Venting Does anyone else feel overwhelmed by the discrepancy between porn and what you can get IRL?

[Mainländer]

I have already made a thread on this subject, but I want to delve into it further.

Yesterday I was fapping to both an extremely hot busty Japanese foid getting deepthroated by multiple guys to the point of throwing up and an absolutely gorgeous Russian 18 yo teen anally masturbating with a pen. Then I look at my Tinder: after several days using it, I got one match with a HUGE brown landwhale, who solemnly ignored my opening line and unmatched soon after.

Just trying to have a date with an obese, nonwhite, unattractive foid and maybe kiss her twice or so before getting ghosted looks like such a herculean, impossible task. How is it even possible that some people throatfuck that hot Japanese chick until she pukes, or that someone exists that manages to fuck that Russian young foid? She was just too attractive.

Don't you a get a very pervasive, gut-wrenching feeling when you put things in perspective and see just how bad your prospects really are? And I'm 3,5-4/10, I take it sub 3 cels don't even get the useless match with the landwhale. Or even the privilege of being treated as a human in day to day life, really.

 

[StaroRavager]

the privilege of being treated as a human in day to day life, really.

I'd like tis more than anything

 

[Mainländer]

I'd like tis more than anything

The gap between good-looking and ugly males get exponentially bigger each point up or down the looks scale. Zyros was right, each and every point counts.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

That's why I avoid real porn tbh, I don't think seeing it is psychologically healthy for me.

I've been trying to separate my sexual arousal from even the idea of 3D foids by associating it with something else, through repeated exposure.

 

[Mainländer]

That's why I avoid real porn tbh, I don't think seeing it is psychologically healthy for me.

I've been trying to separate my sexual arousal from even the idea of 3D foids by associating it with something else, through repeated exposure.

I fapped to 2D just the other day, for the first time in years.

I thought I was going to feel better because I too would like to get 3D foids entirely out of the equation, but the fetishes I fapped to were so fucked up that I actually felt just as bad.

In order to feel truly good I must fap to non-degenerate, "pure", things, like a young girl in a bikini or something. But it's tough to get off to mere NN after being so far gone. I'd need some days of nofap at least.

And to think that if I had a girl from the start I would most likely not even have gotten into that porn addiction cycle.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

Some people would say porn is unrealistic and they are probably right for the average man. Every hot chick you see while out in public is only reserved for Chad.

I try to avoid porn, but their are a few JAV performers that I like to watch. Watching porn usually ends with me shaking, nearly crying and curled up in the fetal position because I realize I will never have anything like that.

Not only will I not have a beautiful girl, I probably will never have any woman or family. I’d settle for a ugly but good hearted woman, but I’m not sure even that exists for us.

I’m really hoping it all ends soon.

 

[Mainländer]

Some people would say porn is unrealistic and they are probably right for the average man. Every hot chick you see while out in public is only reserved for Chad.

I try to avoid porn, but their are a few JAV performers that I like to watch. Watching porn usually ends with me shaking, nearly crying and curled up in the fetal position because I realize I will never have anything like that.

Not only will I not have a beautiful girl, I probably will never have any woman or family. I’d settle for a ugly but good hearted woman, but I’m not sure even that exists for us.

I’m really hoping it all ends soon.

For me the great niche of JAV over western porn is that since fuck-up weird stuff is normatized in Japanese culture, you get young, truly hot foids doing extremely kinky stuff. Things that, in western porn, you'd only find older/uglier foids with that cheap prostitute aura doing.

Yeah, it's like @FACEandLMS said in his last video, it's not that you have to settle or lower your standards or anything, you get NOTHING. NO-THING. There's no "oh, I will just try the less gorgeous and slutty nerdy friend", no, that nerdy friend is reserved to the 7,5/10 Chadlite, and the gorgeous slutty girl is for 9/10 Chad.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I fapped to 2D just the other day, for the first time in years.

I thought I was going to feel better because I too would like to get 3D foids entirely out of the equation, but the fetishes I fapped to were so fucked up that I actually felt just as bad.

Most of the stuff I like is pretty vanilla, so maybe that's why I can fap to 2D without feeling bad. But I'm not sure tbh.

Watching porn usually ends with me shaking, nearly crying and curled up in the fetal position because I realize I will never have anything like that.

I've had similar experiences, I'd fap and feel absolutely terrible about myself afterwards.

I’d settle for a ugly but good hearted woman, but I’m not sure even that exists for us.

