Does anyone fail as hard at me on tinder?

[Uglychad]

I had 4 dates set up for next week by the time Saturday night was over. 

They've all since disappeared. One of them was talking to me alot on tinder then on whatsapp only replied once. 
Other took hours to respond then when she did said she didnt want to meet me anymore so i called her a cunt and blocked her 
Other one had her friend keep replying to me on her phone with voice notes. Drove me insane having to talk to this ugly cunt 4/10 instead of the one i wanted, the friend eventually said i was ugly, now the original girl hasnt replied. 
Other one is fat so i cancelled.

This is the issue with looking like a 5.5/6 in some pics then a 3 in others (most). 

I dunno if my ego can handle this much longer brahs

 

[Deleted member 306]

Keep trying. You have to leave this place.

 

[Alone75]

The rare times I matched any women on that and tried to escalate for a date they said no it's too soon then unmatched me, so at least you had some set up!

 

[jamho22]

I had 4 dates set up for next week by the time Saturday night was over. 

They've all since disappeared. One of them was talking to me alot on tinder then on whatsapp only replied once. 
Other took hours to respond then when she did said she didnt want to meet me anymore so i called her a cunt and blocked her 
Other one had her friend keep replying to me on her phone with voice notes. Drove me insane having to talk to this ugly cunt 4/10 instead of the one i wanted, the friend eventually said i was ugly, now the original girl hasnt replied. 
Other one is fat so i cancelled.

This is the issue with looking like a 5.5/6 in some pics then a 3 in others (most). 

I dunno if my ego can handle this much longer brahs

how do you handle the rejection...swap brains with me plz. I have 40 matches, two messaged me first and you know what I did....NOTHING

 

[CopingGymcel]

JFL at canceling dates. What has this site become?

 

[Zyros]

I had 4 dates set up for next week by the time Saturday night was over. 

Then I fail harder than you. With my profile pic as main in tinder, which is pretty good lightning and angle, I get almost no matches. Tinder in my area is pretty dead, but still is a very bad performance even for my area.

 

[CopingGymcel]

Then I fail harder than you. With my profile pic as main in tinder, which is pretty good lightning and angle, I get almost no matches. Tinder in my area is pretty dead, but still is a very bad performance even for my area.

Your pic is too tryhard and it looks unreal. Use more natural photos and photos of you and friends and you'll get a lot of matches.

 

[kvn]

i dont even have any photos of me to put on tinder

 

[Zyros]

Your pic is too tryhard and it looks unreal. Use more natural photos and photos of you and friends and you'll get a lot of matches.

Looks unreal? in which way?

Also "pic with friends" is cope I think. If you cant get girls without the need of social pics, its over. It needs to be pure raw attraction.

 

[CopingGymcel]

Looks unreal? in which way?

Also "pic with friends" is cope I think. If you cant get girls without the need of social pics, its over. It needs to be pure raw attraction.

The lighting, the posing, facial expressions, girls don't want to match with that. You look aesthetic, I'll give you that, but you don't give off the right vibe that girls want. When they can match with guys who are just as attractive as you are who have natural looking photos, why would they choose one that uses tryhard pics? You're coming off as a bit pretentious and narcissistic with those kinds of pics. Girls also want to see how you look like in everyday lighting, not just with cherry picked lighting. 

Again, you look really good in that pic, but it's not the kind of pic girls want to match with on Tinder.

Let's compare it to an Orb selfie. It looks a lot more natural and less forced (to a girl it looks like he just picked up his phone, looked into the camera and took a pic) and he is also at the looks level where having only selfies is not a huge deal breaker.

 

[PessimisticFailure]

You consider that failing on Tinder, I've gotten one match that unmatched me after 2 messages.

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

I can't even get a match bro, so.

 

[Zyros]

The lighting, the posing, facial expressions, girls don't want to match with that. You look aesthetic, I'll give you that, but you don't give off the right vibe that girls want. When they can match with guys who are just as attractive as you are who have natural looking photos, why would they choose one that uses tryhard pics? You're coming off as a bit pretentious and narcissistic with those kinds of pics. Girls also want to see how you look like in everyday lighting, not just with cherry picked lighting. 

