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We all know when you’re chad you’re considered quirky
When you’re ugly you’re considered weird
but what would normie be considered?
Also all my life i was labeled weird even when i did nothing but go on my phone meanwhile no one else was called weird for doing that. How about you guys?
Many incels have this issue, even myself sort of, known as "that guy" syndrome.
Well, now you're gonna find the ultimate answer to why you're not a NT normie, a NTmogger, & just a weirdo to the main characters. Why are you a nobody, or a passerby, but never "special?" Why can't you be the "cool" guy? Why can't you be ANY "guy?"
BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO RIGID IDENTITY. HAVING A SOLIDIFIED SENSE OF "YOU" ARE IS WHAT MAKES YOU "NORMAL" OR A "NORMIE." IF YOU LACK THIS SOLIDIFYING OF AN "IDENTITY" YOU LACK NTNESS. YOU DON'T STAND UP FOR BS BECAUSE YOU DON'T CARE. YOU DON'T PLAY LITTLE GAMES WITH OTHERS BECAUSE YOU'RE ON A DIFFERENT MISSION/PLANE THAN THEM. YOU DON'T QUICKLY GET THE "INSIDE JOKES" OR PRETEND YOU DO BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT ON THE SAME "VIBE" OR EXISTENTIAL PLANE AS THE NORMANS ARE. YOU'RE NOT AN EMBODIMENT OF THE MASSES.
The normies live in 'X' and if you're in any way a 'Y' you are weird or different. Your "tune" is "off key" & everyone "normal" knows it & feels it because you don't have that "embodiment."
If you aren't attuned to what makes them "tick" then you're an outsider. You don't fill the role, or pass the vibe check.
If you don't have the same mannerisms or say the expected things, you're "off." You don't have the basic shit to say/do.
If you don't wanna hang out and do the mundane shit they do you're "aloof." You won't "chill" so you're not "cool."
If you don't wanna live the lives they do the way they do, you're "different." You aren't just a fine old "regular" guy.
If you don't play by the same rules and regulations as them, you're "trouble." You are either normie or not, no exceptions.
People simply don't like you because you're not similar enough to them & their experiences. You don't have "an eye" for things like they do, so you're "off."
You don't "get along" beyond a superficial level because you go deeper than superficial. Normies can have "depth" sometimes, but not the same depth as yours.
You value more than the mundane and the basic tonality of humanness because you're not basic or normal. The normies are all basic and normal -- if they weren't they'd be the "weirdos" then. But YOU are the weirdo, not "them."
You gotta know the trends, like the trends generally, and be a man of his word.
The second you become the guy who doesn't care to entertain, you can become the "freak." You may not be disliked, but you'll always be "here" & they're "there."
Because you don't align yourself or solidify your identity, you are soon as "loose" to others. You need to be SOLID or you are PRONE TO INSTABILITY for others.
You aren't a solidified, enamored being of the arts, life or the commonality of modern basics. You see things in a different light that breaks the code of conduct.
You probably don't care about many thing normies do, or the basic-ness of such things, so you don't really feel ever on the same level as the "commoner" & his path or decay in life. You don't join him in his path, you just watch him in his path then.
Since you don't have a specific "mission" in life, those who align with something disregard you. You aren't helping them, so you're useless.
You aren't one of the blokes, you're one of the guys who ain't exactly "good" so it's "different." You ain't fully "in" so you're "hanging in the balance." You aren't really a "brotha" you're "some nigga."
You may not necessarily be HATED -- a strong word -- but to many you as a sub 6 are "meh." You aren't special, so you must make others "FEEL" for you. You gotta be mister offer, not mister be.
You aren't the jester or the clown, or the nichemaxxed bro, or the savior, white knight, smart dude with resourcefulness, or various other stand in roles you could have melded in to socially with a "role."
When a nigga asks you, "What's up?" you probably don't have a clear gesture or answer. What is "up" with you? Probably nothing, so why even elaborate on nothing?
Why? Because nothing is "up" with you -- you don't care, or small talk much, or have much to say or much to do with mundane, basic commonalities or pleasantries with most people. You don't just say shit, so you will be seen as out of the matrix.
You aren't "putting on a show" so you don't have anything interesting to say or do to fulfill another, or entertain another, or make another feel something particular about/towards you. If you got nothing unique, most people don't care.
You aren't "in" or "don't know the code/rules" so you always seem odd trying to "fit in" because you're not a member of the general "pack" of people, but "that guy."
When normies say "strong personality" they mean SOLIDIFIED IDENTITY OR BELIEF SYSTEM. You don't care too much about the "stupid shit" going on in the world.
