LDAR Does anybody else ever go through a cycle of LDAR on here after getting bad news?

[Oneitiscel]

It's completely circumstantial when I rot on forums. I used to be able to log on only twice a day and keep it to a half hour minimum, combing through the threads and posting. This went on consistently for a couple of years. But ever since last summer, when I scrolled my oneitus Facebook, only to find out she was in a private relationship with an absolute chad 10 years older than her, I've been spending countless hours navigating through the doom & gloom. Trying to make sense as to why this world is so evil and depressing. I have easily spent 4 or more hours a day interacting with multiple incel forums since the end of August 2024.

Last week, I've easily spent the most time on here compared to any other 7 day time span. I can't believe how fast the week went. In the blink of an eye.

Eventually, I have to go back & spend most of my time working on the shit I love and care for again. But I have thrown a lot of time in the garbage, just because my state of mind isn't the same as it used to be when I was locking in a year ago.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Lately I tend to spend more time here when I get depressing thoughts
Ngl I'm there quite a lot

 

[manletcel1488]

Yes

 

[lifeisfucked215]

I smoke weed and drink when I feel depressed. It's a pretty bad way to cope tbh ngl

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

This went on consistently for a couple of years. But ever since last summer, when I scrolled my oneitus Facebook, only to find out she was in a private relationship with an absolute chad 10 years older than her, I've been spending countless hours navigating through the doom & gloom. Trying to make sense as to why this world is so evil and depressing. I have easily spent 4 or more hours a day interacting with multiple incel forums since the end of August 2024.

Yeah, I've found I spend more time on here too when depressed about foids. There's been times where I spend 2 to 4 hours a day on here throughout an entire month. Other months I'll spend maybe an hour two an entire week. All of it varies depending on how I feel about foids.

Eventually, I have to go back & spend most of my time working on the shit I love and care for again. But I have thrown a lot of time in the garbage, just because my state of mind isn't the same as it used to be when I was locking in a year ago.

I used to think it was a waste of time too but I've found out it isn't. It helps me cope and not feel alone. Feeling alone in the first place being around no one to relate too is what made me try to kill myself 2 times. Being on this site at least gives me a lot of comfort.

But ever since last summer, when I scrolled my oneitus Facebook, only to find out she was in a private relationship with an absolute chad 10 years older than her, I've been spending countless hours navigating through the doom & gloom.

Brutal, sorry to hear that. Almost the exact same shit happened to me. My middle school crush is married and now having kids with a rich guy probably in his 50's. She's not even that attractive either. Truly a shame.

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Yeah I began posting way more after my dad died and things got worse for me irl, and also, when I sleep super bad and am brutally exhausted from that, I rot here more

 

[Oneitiscel]

I smoke weed and drink when I feel depressed. It's a pretty bad way to cope tbh ngl

I used to do drugs to cope too, until it started screwing up my life. Then i stopped.

Lately I tend to spend more time here when I get depressing thoughts
Ngl I'm there quite a lot

Yeeaaahhhhhhhhhh, but especially when something triggers me emotionally. That is when I cross the line into binging here. Otherwise, I'm usually capable of finding other things to keep myself busy with, to an extent.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

I post here when I just can't ignore my misery and insecurities.

 

[Oneitiscel]

I post here when I just can't ignore my misery and insecurities.

Same with me. Gives me an outlet to dump what my emotions have mustered. Since nobody from high school that knew me gives a shit how I feel these days.

Brutal, sorry to hear that. Almost the exact same shit happened to me. My middle school crush is married and now having kids with a rich guy probably in his 50's. She's not even that attractive either. Truly a shame.

It is total suifuel. It makes me so angry that he is undoubtedly getting some of the best pussy in the st8, all because he is one of those people invested into working on vehicles. Seems to be a chick magnet for a lot of men out there. Too bad she isn't into niche hobbies like mine :/

 

[Faded For Her]

I have a bad habit of committing digital self harm by looking at stacy and chad happy-ever-after tiktoks, which in turn makes me go into a depressive mood and I just rot for a week or so before recovering, rinse and repeat.

 

[VλREN]

I post on here when I want and usually take a week or two break

 

[Sgtpinkie]

This forum. I see it as a form of self harm. Typically the lowest points of my life are when I’m on here. Still. It’s nice to be on here with others who feel the same way about topics.

 

[LeonTheSilent]

oneitus

Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose

 

[TheAbsoluteMaximum]

Yeah, I can't even be bothered to do anything when I get bad news. Hell, even when I'm feeling average I can't be bothered. Today I spent 6 hours just laying in my bed doing nothing. It was raining outside and it was fucking cold, and I just spent the entire day in bed looking at my clock.

 

[LeonTheSilent]

Sorrow won't last forever. There was i time when my emotions caused me to feel physical pain, it was during college. But once you star to feel numb, your world becomes more tolerable

 

[Oneitiscel]

I have a bad habit of committing digital self harm by looking at stacy and chad happy-ever-after tiktoks, which in turn makes me go into a depressive mood and I just rot for a week or so before recovering, rinse and repeat.

There is a very simple way to avoid falling into that trap, ya know.....

Sorrow won't last forever. There was i time when my emotions caused me to feel physical pain, it was during college. But once you star to feel numb, your world becomes more tolerable

Being numb is worse than being emotional, like this. At least when you slowly stop feeling human from the pain.

I post on here when I want and usually take a week or two break

I'm probably going to start doing that soon. I hate having post-rot clarity, and realizing how stupid I am for throwing all my free time out the window.

 

[DutchCel01]

The fast few weeks i have been rotting in bed a lot more then before. All i do is go gym and sit in bed waiting to go to sleep.

 

[Faded For Her]

There is a very simple way to avoid falling into that trap, ya know.....

Being numb is worse than being emotional, like this. At least when you slowly stop feeling human from the pain.

I'm probably going to start doing that soon. I hate having post-rot clarity, and realizing how stupid I am for throwing all my free time out the window.

Yeah. I could cut my balls off and damage my amygdala so that I lose all attraction to fucking females and can be truly indifferent to them. But no doctor is ready to have this conversation other than some backwater clandestine clinic currys that probably are interested in harvesting my organs.

 

[Oneitiscel]

Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose

I can't let go of my oneitus. I've become obsessed with her over the years. Whenever I forget about her for a small period of time, she comes back in full circle.

Yeah. I could cut my balls off and damage my amygdala so that I lose all attraction to fucking females and can be truly indifferent to them. But no doctor is ready to have this conversation other than some backwater clandestine clinic currys that probably are interested in harvesting my organs.

I mean, to be fair, I'm probably going to do the same thing as what you are doing on Valentine's Day, just so I can blackpill myself even more. But repeated exposure to moggers probably isn't good for your mental health in the long term.

 

[Cincel]

My whole existence is depression, I overcome it thanks to the art of not giving a fuck, however I am always LDARing on my safety and mediocrity

 

[Oneitiscel]

Yeah, I can't even be bothered to do anything when I get bad news. Hell, even when I'm feeling average I can't be bothered. Today I spent 6 hours just laying in my bed doing nothing. It was raining outside and it was fucking cold, and I just spent the entire day in bed looking at my clock.

The fast few weeks i have been rotting in bed a lot more then before. All i do is go gym and sit in bed waiting to go to sleep.

Tbh, I think the main reason why I've been rotting so much lately is because my parents didn't want me to go skiing this year. That was the only cope I had for years when I suffered throughout high school, along with the few years after. I'm so bored from missing out on it right now, I've just been clocking in the hours here.