Yeah I'd happily take an ugly foid, provided that she isn't obese, and is around my own age or younger. But that's a ridiculous desire by 2019 standards. For the past couple years I've been trying to stop caring. However I'd still like to experience sex a few times, so I at least know what it feels like.

 

[Deleted member 11032]

Yesterday I was fapping to both an extremely hot busty Japanese foid getting deepthroated by multiple guys

Hitomi Tanaka?

Then I look at my Tinder: after several days using it, I got one match with a HUGE brown landwhale, who solemnly ignored my opening line and unmatched soon after.

JFL at starting a convo. I thought you found landwhales abhorrent? Let this be a lesson to you for lowering your standards.

 

[Mainländer]

Hitomi Tanaka?

Spoiler

Have fun boyo: https://www5.javmost.com/MISM-097/

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

Loli hentai :<

 

[Deleted member 11032]

Spoiler

Have fun boyo: https://www5.javmost.com/MISM-097/

Her gimmick is she only rails Japanese men. One time there was a video of an American man filming her in softcore and it mysteriously was deleted in the subsequent days.
Edit: Ok this is someone different.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

For me the great niche of JAV over western porn is that since fuck-up weird stuff is normatized in Japanese culture, you get young, truly hot foids doing extremely kinky stuff. Things that, in western porn, you'd only find older/uglier foids with that cheap prostitute aura doing.

Yeah, it's like @FACEandLMS said in his last video, it's not that you have to settle or lower your standards or anything, you get NOTHING. NO-THING. There's no "oh, I will just try the less gorgeous and slutty nerdy friend", no, that nerdy friend is reserved to the 7,5/10 Chadlite, and the gorgeous slutty girl is for 9/10 Chad.

Even absolute landwhales are reserved for 5/10 guys. I often watch “My 600lb Life” and almost every fat foid on that show has a average looking boyfriend. If I can’t even get a second look from 400lb landwhales, why should I think I have a chance with any attractive women? I don’t.

Actual attractive women in the US, at least where I live, are extremely rare. Most women are nearing 200lbs, covered in tattoos/piercings and have had 15+ sexual partners by 25 years old. 99% of women have shitty attitudes with foul mouths, most women I know cuss more than the men I know. They are always talking about degenerate shit at work too. Their only interests are pop culture and Chad dick, nothing of substance.

 

[Mainländer]

Her gimmick is she only rails Japanese men. One time there was a video of an American man filming her in softcore and it mysteriously was deleted in teh subsequent days.

There's another film of her in which she drinks the sperm of 102 absolutely incel-tier Japanese men, and then a guy deepthroats her until she pukes it back into the container.

JAV is lifefuel in a way, because you see plenty of incel-tier men fucking gorgeous women. Better than seeing some western Chad doing it I guess.

"Thanksgiving" is a great tag.

 

[Deleted member 11032]

I have already made a thread on this subject, but I want to delve into it further.

Yesterday I was fapping to both an extremely hot busty Japanese foid getting deepthroated by multiple guys to the point of throwing up and an absolutely gorgeous Russian 18 yo teen anally masturbating with a pen. Then I look at my Tinder: after several days using it, I got one match with a HUGE brown landwhale, who solemnly ignored my opening line and unmatched soon after.

Just trying to have a date with an obese, nonwhite, unattractive foid and maybe kiss her twice or so before getting ghosted looks like such a herculean, impossible task. How is it even possible that some people throatfuck that hot Japanese chick until she pukes, or that someone exists that manages to fuck that Russian young foid? She was just too attractive.

Don't you a get a very pervasive, gut-wrenching feeling when you put things in perspective and see just how bad your prospects really are? And I'm 3,5-4/10, I take it sub 3 cels don't even get the useless match with the landwhale. Or even the privilege of being treated as a human in day to day life, really.

You advocate for high T men and the theory that pretty boys were not selected in the past. Yet you do not demonstrate any high T behaviour yourself. If you want something enough you supersede any reservations and take it.

There's another film of her in which she drinks the sperm of 102 absolutely incel-tier Japanese men, and then a guy deepthroats her until she pukes it back into the container.

JAV is lifefuel in a way, because you see plenty of incel-tier men fucking gorgeous women. Better than seeing some western Chad doing it I guess.

"Thanksgiving" is a great tag.

Why don't you sign up for bukkake? It's better than having sex with a condom.

but the fetishes I fapped to were so fucked up that I actually felt just as bad.

 

[Mainländer]

Most women are nearing 200lbs, covered in tattoos/piercings and have had 15+ sexual partners by 25 years old. 99% of women have shitty attitudes with foul mouths, most women I know cuss more than the men I know. They are always talking about degenerate shit at work too. Their only interests are pop culture and Chad dick, nothing of substance.

