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Does life get better as you age?

Does life get better as you age?

  • No, that's bluepilled life gets worse as you deteriorate

    Votes: 32 61.5%
  • Yes, you begin to accept fate and become content with age

    Votes: 4 7.7%
  • idk because I'm under 30.

    Votes: 16 30.8%

  • Total voters
    52
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No, that's bluepilled life gets worse as you deteriorate​

 
Yes, you begin to accept fate and become content with age
 
Depends in which aspect, "getting better" is completely subjective to begin with
 
The only good thing about getting older and I'm in my 30s is basically you begin not to care anymore. I have become a hermit and I make sure to stay the fuck away from people because my experience throughout life has been people only cause you pain and suffering and as I got older I realized it was a waste of time for me to even try and fit in, get a girlfriend, have sex, be socially accepted within the world. I gave all that up. I just don't know why I continue to be alive at this point. I do miss the body I had in my younger years. I could have been ripped by now if I stayed healthy.
 
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Depends in which aspect, "getting better" is completely subjective to begin with
I mean like the suicidal thoughts, thinking about all the cringey embarrassing stuff all the time, stuff like that. Like will you just learn to be happy with what you have and you are content with your existence.
 
Yes, yes, yes.....not really. I've write about it in a older post

 
The only good thing about getting older and I'm in my 30s is basically you begin not to care anymore. I have become a hermit and I make sure to stay the fuck away from people. Because my experience throughout life has been people. Only cause you pain and suffering and as I got older I realized it was a waste of time for me to even try and fit in get a girlfriend have sex b. Socially accepted within the world I gave all that up. I just don't know why I continue to be alive at this point. I do miss the body I had in my younger years. I could have been written by now if I stayed healthy.
See this gives me hope, I've been told by my dad and a lot of people you eventually stop caring, and that's what I want, I don't want things to magically get better, I want to just not give a fuck, not cringe at my past, and just LDAR happily.
 
Yes, yes, yes.....not really. I've write about it in a older post

Eh, you're 24? I'm older than you by 3 years.
 
I mean like the suicidal thoughts, thinking about all the cringey embarrassing stuff all the time, stuff like that. Like will you just learn to be happy with what you have and you are content with your existence.
I don't think something like this is like a status effect in a game that will end once you hit a certain age. Depends on the person and their mentality
 
I don't think something like this is like a status effect in a game that will end once you hit a certain age. Depends on the person and their mentality
i c

Well I can say that becoming a "young adult" has helped quite a bit, as a teenager I was filled with rage and harmful ideation, looking back I think I was a lot more confused and emotional back then.
 
if you are incel why would it get better? :feelshaha:
 
Fuck no. Don't be foolish.
Your anxiety, stress related maladies, health of all your organs, your sense of peace, & eventually your hope, all get worse.
Your lonlieness mounts. You become more & more cynical if you're rational minded.
Lonlieness mounts, so do feelings of disgrace & self loathing.
Your cortisol exceeds life sustaining limits. You are so stressed, sad & lonely it effects your heart. Heart disease, or GI diseases, or even stroke, become increasingly more likely as you are dying from a young age.

It's Hell
 
Life gets worse as you age and your body starts to deteriorate and we’re expected to live for 80 years 80 years of this bullshit
 
Fuck no. Don't be foolish.
Your anxiety, stress related maladies, health of all your organs, your sense of peace, & eventually your hope, all get worse.
Your lonlieness mounts. You become more & more cynical if you're rational minded.
Lonlieness mounts, so do feelings of disgrace & self loathing.
Your cortisol exceeds life sustaining limits. You are so stressed, sad & lonely it effects your heart. Heart disease, or GI diseases, or even stroke, become increasingly more likely as you are dying from a young age.

It's Hell
Good god, pERhaps thERe is no hope.
 
As a 29 yo cel, you stop giving a shit about women as you get older and at the same time start looking for meaning outside of that. I've always said that every incel should have goals besides those involving women. I basically look at hot women and see a Ferrari or some equally unobtainable piece of wealth. Gradually, you start chasing after things you can realistically do. My current goal as of right now is to get to $500k USD and leave the US to have a kid via surrogacy, where I will not work while he is very young, and then return to work afterwards in a limited capacity, living off of a combination of savings and work.

Essentially, my goal is to leave the west, as I know it has no future for us. I would also like to perhaps contribute to a male only nation at some point. As the blackpill spreads, male separatism will spread as well.
 
As a 29 yo cel, you stop giving a shit about women as you get older and at the same time start looking for meaning outside of that. I've always said that every incel should have goals besides those involving women. I basically look at hot women and see a Ferrari or some equally unobtainable piece of wealth. Gradually, you start chasing after things you can realistically do. My current goal as of right now is to get to $500k USD and leave the US to have a kid via surrogacy, where I will not work while he is very young, and then return to work afterwards in a limited capacity, living off of a combination of savings and work.

