Discussion Does anyone else no longer desire friends?

[Stupid Clown]

When I was 14-18 I had a very high social drive. Not anymore. Even talking to family members or direct dming members on this forum is mentally taxing. I don't have the energy for it. I have no desire to make friends and doing so doesn't come naturally to me anymore. I'll have to go full on acting more which sounds fake and scares others off anyway.


I think the reason I've lost the desire to make friends is the sheer number of negative experiences I've had that have subconsciously blackpilled me to the extent that I no longer desire to socialize.

 

[Wrath]

I stopped desiring friends at 14

 

[justuseless]

Can't have friends when you have no life

 

[Stupid Clown]

I stopped desiring friends at 14

Brutal.

 

[Chingaquedito]

When I was 14-18 I had a very high social drive. Not anymore. Even talking to family members or direct dming members on this forum is mentally taxing. I don't have the energy for it. I have no desire to make friends and doing so doesn't come naturally to me anymore. I'll have to go full on acting more which sounds fake and scares others off anyway.


I think the reason I've lost the desire to make friends is the sheer number of negative experiences I've had that have subconsciously blackpilled me to the extent that I no longer desire to socialize.

maybe it's because you get enough social validation and attention in this forum,
and you may refuse to have friends (since they serve the same purpose) it is too difficult to live in absolute loneliness without anyone to talk with

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

I desire nothing, nothing at all. I'm amazed I'm still here tbh. Self preservation and the will to live life out is strange like that. Maybe subconsciously I still expect something or hope something will change when I know it won't. Or perhaps I'm just simply not ready to die yet.

 

[poorenglishcel]

Never did i think

 

[Friezacel]

I still desire friends whod share my hobbies and opinions, but i stopped looking for them or trying to make friends. Impossible if you are a short, ugly aspie with low social status

 

[kcarrots]

i don’t think I’ll ever stop desiring closeness to another human being

 

[RandomGuy]

false promises

 

[syberkozi]

I don't want friends. The friends I do want is half around the world, and that's no friendship at all.

 

[Poindexter]

Somewhat but after finding out my old group were nothing but snakes and assholes i'm fine with online friends

 

[Arook]

I can't form true friendship without being honest and I can't be honest about my worldview irl

 

[Oogger]

When I see how male "friends" treat each other and how having female "friends" meams literally abusinf you verbally and use you as a backup after getting pumped and dumped,being friendless doesnt seem too bad imo.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

I feel the same way, after recently finding out that there's nothing left for me irl, I just stopped caring about getting friends. Even more so when I see how normie men usually compete with each other and socially destroy you if you're a KHHV virgin. Better off to be alone than in bad company, you just gotta learn how to cope.

Somewhat but after finding out my old group were nothing but snakes and assholes i'm fine with online friends

Same. Had a reunion with my old "friends" from 5 years ago and absolutely nothing changed. They are still the same boring and bragging normgroids as always.

Can't really fit in if you don't frequently party or understand their in-group jokes. Right now, all I've got left are some few online friends, but I've learned not to get too attached (even there I've got a few who turned against me).

 

[loopcel]

I was like that in my late teens/early 20s but eventually the loneliness gets to you. it made me try to rekindle a few friendships from my school days but as you age those become difficult to maintain because of how much the both of you will change. my best friend and I have grown apart a lot, it's had me sad for a while.