they interact with me

 

[Kamikaze69]

I can feel the pain of socially isolated. I was constantly abused and bullied through my life that my confidence in social interaction become low. I got anxiety attack and nervous breakdown in interaction. Also I have some few classmates who are good to me but after my 12th grade exam they completely ghosted/forgot me.

 

[Tryna Ascend]

I can feel the pain of socially isolated. I was constantly abused and bullied through my life that my confidence in social interaction become low. I got anxiety attack and nervous breakdown in interaction. Also I have some few classmates who are good to me but after my 12th grade exam they completely ghosted/forgot me.

Brutal man

 

[Tryna Ascend]

relatable and truecel trait. I'm a curry and even the other manlet curries I try to interact with end up forgetting my existance a few weeks later. only for academic stuff do they interact with me

Curry trait tbh kek

 

[wei#3959]

@Transcended Trucel @wei#3959 @Doomer Guy @DarkStarDown @Count Yorga

thoughts?

Screw ppl in person just talk to cels online

 

[Homelandercel]

i probably badfriendmog you, one in high school many years ago called the popo on me cause a joke i made over text, they searched my house for weapons jfl, i didnt have any so i didnt get in trouble, plus the school didnt give a fuck thats when i realized i was better off not making any friends irl.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Are you from Pakistani because pakistani muslim parents teach thier children to hate non Muslims

half Indian/half paki

 

[Dramus17]

Where people ghost you IRL

Like for example you talk to people and you get to befriend them

then maybe a couple of weeks or months or a year later they ghost you and act like you never had a big friendship bond to begin with and then they go befriend someone else

this is what happens to me alot, I dont say much at all and I know Im a good friend because I am nice and loyal to people if people have a problem I always try my best to help them and some brocels I befriended here can attest to that

People know that I am low value, they know that I am just a nobody, I have no sexual experience, I have no friends or social circle to begin with, they know I am quiet and they know I skipped going to highschool early so I am unable to talk about highschool shit and gossip about other people and on top of all that I am an ugly curry I do not look pleasant to look at and people have said this to me so any chance of being a social chameleon or an extrovert goes right out the window because whenever I speak people just look at me blabber some words and then ignore me

I can get along with people very easily but its keeping them as a friend that's hard, I see so many people that have friends for years and hang out with them meanwhile the people I befriend I may hang out with them once in awhile but then we stop and then they act like I don't exist anymore

It hurts alot too because you expect this from foids but you never expect this from a male friend

Why does this happen? And does this happen to any of you? And any of you guys socially isolated aswell?

I don't want to be lonely I just want someone that I can call my brother thats pretty much it

Same thing for me, people can just sense that on you, ngl.

 

[Spongebozz]

sounds like me

 

[Dramus17]

Over for non-friendhavers

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

i played the chameleon role and simply said lines I saw on TV

Same, how do normies know what to say and make up their own material on the spot I will never know.

 

[Doomer Guy]

@Doomer Guy

thoughts?

Story of my life. I'm always (and still am) nice, kind and polite with everyone, yet all the friends I made along the way ended up ghosting me sooner or later. I reached the conclusion that the two main reasons in my case are the following:

1. I am easily replaceable: No matter what group hobby I choose to practice, there will always be people better than me, therefore more interesting to be around. So even if I make a friend and he likes me, he'll soon find a better friend than me and forget about me. This is pretty much how a 4-year friendship ended for me.

2. It is very easy to forget about my existence because I have nothing going on for me: I am on the uglier and shorter side, no sexual experience, not interested in normie music or normie hobbies, non-NT, introverted, self-conscious... All I can offer is my kindness and altruism, which is worth nothing in today's soyciety. Also, to make things worse, I commonly feel disconnected from the reality and have the impression to be a third-person observator which prevents me from engaging in conversation a lot of times...