Essentially, my goal is to leave the west, as I know it has no future for us. I would also like to perhaps contribute to a male only nation at some point. As the blackpill spreads, male separatism will spread as well.
This, I'm a couple years younger and I find one really good meaningful cope, especially a profitable cope is lifefuel more than anything.
 
Men peak in their early 20s. It's all downhill from there.
 
This, I'm a couple years younger and I find one really good meaningful cope, especially a profitable cope is lifefuel more than anything.
Indeed. Moneymaxxing is the best cope, since it opens up so many other copes. If I were a bluepilled retard, I would have bought a $100k car and a $400k condo/house on my salary using loans and would be a slave to the banker/corporate system forever. Now I just stack cash and wait.
 
Indeed. Moneymaxxing is the best cope, since it opens up so many other copes. If I were a bluepilled retard, I would have bought a $100k car and a $400k condo/house on my salary using loans and would be a slave to the banker/corporate system forever. Now I just stack cash and wait.
Fr, my moneymaxxing copes aren't insanely profitable but tbh I could NEET and have my own home if I own the mortage, that's my plan. Just work a part time job or barely work and just live in my house and cope all day.
 
no, you just get balder and fatter. so it's best to get extra strong copes
 
I envy guys that don't give a fuck because I've been a worrier since I was born, I have a seriously troubled mind, I'm a fuckin prisoner of my mind.
 
I envy guys that don't give a fuck because I've been a worrier since I was born, I have a seriously troubled mind, I'm a fuckin prisoner of my mind.
Same, I get panic attacks often, never stop worrying, even about shit that makes no sense or truly I know does not matter.
 

No, that's bluepilled life gets worse as you deteriorate​

:feelsbadman::feelscry: The things that would make old age rewarding are building your own family. Without that and especially if you don’t have at least close friends it’s gonna be lonely time in your elderly years where you look back and wish things had gone different.

Especially if you never even get a house and wind up wage slaving your life away into old age. What a life eh? A real pitiful muck of a life.
 
:feelsbadman::feelscry: The things that would make old age rewarding are building your own family. Without that and especially if you don’t have at least close friends it’s gonna be lonely time in your elderly years where you look back and wish things had gone different.

Especially if you never even get a house and wind up wage slaving your life away into old age. What a life eh? A real pitiful muck of a life.
They are slowly moving on, I made friends with 2 chads, Both are nice people but they are slowly moving on, One got a GF too, I remember going fishing and gaming with one of the chads, I miss him, Now im stuck alone. Chad has moved on.
 
They are slowly moving on, I made friends with 2 chads, Both are nice people but they are slowly moving on, One got a GF too, I remember going fishing and gaming with one of the chads, I miss him, Now im stuck alone. Chad has moved on.
Get involved in the drug game you will have great friends for life.
 
No it gets worse. im 24 and my T levels are starting to fall
 
Same, I get panic attacks often, never stop worrying, even about shit that makes no sense or truly I know does not matter.

ye that's the nature of anxiety, it's completely irrational and we can't control it. Coupled with clinical depression it's a sentence of lifelong hell. Generalised anxiety disorder also goes hand in hand with other anxieties like social anxiety, OCD. I experience anxiety attacks which are insufferable but I don't really get panic attacks which are more extreme. My depression is so bad, I have anhedonia which is a common symptom of long term depression, the inability to experience any perceivable joyful emotion, I'm just constantly low.

My worst days are when my anxiety is triggered, we all have those triggers, my trigger is my abusive brother or something else troubling my mind which is almost everythin. It can get so bad that I want to put a bullet through my brain to end the suffering. Mental health is a death sentence for many, I don't know how the fuck we continue to fight and persevere with this endless torment.
 
They are slowly moving on, I made friends with 2 chads, Both are nice people but they are slowly moving on, One got a GF too, I remember going fishing and gaming with one of the chads, I miss him, Now im stuck alone. Chad has moved on.
Friendships tend to be very shallow. I’ve moved a ton for work and literally all of my “friendships” burned out because I’m just not important to people. I know that, I don’t blame them for it. At some point I just stopped being able to “bond” with people since I know it’s all transactional and won’t last. Maybe it’s different if you’re popular and have charisma *shrug*

Over my life I tried manually changing my personality but eventually I gave up and I’ve had the best success with people by just keeping my mouth shut, never sharing my actual views, and doing my best to keep the other person talking about whatever.

Online friends I’ve had off and on but those friendships tend to be even more shallow.

