Does something that could make life exciting and worth living exist for us? Something to incite passion.

[Deleted member 7448]

I keep hearing and reading about normies having passions, deep interests that make them dedicate their lives to it.

Idk, maybe it's the decade of depression, maybe I was always like this, but nothing interests me like that. It's all I really want, to be consumed by something so much I want to do it all day every day.

A passion could be a source of happiness for people like us. And yet I don't think anybody on this forum has one? I don't think the simple lack of love/sex makes us unable to find a passion. Is passion just a myth then?

 

[Transcended Trucel]

I have heard of ECT where they fry your brain. Some people report it makes em new person. So if really bored might be worth a try

 

[Deleted member 17419]

Heroin mogs passion, tbh. Not even close..

 

[Deleted member 29033]

I've tried everything but there's nothing to get up in the morning for

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Heroin mogs passion, tbh. Not even close..

That does sound fun but please look after your health. Stick with weed, that can be fun enough. Being sick would multiply your suffering bro.

I have heard of ECT where they fry your brain. Some people report it makes em new person. So if really bored might be worth a try

Sound shifty tbh, like some procedure they'd do 50 years ago.

I've tried everything but there's nothing to get up in the morning for

It is tough, I can't even imagine liking something anymore.

 

[SkramzHandz]

Most normies don't seem to have a set passion. They just fill in the gaps with relationships, sex, vacations, etc. Things that will keep them busy and (ideally) happy. My passion is music and I am grateful for it everyday.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Most normies don't seem to have a set passion. They just fill in the gaps with relationships, sex, vacations, etc. Things that will keep them busy and (ideally) happy. My passion is music and I am grateful for it everyday.

Happy to hear that, cherish that passion. How many hours a day do you spend on music?

 

[SirIncel]

Passion is what comes after you have your existential needs met, which we don't have.

 

[Seung]

If you’re white then SEAmaxxxing could be a passion, aside from that there’s nothing that comes to mind.

 

[SkramzHandz]

Happy to hear that, cherish that passion. How many hours a day do you spend on music?

I am learning to play the guitar and spend a couple of hours at least (between work and school its hard to make time). If I'm not playing I'm listening. Music has really helped me keep sane and the best part is it doesn't fucked my body up like my other copes.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

If you’re white then SEAmaxxxing could be a passion, aside from that there’s nothing that comes to mind.

Thanks for popping your cherry in my thread. Though I don't see sex as a passion, more like a desire or need.

Passion is what comes after you have your existential needs met, which we don't have.

That's true, Maslow's pyramid. But my idea of passion is something that is just so captivating to you that sex and all that is not the focus of your life, the passion is.

 

[ihaveno1]

Passion is what comes after you have your existential needs met, which we don't have.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I am learning to play the guitar and spend a couple of hours at least (between work and school its hard to make time). If I'm not playing I'm listening. Music has really helped me keep sane and the best part is it doesn't fucked my body up like my other copes.

Very nice, even admirable that you have the energy for that between school AND work.

 

[Deleted member 17419]

That does sound fun but please look after your health. Stick with weed, that can be fun enough. Being sick would multiply your suffering bro.

Thanks empathymaxxed brocel but it's all good. Withdrawals can't pull me down below my 'normal' state, I'll ride it out. I wish I could give you some drugs, ngl...

 

[SirIncel]

But my idea of passion is something that is just so captivating to you that sex and all that is not the focus of your life, the passion is.

I really like learning languages and do it every day but my inceldom is still the focus.

 

[SkramzHandz]

Very nice, even admirable that you have the energy for that between school AND work.

I appreciate that. Trust me, I am drowning a bit. Another one of the tough parts about being an incel is you don't get a support system. No woman to unwind with at the end of a long day. Etc. Other students in my online classes talk about how supportive their SO is. How they couldn't make it without them. jfl

I really like learning languages and do it every day but my inceldom is still the focus.

I've been wanting to learn something new. I always thought french was cool. What are you learning right now?

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I have no passions

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Thanks empathymaxxed brocel but it's all good. Withdrawals can't pull me down below my 'normal' state, I'll ride it out. I wish I could give you some drugs, ngl...

Yeah but withdrawals are temporary man. It's intense pain but it goes away eventually. What I'm talking about is the damage to your system that adds up after a few years. Your brain, your heart, your other organs - they are all slowly damaged. Weed is fun enough man, just stick to weed. Why mess with harder stuff that wrecks you?