And to add insult to injury, you're supposed to feel 100% attracted to and find nothing wrong with those, while at the same time thinking someone like this:

Spoiler

...is just a child, 0% sexually attractive, in fact even thinking about her in any remotely romantically interested way, not even sexually mind you, romantically, should get you put to death.

CLOWN WORLD, my friend.

You advocate for high T men and the theory that pretty boys were not selected in the past. Yet you do not demonstrate any high T behaviour yourself. If you want something enough you supersede any reservations and take it.

I agree. I have a weird personality, because I'm very high T but at the same time extremely circumspect and unwilling to take risks.

I'm a unique snowflake

Why don't you sign up for bukkake? It's better than having sex with a condom.

I'm not Japanese and don't have the money to go to Japan. Also, I'm not a JAV buyer, I think they only get their clients to get featured in such movies.

 

[IamLost]

I have already made a thread on this subject, but I want to delve into it further.

Yesterday I was fapping to both an extremely hot busty Japanese foid getting deepthroated by multiple guys to the point of throwing up and an absolutely gorgeous Russian 18 yo teen anally masturbating with a pen. Then I look at my Tinder: after several days using it, I got one match with a HUGE brown landwhale, who solemnly ignored my opening line and unmatched soon after.

Just trying to have a date with an obese, nonwhite, unattractive foid and maybe kiss her twice or so before getting ghosted looks like such a herculean, impossible task. How is it even possible that some people throatfuck that hot Japanese chick until she pukes, or that someone exists that manages to fuck that Russian young foid? She was just too attractive.

Don't you a get a very pervasive, gut-wrenching feeling when you put things in perspective and see just how bad your prospects really are? And I'm 3,5-4/10, I take it sub 3 cels don't even get the useless match with the landwhale. Or even the privilege of being treated as a human in day to day life, really.

Have you ever tried NOFAP?

 

[Mainländer]

Have you ever tried NOFAP?

Yes, I even got to the 120 days mark back in 2012.

I'm not a functional person when I haven't fapped for 120 days though. I get quivers and a racing heart often and can only think about sex. I don't even know how I managed to get that far, I guess I bought that "yourbrainonporn" narrative hard back then.

 

[Braincel14w]

Not just porn but images of glamour models in general have given me unrealistic hopes and standards during my deluded youth. Then soft tv porn made it worse by giving me the added expectation of being seduced by such a hot woman and then hard porn gave me the expectation of my cock being worshipped and slurped on without me having to do anything.

It would've been better if I'd never seen any of it and quickly learned that I would have to do all the work when it comes to seduction and sex. I was never good looking or powerful enough to be seduced by any foid but I still had that expectation because of what I had seen of other people having sex.

 

[Deleted member 17724]

And to think that if I had a girl from the start I would most likely not even have gotten into that porn addiction cycle.

Same I'm actually afraid that I have already fucked up my brain too much from fapping to porn for years since I'm youngcel. I've read lots of stories about men who had gotten so used to masturbation and porn that once they managed to get a real sexual partner, they just couldn't get an erection from her because they had gotten too used to their hand.

 

[Mainländer]

Not just porn but images of glamour models in general have given me unrealistic hopes and standards during my deluded youth. Then soft tv porn made it worse by giving me the added expectation of being seduced by such a hot woman and then hard porn gave me the expectation of my cock being worshipped and slurped on without me having to do anything.

It would've been better if I'd never seen any of it and quickly learned that I would have to do all the work when it comes to seduction and sex. I was never good looking or powerful enough to be seduced by any foid but I still had that expectation because of what I had seen of other people having sex.

Back in my redpilled PUA days, I thought every single man had to put lots of effort into getting and keeping foids. That's what helped me cope with the massive effort and low to nonexistent rewards of approaching.

But then I saw FACEandLMS's videos. Oh boy...

Same I'm actually afraid that I have already fucked up my brain too much from fapping to porn for years since I'm youngcel. I've read lots of stories about men who had gotten so used to masturbation and porn that once they managed to get a real sexual partner, they just couldn't get an erection from her because they had gotten too used to their hand.

Fapping to hardcore porn fucks your dopamine, that's 100% true. But from my escortcelling experiences I can tell you that a good 4 days nofap or so is enough to let you enjoy the real sex experience without any problems.

 

[Braincel14w]

Same I'm actually afraid that I have already fucked up my brain too much from fapping to porn for years since I'm youngcel. I've read lots of stories about men who had gotten so used to masturbation and porn that once they managed to get a real sexual partner, they just couldn't get an erection from her because they had gotten too used to their hand.