It seems like the only way to get friends that value you is to be above them in status and station and ideally to be attractive as well. That seems to draw people like moths to a flame. For example a rich and famous handsome actor could go to a coffee shop and he’d have people he’s never met chomping at the bit to be his friend even if he never made time for them. Maybe that’s not real friendship either but at least then you have people reaching out who actually want to spend time with you and who are proud to have hang out with you.

People, including me, are just really shallow. I don’t think I used to be though. I was raised in a very deluded household and I wonder sometimes if people actually could be lifelong friends that are there for each other provided they met when they’re young, share similar values, that kinda thing. Seems like humanity should’ve stayed in small close knit communities to me. At least then we’d have real impact on how our community is run and you’d know and depend on your neighbors all your lives.
 
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ye that's the nature of anxiety, it's completely irrational and we can't control it. Coupled with clinical depression it's a sentence of lifelong hell. Generalised anxiety disorder also goes hand in hand with other anxieties like social anxiety, OCD. I experience anxiety attacks which are insufferable but I don't really get panic attacks which are more extreme. My depression is so bad, I have anhedonia which is a common symptom of long term depression, the inability to experience any perceivable joyful emotion, I'm just constantly low.

My worst days are when my anxiety is triggered, we all have those triggers, my trigger is my abusive brother or something else troubling my mind which is almost everythin. It can get so bad that I want to put a bullet through my brain to end the suffering. Mental health is a death sentence for many, I don't know how the fuck we continue to fight and persevere with this endless torment.
It's fucking tough because I cannot even enjoy drugs, my panic attacks have gotten much better, but I've had quite a few hospital trips in my life time. I truly have been tormented for so long, but it has gotten better in certain ways.
 
It's fucking tough because I cannot even enjoy drugs, my panic attacks have gotten much better, but I've had quite a few hospital trips in my life time. I truly have been tormented for so long, but it has gotten better in certain ways.
and no one will understand that torment but fellow sufferers like ourselves. This is why society continues to stigmatise mental health, due to a lack of understanding. Only those who live mental health understand mental health. In the eyes of society we should have nothin to worry about because 'others have it worse' like a starving child in Africa somehow invalidates an individual's long term mental health issues. Like we can magically flick a switch and it goes away. People are so fuckin ignorant, those who haven't lived it have no place to judge, we never chose to suffer.
 
My life peaked in primary school now that I look back
 
Yes. It gets easier, no matter what the morons here say.

Older men are less likely to be bullied in public, because teenagers don't see you on their same level.

Growing up has been fucking hell for me because everyone tried to fuck with me. That calmed down as I got older.
 
Yes. It gets easier, no matter what the morons here say.
Nope
Older men are less likely to be bullied in public, because teenagers don't see you on their same level.
Bullying happens more or less at its peak during preteen/early teen years. Later teens you usually get left alone if you’re quiet over for non NTs like me who have to jestermaxx
Growing up has been fucking hell for me because everyone tried to fuck with me. That calmed down as I got older.
Because you’re a neet jfl
 
The older you get the more you dwell on your past and realize how fucking dogshit your life has been. How you can never change back those moments and that is too late to even have a decent a bare minimum decent life
 
Bullying happens more or less at its peak during preteen/early teen years.
True
Because you’re a neet jfl
No, life has gotten easier because I got new copes and now know what I like or don't like. And also I accepted the black pill.

Life was far more hell as a younger person because you still had false hope.
 
No, life has gotten easier because I got new copes and now know what I like or don't like. And also I accepted the black pill.
What copes also copes that I find later in life piss me off because I wish I found these copes when I was younger. So it’s worse for me in the case. Also what about if you accepted the Blackpill as a teen
Life was far more hell as a younger person because you still had false hope.
True but it’s different for zoomers nowadays
 
Fuck no. Don't be foolish.
Your anxiety, stress related maladies, health of all your organs, your sense of peace, & eventually your hope, all get worse.
Your lonlieness mounts. You become more & more cynical if you're rational minded.
Lonlieness mounts, so do feelings of disgrace & self loathing.
Your cortisol exceeds life sustaining limits. You are so stressed, sad & lonely it effects your heart. Heart disease, or GI diseases, or even stroke, become increasingly more likely as you are dying from a young age.

It's Hell
don't forget about cancer that can also happen from stress (especially if you are a dumb vaxxier)
 
Honestly for me, it’s not good at all, but it has gotten better.

You have a career that you can kind of grift at and not take that seriously, higher pay, and you can be true to yourself and tell the rest of the human race to go fuck yourself. Plus, you get money for your copes.
 
Honestly for me, it’s not good at all, but it has gotten better.

You have a career that you can kind of grift at and not take that seriously, higher pay, and you can be true to yourself and tell the rest of the human race to go fuck yourself. Plus, you get money for your copes.
Ye, it's not all bad, I would consider teenagehood to be the worst, looking back I was a mess.
 

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