 

[WØLF]

I appreciate that. Trust me, I am drowning a bit. Another one of the tough parts about being an incel is you don't get a support system. No woman to unwind with at the end of a long day. Etc. Other students in my online classes talk about how supportive their SO is. How they couldn't make it without them. jfl

They would blow their brains out after a day in our shoes

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I appreciate that. Trust me, I am drowning a bit. Another one of the tough parts about being an incel is you don't get a support system. No woman to unwind with at the end of a long day. Etc. Other students in my online classes talk about how supportive their SO is. How they couldn't make it without them. jfl

I've been wanting to learn something new. I always thought french was cool. What are you learning right now?

Believe me, having energy to play music while holding a job and studying means you can go far in life. Take it from a guy who genuinely is the laziest person around, with barely enough energy to get out of bed: what you're doing is worth it. Builds character too.

But idk about that support system stuff. The way I see it you can't unburden yourself to a woman, not even normies, cause they are beings that just seek benefits, showing weakness and vulnerability to them can only hurt a man. Idk, maybe I'm too cynical.

I really like learning languages and do it every day but my inceldom is still the focus.

Curious, do programming langues interest you as much?

 

[SirIncel]

Curious, do programming langues interest you as much?

No only real languages. I'm not good with computers.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

No only real languages. I'm not good with computers.

Do you plan to travel and use all that knowledge of languages?

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I have heard of ECT where they fry your brain. Some people report it makes em new person. So if really bored might be worth a try

Psychs sound safer

 

[SkramzHandz]

No only real languages. I'm not good with computers.

Hey you would be surprised how well you would do with the right introduction. Python is a great starting programming language for example

Believe me, having energy to play music while holding a job and studying means you can go far in life. Take it from a guy who genuinely is the laziest person around, with barely enough energy to get out of bed: what you're doing is worth it. Builds character too.

But idk about that support system stuff. The way I see it you can't unburden yourself to a woman, not even normies, cause they are beings that just seek benefits, showing weakness and vulnerability to them can only hurt a man. Idk, maybe I'm too cynical.

Nah you aren't being cynical at all. The people talking about how great their SO is are the fortunate ones. I am sure there are plenty who are feeling the opposite while juggling the same weight.

 

[SirIncel]

Do you plan to travel and use all that knowledge of languages?

Yes I learned Chinese and want to run JBW game in China. I wanted to go this year for a few months but now the country is locked because of corona. 太可惜啊

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Yes I learned Chinese and want to run JBW game in China. I wanted to go this year for a few months but now the country is locked because of corona. 太可惜啊

Wow, Chinese? Shit I thought you were learning french or something, Chinese is a really tough challenge, quite an achievement. You could even make money knowing Chinese and other languages. Nice. Plus you can read all those chinese web novels without waiting for a translation.

 

[The Cagot]

I keep hearing and reading about normies having passions, deep interests that make them dedicate their lives to it.

Idk, maybe it's the decade of depression, maybe I was always like this, but nothing interests me like that. It's all I really want, to be consumed by something so much I want to do it all day every day.

A passion could be a source of happiness for people like us. And yet I don't think anybody on this forum has one? I don't think the simple lack of love/sex makes us unable to find a passion. Is passion just a myth then?

Mine are Lego and video games. It helps not to fall into deep depression. Video games gave me 95% of all the pleasure I had in life.
A passion is a thing you naturally want to do. I'm not forced to play video games or building Lego sets. I just appreciate to do it.
Find a thing you like to do. Test many things. It came naturally for me : I started Lego at age 4 and video games at age 7. I don't really know how to find a passion at an adult age.

 

[Billowel]

I keep hearing and reading about normies having passions, deep interests that make them dedicate their lives to it.

Idk, maybe it's the decade of depression, maybe I was always like this, but nothing interests me like that. It's all I really want, to be consumed by something so much I want to do it all day every day.

A passion could be a source of happiness for people like us. And yet I don't think anybody on this forum has one? I don't think the simple lack of love/sex makes us unable to find a passion. Is passion just a myth then?

normies are only interested in sex,money and status.they couldn't give a fuck about everything else.jfl at normies "passions".

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Mine are Lego and video games. It helps not to fall into deep depression. Video games gave me 95% of all the pleasure I had in life.
A passion is a thing you naturally want to do. I'm not forced to play video games or building Lego sets. I just appreciate to do it.
Find a thing you like to do. Test many things. It came naturally for me : I started Lego at age 4 and video games at age 7. I don't really know how to find a passion at an adult age.

Playing video games is all I've really done with my life. But tbh I don't really enjoy it, haven't for years. For several years now I spend several hours every day just searching for games. Installing, uninstalling, reinstalling some games. Tried so many, nothing fills the void.