If you don't have any VERY STRONG beliefs or views, many people won't like you -- or at least if you aren't NEUTRAL and COMMONLY ASCRIBED to commonalities or basics, you won't be liked. You won't share the "vibe" you will "ruin" it likely.
If you aren't strongly identifying, standing for, or supportive of any significant thing, then as an average looking man or even above you are "boring" or "weird" or "not very interesting." You aren't "in" or "out" so people are SUSPECT somewhat.
You don't have that "strong personality" that attracts others because you don't really have any true, highly developed sense of self or who you're "supposed to be" -- you just don't care. Since you have no angle, people can't feel you out the way they like.
And because of all of this -- for these VERY reasons -- many won't like you as a sub-superior male because you're not "fitting in" or "playing by the rules." Since you can't get anywhere OUT of the system, you're either a loser in it who "fits in" or the guy who is also a loser BUT OUT OF THE SYSTEM. No resources, true friends, support system, or any kind of "connections" really.
But it is what it is...
You aren't a "solidly enveloped" being in a group-oriented, ever growing, alienated world, so you're fucked. You either become good looking enough to fit in with other normies, find your own group or way, or just remain forever isolated. It is OVER.
Many incels have this issue, even myself sort of, known as "that guy" syndrome.
Well, now you're gonna find the ultimate answer to why you're not a NT normie, a NTmogger, & just a weirdo to the main characters. Why are you a nobody, or a passerby, but never "special?" Why can't you be the "cool" guy? Why can't you be ANY "guy?"
BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO RIGID IDENTITY. HAVING A SOLIDIFIED SENSE OF "YOU" ARE IS WHAT MAKES YOU "NORMAL" OR A "NORMIE." IF YOU LACK THIS SOLIDIFYING OF AN "IDENTITY" YOU LACK NTNESS. YOU DON'T STAND UP FOR BS BECAUSE YOU DON'T CARE. YOU DON'T PLAY LITTLE GAMES WITH OTHERS BECAUSE YOU'RE ON A DIFFERENT MISSION/PLANE THAN THEM. YOU DON'T QUICKLY GET THE "INSIDE JOKES" OR PRETEND YOU DO BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT ON THE SAME "VIBE" OR EXISTENTIAL PLANE AS THE NORMANS ARE. YOU'RE NOT AN EMBODIMENT OF THE MASSES.
The normies live in 'X' and if you're in any way a 'Y' you are weird or different. Your "tune" is "off key" & everyone "normal" knows it & feels it because you don't have that "embodiment."
If you aren't attuned to what makes them "tick" then you're an outsider. You don't fill the role, or pass the vibe check.
If you don't have the same mannerisms or say the expected things, you're "off." You don't have the basic shit to say/do.
If you don't wanna hang out and do the mundane shit they do you're "aloof." You won't "chill" so you're not "cool."
If you don't wanna live the lives they do the way they do, you're "different." You aren't just a fine old "regular" guy.
If you don't play by the same rules and regulations as them, you're "trouble." You are either normie or not, no exceptions.
People simply don't like you because you're not similar enough to them & their experiences. You don't have "an eye" for things like they do, so you're "off."
You don't "get along" beyond a superficial level because you go deeper than superficial. Normies can have "depth" sometimes, but not the same depth as yours.
You value more than the mundane and the basic tonality of humanness because you're not basic or normal. The normies are all basic and normal -- if they weren't they'd be the "weirdos" then. But YOU are the weirdo, not "them."
You gotta know the trends, like the trends generally, and be a man of his word.
The second you become the guy who doesn't care to entertain, you can become the "freak." You may not be disliked, but you'll always be "here" & they're "there."
Because you don't align yourself or solidify your identity, you are soon as "loose" to others. You need to be SOLID or you are PRONE TO INSTABILITY for others.
You aren't a solidified, enamored being of the arts, life or the commonality of modern basics. You see things in a different light that breaks the code of conduct.
You probably don't care about many thing normies do, or the basic-ness of such things, so you don't really feel ever on the same level as the "commoner" & his path or decay in life. You don't join him in his path, you just watch him in his path then.
Since you don't have a specific "mission" in life, those who align with something disregard you. You aren't helping them, so you're useless.
You aren't one of the blokes, you're one of the guys who ain't exactly "good" so it's "different." You ain't fully "in" so you're "hanging in the balance." You aren't really a "brotha" you're "some nigga."
You may not necessarily be HATED -- a strong word -- but to many you as a sub 6 are "meh." You aren't special, so you must make others "FEEL" for you. You gotta be mister offer, not mister be.
