Does giving up make you a volcel?

[Popovshishman]

Would giving up make you a volcel? I've been thrown into the friendzone every time and when I thought I had a chance, it turned out I never did. Planning on just giving up because it's fucked me quite a bit mentally and I cba anymore had enough. Lmk

 

[kaijicel]

only if you are not incel to begin with

 

[kaijicel]

but ig you can be both volcel and incel? idk

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

No

 

[SupremeAutist]

Only if you don't have incel tier stats

 

[BurntIvoryKingcel]

most likely yes. but that isn't necessarily a bad thing.

 

[Grodd]

No

 

[Popovshishman]

Forgot to add this in but do volcels still count, like its chill to be on the board still right

 

[stalkerKiller]

I'd say yes. I have personally given up too and sometimes I refer to myself as a volcel, though the most popular definition is that someone who could potentially get foids chooses not to get them.
According to said definition you are not a volcel.

 

[KHHVcel]

If you make literally 0 efforts to get a gf and you have a pretty stable social life (more than 1 friend IRL, multiple online friends, a job, and loving parents), I would say yes.
Someone with a good social life should never give up.

 

[Popovshishman]

I'd say yes. I have personally given up too and sometimes I refer to myself as a volcel, though the most popular definition is that someone who could potentially get foids chooses not to get them.
According to said definition you are not a volcel.

That's fair enough then, thanks for clearing it up

 

[Popovshishman]

If you make literally 0 efforts to get a gf and you have a pretty stable social life (more than 1 friend IRL, multiple online friends, a job, and loving parents), I would say yes.
Someone with a good social life should never give up.

Damn I only got 1 friend IRL, I've been trying to get a social circle IRL but my online one is massive.
Social life was non existent a few weeks ago though so there's that.
(I did have my old best friend but he fucked me over so that's done)

 

[Subhuman Niceguy]

No, it makes you blackpilled.

 

[Popovshishman]

No, it makes you blackpilled.

Tbh, I was before that watched thinking ape quite a few years ago now.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

You can’t lose a game you were never allowed to play. Calling it ‘giving up’ implies there was a chance to begin with. So no, I wouldn't consider someone a fakecel for realizing the situation is hopeless.

No, it makes you blackpilled.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

A volcel is someone who could get a girl but doesn't want to. It is his choice.
One who has given up has been defeated and disappointed too many times. It was not his choice.

 

[Sir Silentium]

No

 

[The_word_made_flesh]

Would giving up make you a volcel? I've been thrown into the friendzone every time and when I thought I had a chance, it turned out I never did. Planning on just giving up because it's fucked me quite a bit mentally and I cba anymore had enough. Lmk

No ,even if you give up ,you still want it,I have given up on owning a Bentley but I still want one and can't afford one ,a volcel would be like I can afford a Bentley and want one but I am buying a mini van instead.

1.A volcel wants and can have sex any time but chooses not to

2.An asexual never thinks of sex or wants it and sees sex as a non issue ,they are not volcels because its involuntary that they feel no sexual attraction

3.An incel wants and desires sex but cannot find it

Whether you give up has no bearing ,that is not the issue

 

[Emba]

It makes you sane

 

[Justanotherbloke]

No