The only thing that stops a healthy young man from being able to get an erection is anxiety. Having expectations that are not met by the foid then not knowing what to do will cause anxiety but don't worry about anything being physically wrong with you due to fapping. I've been fapping myself to oblivion since age 7 and I am still able to perform with an escort.

 

[Mainländer]

The only thing that stops a healthy young man from being able to get an erection is anxiety

It could be things like low T or venous leakage as well.

An erection is a very complex process and lots of things can disturb it.

 

[Justdone]

I haven’t been around porn for quite some time now like +4.5 months. I turn my phone off many danm people get into it now. It’s not the same lol.

I've been fapping myself to oblivion since age 7 and I am still able to perform with an escort.

You better not be paying for porn being that you been watching it this long.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

i used to envy them but now i'm kind of against degeneracy, and i'm not gonna lie, that's mostly because i really hate refractory periods and the feeling that they create now. the only reason i haven't cut out the nearly daily 'degenerate time' at my PC is because there's rarely anything worthwhile to do after work.

i remember there were even guys who "fake it" by making terrible handcam recordings with porn stars that they put up on shitty websites that barely work, really their whole point is to legally get laid with their favorite porn stars, they don't care that the productions are awful and everyone is laughing at their small dick in the comments, the whole point is just to touch those women in private.

but i don't envy guys like that anymore, rising misanthropy, and the associated disgust threshold, is making it pretty easy not to envy them.

 

[Braincel14w]

It could be things like low T or venous leakage as well.

An erection is a very complex process and lots of things can disturb it.

By "healthy" I'm covering all those potential physical problems. Anxiety can overcome it all and stop the process. If you're able to give yourself an erection in private then the only thing stopping you when with a foid is anxiety.

You better not be paying for porn being that you been watching it this long.

No I have never paid for porn. I didn't see anything hardcore until I was about 18 anyway.

 

[Tempus Edax Rerum]

You won't find an attractive female online, ever.

Your only luck is in real life.

 

[Mainländer]

By "healthy" I'm covering all those potential physical problems. Anxiety can overcome it all and stop the process. If you're able to give yourself an erection in private then the only thing stopping you when with a foid is anxiety.

Fair enough. What I meant with my post is that those are sometines hard to detect. You think you're healthy but you aren't.

But that test solves it indeed.

 

[nazianime]

Loli hentai :<

Anytime I fap to that it gives me feels if depression. It’s a terrible world where you will never experience the embrace of a 500 year old vampire. Jav 3D porn is just there to blow a load.

 

[BrettyBoy]

Sad shit, man.

 

[DaveBuster]

Porn, social media, etc will only torture you. It's not real life, anyways. Everything you're shown everywhere is a lie.

 

[mylifeistrash]

You're not gonna get a woman who makes your dick hard unless you're at least chad-lite.

The sooner men accept that, the better.

 

[seija]

Porn is just the scraps and leftovers from Chad's day to day life. Hell, even landwhales think they deserve Chad and some even get Chad's dick inside of them.

 

[Deleted member 17724]

Anytime I fap to that it gives me feels if depression. It’s a terrible world where you will never experience the embrace of a 500 year old vampire. Jav 3D porn is just there to blow a load.

For me ironically, it's the opposite. Fapping to 2D makes me feel relaxed and statisfied afterwards while 3D porn makes me feel disgusted afterwards. Probably because with 2D, the degeneracy is all fake and fictional while with 3D, real people are involved in it and it makes me realise just how corrupt this world is when people are okay with degrading themselves like that for money. Sadly, the adrenaline rush that it gives me makes me come back to it often because fapping to 2D is just not as much of a rollercoaster of emotions.

But I've managed to avoid it for the most part this year and I'm trying to only fap to my imagination or 2D now because 3D just fucks me up mentally.

 

[Mainländer]

For me ironically, it's the opposite. Fapping to 2D makes me feel relaxed and statisfied afterwards while 3D porn makes me feel disgusted afterwards. Probably because with 2D, the degeneracy is all fake and fictional while with 3D, real people are involved in it and it makes me realise just how corrupt this world is when people are okay with degrading themselves like that for money. Sadly, the adrenaline rush that it gives me makes me come back to it often because fapping to 2D is just not as much of a rollercoaster of emotions.

But I've managed to avoid it for the most part this year and I'm trying to only fap to my imagination or 2D now because 3D just fucks me up mentally.

Fapping to just nudity, of any kind, makes me feel better than fapping to anything hardcore.

