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Serious Does long term inceldom destroy pair-bonding?

late20scel

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Im talking about the older cels, not the "Im 15 and incel" retards. Im 29 and I feel like I cant pair bond with anyone anymore. Im cynical about all social life. I would like to hear opinions from older cels.
 
The boat has sailed, the train has left the station, there's no hope, no ambition, just pure darkness awaits ahead
 
It was already discussed but anyway yes to some extent
 
Also im 27 some emotions younger-cels can't comprehend i envy their youth tbh
 
I cannot bond with anyone. When I see women, I just cross the street. When women try to speak with me, I just avoid them.
 
The boat has sailed, the train has left the station, there's no hope, no ambition, just pure darkness awaits ahead
And in the End.. @Doesitmatter?
 
I cannot bond with anyone. When I see women, I just cross the street. When women try to speak with me, I just avoid them.
If they get raped on broad daylight, and i Happen to walk past them while they Beg for help, i chuckle to myself "meh, enjoy your cake! my lady"
 
Yep, i'm too far gone and will never recover
 
Yes, I hate everyone now. Even my famy and parents. And all my old friends. I only like to talk to strangers who look like they suffered in life as well.
 
I'm not an old oldcel but I definitely think inceldom ruins the ability to bond with anyone, and it probably gets worse with time.
 
Yes, I hate everyone now. Even my famy and parents. And all my old friends. I only like to talk to strangers who look like they suffered in life as well.
True

I can feel sympathy only with someone that has total truecel tier looks and height
 
31 here and same. No chance I'll pair bond, its over. We have swallowed the blackpill, we will always be insecure about things.
 
I think it does, i'm almost 31. I dont think i can even have friends given how disillusioned i am with the world not to even mention the more subconscious stuff that loneliness does to someone. We older cels and wizards are trully buckbroken. But idgaf anymore :feelsUgh:
 
Depends.

If you were to get into a relationship or even form 'new' friendships now (hypothetically), it would seem exciting, but then later on, your mind may just be out of it because you've been used to being alone for this long. As well as having been socially stunted and it would also be hard to maintain them as well.

It's probably not worth entertaining this thought. Many people/normies purposely gatekeep below average men from joining their social circles. People's social circle already becomes tight nit by their early to mid 20s. But then again... friendships to relationships to marriages... they're all transactional; everyone has something to gain from each other... so to cope with it... it isn't as genuine or authentic as it is, which I'm sure you'll realize as you age along.
 
The problem is not that we are incapable of pair-bonding, it's that no female wants to give us that opportunity.
It's the complete lack of romantic, sexual and relationship experience that makes it even harder, the older you get the more chance you'll stay single as a man now. Women's expectations of a partner are higher, the minimum grade is out of reach for a sizable number of normies never mind guys that really struggle.
 

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