 

[SirIncel]

Wow, Chinese? Shit I thought you were learning french or something, Chinese is a really tough challenge, quite an achievement. You could even make money knowing Chinese and other languages. Nice. Plus you can read all those chinese web novels without waiting for a translation.

Thanks. Yes, it's really difficult. Unfortunately I'm not fluent in reading yet because of the sheer amount of symbols but in speaking I can get by.

 

[The Cagot]

Playing video games is all I've really done with my life. But tbh I don't really enjoy it, haven't for years. For several years now I spend several hours every day just searching for games. Installing, uninstalling, reinstalling some games. Tried so many, nothing fills the void.

It's not easy to find the game made for you. There are plenty of video games genres and their quality differs a lot, from garbage to perfection.
Maybe there's a video game perfect for you and you just haven't heard of it. What are the types of games you enjoy ?

 

[Deleted member 7448]

It's not easy to find the game made for you. There are plenty of video games genres and their quality differs a lot, from garbage to perfection.
Maybe there's a video game perfect for you and you just haven't heard of it. What are the types of games you enjoy ?

I mean it man, I've spend hundreds if not thousands of hours just searching for games. Tried all kinds, it's ridiculous how much I tried. Ehh, whatever, guess I'm just burned out from rotting too much and having no other entertainment.

 

[The Cagot]

I mean it man, I've spend hundreds if not thousands of hours just searching for games. Tried all kinds, it's ridiculous how much I tried. Ehh, whatever, guess I'm just burned out from rotting too much and having no other entertainment.

It's important to vary your passions. Even if the ones I prefer are Lego and video games, I also watch movies, series, Twitch streams, playing pétanque outdoors, hiking, writing, reading books, and so on. I don't think I could stay on a single passion. I must mix the salad.

 

[Deleted member 10150]

passion to cope

 

[Emba]

La Passione!

Spoiler: obligitory

There's no passion for your face!

My passion is herbal medicine and perennial foods research and growing.

I also have a few dwarf orange trees and got my first orange forming! They are very very slow! So far, one orange has taken almost a year to be thumb sized! Eventually, they will make a lot of fruit. But currently there's only one...

My hope is to become a valuable source in my community for food tree cuttings propagation. Wish me luck!

 

[Deleted member 7448]

La Passione!

Spoiler: obligitory

There's no passion for your face!

My passion is herbal medicine and perennial foods research and growing.

I also have a few dwarf orange trees and got my first orange forming! They are very very slow! So far, one orange has taken almost a year to be thumb sized! Eventually, they will make a lot of fruit. But currently there's only one...

My hope is to become a valuable source in my community for food tree cuttings propagation. Wish me luck!

Wow, that is pretty cool actually, good luck.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

yes but you need the love of an unused teen first

Passion is what comes after you have your existential needs met, which we don't have.

 

[Sportbro]

Passion is what comes after you have your existential needs met, which we don't have.

existential needs?
you mean love/intimacy?

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I keep hearing and reading about normies having passions, deep interests that make them dedicate their lives to it.

Idk, maybe it's the decade of depression, maybe I was always like this, but nothing interests me like that. It's all I really want, to be consumed by something so much I want to do it all day every day.

A passion could be a source of happiness for people like us. And yet I don't think anybody on this forum has one? I don't think the simple lack of love/sex makes us unable to find a passion. Is passion just a myth then?

I don't think so, I know I don't have one. All I ever wanted was a gf.

But I keep hearing people here having "copes" which they need money for so idk.

 

[ionlycopenow]

You need basic physical needs met before that happens. It's in the hierarchy of needs for a reason

 

[SirIncel]

existential needs?
you mean love/intimacy?

Sex and love/intimacy both come long before passion.

 

[Deleted member 28903]

Yes, I have a lot of passions.

 

[Emba]

Wow, that is pretty cool actually, good luck.

Thanks bro!

 

[Deleted member 29230]

A new video game too play

 

[Incline]

I have heard of ECT where they fry your brain. Some people report it makes em new person. So if really bored might be worth a try

Seems interesting I wonder how severe are the changes? Might have to add this to my list of potential to do things to fix my fucked up brain.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Seems interesting I wonder how severe are the changes? Might have to add this to my list of potential to do things to fix my fucked up brain.

Temporary loss of short term memory occurs tho. And there is slight(1%>) chance of permanent damage to long term memory.

 

[based_meme]

Passion isn't something that falls from the sky onto your lap. It's intrinsic in its origin. Yes, there may be something external that sparks it inside of you, but it's never something outside of you that you can reach out and take. You won't find passion on a countertop somewhere with your name on it, ready to be held and claimed by you.