Hardcore porn is kinda cucked if you think about it.

 

[Deleted member 17724]

Hardcore porn is kinda cucked if you think about it.

It is but it's like the depravity of it and the insane guilt I feel afterwards makes me come back. We can't pick what makes us horny, sadly.

 

[Gengar]

Yesterday I was fapping to both an extremely hot busty Japanese foid getting deepthroated by multiple guys to the point of throwing up and an absolutely gorgeous Russian 18 yo teen anally masturbating with a pen.

D E G E N E R A T E

 

[KingChemist]

I hate how getting quality sex is so easy in porn but basically impossible in real life. On another note, I can't even get 1 match on tinder. The 1 match I got straight up told me she swiped right by accident and then unmatched.

 

[Mainländer]

D E G E N E R A T E

I pledge guilty

The 1 match I got straight up told me she swiped right by accident and then unmatched.

Holy fuck, brutal. Could have been my case as well.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I usually watch amateur porn

 

[zangano1]

If you go to any of those subreddit where cucks post pics of their wives, they are always disgusting. I don't think I could be able to get any sexual thoughts about those creatures, porn has ruined my mind

 

[KingChemist]

If you go to any of those subreddit where cucks post pics of their wives, they are always disgusting. I don't think I could be able to get any sexual thoughts about those creatures, porn has ruined my mind

how can you call yourself an incel with an avatar of the Chad who fucked the Tsar's wife?

 

[zangano1]

how can you call yourself an incel with an avatar of the Chad who fucked the Tsar's wife?

I want to be like him

 

[LastGerman]

Then I look at my Tinder: after several days using it, I got one match with a HUGE brown landwhale, who solemnly ignored my opening line and unmatched soon after.

I got no match on Tinder...

 

[Deleted member 5712]

I guess I can quite understand where you are coming from. Watching porn the other day and saw a gorgeous, and I mean FUCKING GORGEOUS, 18yo girl getting fucked by 2 dudes. Wasn't even a porn star. Was an amateur orgy video. Very short clip (5mins) but you see guys of multiple ages just sitting on the bed/couch while the 2 main guys fuck her and a third guy films everything. About 5 or 6 guys in total all passing her around. And I just hate how all these girls are whores. You will never find an angel that perfect and pristine who would save herself for you let alone for marriage for anybody for that matter. Girls that hot all lose their virginity by 12/13 while the less attractive girls lose it a few years later at 15/16 but that still isn't good because the Age of Consent is 18 legally or culturally. That means if you didn't fuck a girl in her prime WHILE you were also underage then there is literally nothing you can do to ever get those options back again. That shit is lost forever.

 

[Mainländer]

I got no match on Tinder...

And you mog me to oblivion. Germany truly is hell for non-Chad men.

I guess I can quite understand where you are coming from. Watching porn the other day and saw a gorgeous, and I mean FUCKING GORGEOUS, 18yo girl getting fucked by 2 dudes. Wasn't even a porn star. Was an amateur orgy video. Very short clip (5mins) but you see guys of multiple ages just sitting on the bed/couch while the 2 main guys fuck her and a third guy films everything. About 5 or 6 guys in total all passing her around. And I just hate how all these girls are whores. You will never find an angel that perfect and pristine who would save herself for you let alone for marriage for anybody for that matter. Girls that hot all lose their virginity by 12/13 while the less attractive girls lose it a few years later at 15/16 but that still isn't good because the Age of Consent is 18 legally or culturally. That means if you didn't fuck a girl in her prime WHILE you were also underage then there is literally nothing you can do to ever get those options back again. That shit is lost forever.

Vid?

 

[Gone Coping]

There's another film of her in which she drinks the sperm of 102 absolutely incel-tier Japanese men, and then a guy deepthroats her until she pukes it back into the container.

JAV is lifefuel in a way, because you see plenty of incel-tier men fucking gorgeous women. Better than seeing some western Chad doing it I guess.

"Thanksgiving" is a great tag.

uta kohaku did something like that, they use fake cum a lot in JAV anyway, especially for creampie fetish JAV

 

[Mainländer]

they use fake cum

Only if they made an unnoticeable cut before she starts drinking it, because the guys came directly into her mouth and she spat it into the container.

 

[jerrycan dan]

Yes, so do foids except they have options IRL, which is why dickpilling came into existence

 

[RopeMaXXer]

The gap between good-looking and ugly males get exponentially bigger each point up or down the looks scale. Zyros was right, each and every point counts.

https://incels.is/threads/rating-people-in-1-10-scale-is-deceptive-as-fuck.111391/