Again, you look really good in that pic, but it's not the kind of pic girls want to match with on Tinder.

Oh I get what you mean now.

btw im narcissistic but not pretentions really: I know my place as 6/10 very very well.

 

[CopingGymcel]

Oh I get what you mean now.

btw im narcissistic but not pretentions really: I know my place as 6/10 very very well.

You're a 6.5, so you should definitely do well on Tinder, but you're not at the looks level where you can take shitty forced selfies and do well (7+). The difference between a 6.5 and a 7 is huge, but both can do well on Tinder if the 6.5 plays his cards right.

 

[jamho22]

Your pic is too tryhard and it looks unreal. Use more natural photos and photos of you and friends and you'll get a lot of matches.

I just fucking hate how the game is so rigged in favor of women..The onus is on us to make the extra effort of  taking professional grade and clear pictures with natural lighting or  taking outdoor pics with friends meanwhile some pouty landwhale can get by on a single selfie taken in a murky basement

 

[DankIncel]

You get dates? What are you doing here fakecel?

 

[FACEandLMS]

JFL at canceling dates. What has this site become?

I'm starting to think that I'm the only incel ever. Everyone else who claims to be is just a frigid aspie who doesn't know how to do anything except watch anime and play vidya. 

> CANCELLING DATES
> INCELS.ME

LMFAO. The truth is, I would leave this site and go on the FA or TFL subs/forums if they were blackpilled about looks. The incel community is actually a sham. It's a bunch of 22 yo awkward aspie nerds who think women should be raping them.

 

[CopingGymcel]

I'm starting to think that I'm the only incel ever. Everyone else who claims to be is just a frigid aspie who doesn't know how to do anything except watch anime and play vidya. 

> CANCELLING DATES
> INCELS.ME

LMFAO. The truth is, I would leave this site and go on the FA or TFL subs/forums if they were blackpilled about looks. The incel community is actually a sham. It's a bunch of 22 yo awkward aspie nerds who think women should be raping them.

God forbid they have to go on a date with a girl who isn't a 6/10.

 

[Alone75]

You consider that failing on Tinder, I've gotten one match that unmatched me after 2 messages.

It's bad also when you message first and they say sorry I liked you by accident, then disappear. It's a blow to an already fragile confidence.  :S

 

[CopingGymcel]

No way can you be struggling. You mog me hard and I was able to do okay on tinder.

Is Spain really that hypergamous? I always thought it was much better than anywhere in the Anglo sphere. When I went Barcelona, girls there were much nicer and friendly to me, also didn’t feel like a manlet.

You look a lot more approachable and natural in your pics than Zyros. The type of pics you use on Tinder makes a huge difference for anyone below Chadlite level.

 

[CopingGymcel]

Zyros is a Chadlite though, probably the only Chadlite on the forum.

I don't think he is quite there. He is good looking, but not quite a 7/10.

 

[FACEandLMS]

God forbid they have to go on a date with a girl who isn't a 6/10.

 

[Uglychad]

I dunno I’d say those results are pretty bad. That’s like an average weekend for me, getting rejected left right and centre

 

[FACEandLMS]

What you fakecel fuckers don't understand is that FAILING ON TINDER means FORGETTING IT'S INSTALLED. IT MEANS when you get a notification from Tinder, it's either:

- telling you that you haven't opened the app for weeks, or
- the match that it alerted you to, just a moment ago, is GONE.

This thread is an insult to actual incels. Maybe I should go to Rwanda and tell them what starving is like while eating a meatball subway.

 

[blackpill_incel]

how do you handle the rejection...swap brains with me plz. I have 40 matches, two messaged me first and you know what I did....NOTHING

Why are you here with 40 matches. Just message each one and ask if they're dtf

 

[Uglychad]

Also I don’t handle rejection well I get fuckinh angry