You aren't the jester or the clown, or the nichemaxxed bro, or the savior, white knight, smart dude with resourcefulness, or various other stand in roles you could have melded in to socially with a "role."
When a nigga asks you, "What's up?" you probably don't have a clear gesture or answer. What is "up" with you? Probably nothing, so why even elaborate on nothing?
Why? Because nothing is "up" with you -- you don't care, or small talk much, or have much to say or much to do with mundane, basic commonalities or pleasantries with most people. You don't just say shit, so you will be seen as out of the matrix.
You aren't "putting on a show" so you don't have anything interesting to say or do to fulfill another, or entertain another, or make another feel something particular about/towards you. If you got nothing unique, most people don't care.
You aren't "in" or "don't know the code/rules" so you always seem odd trying to "fit in" because you're not a member of the general "pack" of people, but "that guy."
When normies say "strong personality" they mean SOLIDIFIED IDENTITY OR BELIEF SYSTEM. You don't care too much about the "stupid shit" going on in the world.
If you don't have any VERY STRONG beliefs or views, many people won't like you -- or at least if you aren't NEUTRAL and COMMONLY ASCRIBED to commonalities or basics, you won't be liked. You won't share the "vibe" you will "ruin" it likely.
If you aren't strongly identifying, standing for, or supportive of any significant thing, then as an average looking man or even above you are "boring" or "weird" or "not very interesting." You aren't "in" or "out" so people are SUSPECT somewhat.
You don't have that "strong personality" that attracts others because you don't really have any true, highly developed sense of self or who you're "supposed to be" -- you just don't care. Since you have no angle, people can't feel you out the way they like.
And because of all of this -- for these VERY reasons -- many won't like you as a sub-superior male because you're not "fitting in" or "playing by the rules." Since you can't get anywhere OUT of the system, you're either a loser in it who "fits in" or the guy who is also a loser BUT OUT OF THE SYSTEM. No resources, true friends, support system, or any kind of "connections" really.
But it is what it is...
You aren't a "solidly enveloped" being in a group-oriented, ever growing, alienated world, so you're fucked. You either become good looking enough to fit in with other normies, find your own group or way, or just remain forever isolated. It is OVER.
Tbh that part is retarded. Standing up for your beliefs is often a futile effort, as adhering to an arbitrary strict moral code and reinforcing personal values lacks practical significance irl. Your moral code is like a personal compass that guides you through life. It's something only you truly care about, as it's a set of rules you create for yourself. Unless you're a normie, in which case you'll simply go along with whatever society currently deems right or wrong. Our viewpoint as blackpillers sets us firmly on the opposite side of the playing table from everyone else, so attempting to apply it in real life (e.g. trying to blackpill other people, and attempting to convince people that the blackpill is true) results in instantaneous social suicide.
Apart from looks, normies don't like you and most people on this forum because incels are autistic, low energy, and extremely sensitive to social simulation. Riddled with anxiety, neuroticism, mental illness, introversion (not the gay and fake normie kind), trauma from getting bullied during childhood and being a late bloomer in countless areas of life, etc.
Not because they are muh deep. Many people here are more superficial and low IQ than the average normie in some ways.
Many incels have this issue, even myself sort of, known as "that guy" syndrome.
Well, now you're gonna find the ultimate answer to why you're not a NT normie, a NTmogger, & just a weirdo to the main characters. Why are you a nobody, or a passerby, but never "special?" Why can't you be the "cool" guy? Why can't you be ANY "guy?"
BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO RIGID IDENTITY. HAVING A SOLIDIFIED SENSE OF "YOU" ARE IS WHAT MAKES YOU "NORMAL" OR A "NORMIE." IF YOU LACK THIS SOLIDIFYING OF AN "IDENTITY" YOU LACK NTNESS. YOU DON'T STAND UP FOR BS BECAUSE YOU DON'T CARE. YOU DON'T PLAY LITTLE GAMES WITH OTHERS BECAUSE YOU'RE ON A DIFFERENT MISSION/PLANE THAN THEM. YOU DON'T QUICKLY GET THE "INSIDE JOKES" OR PRETEND YOU DO BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT ON THE SAME "VIBE" OR EXISTENTIAL PLANE AS THE NORMANS ARE. YOU'RE NOT AN EMBODIMENT OF THE MASSES.
The normies live in 'X' and if you're in any way a 'Y' you are weird or different. Your "tune" is "off key" & everyone "normal" knows it & feels it because you don't have that "embodiment."
If you aren't attuned to what makes them "tick" then you're an outsider. You don't fill the role, or pass the vibe check.
If you don't have the same mannerisms or say the expected things, you're "off." You don't have the basic shit to say/do.
If you don't wanna hang out and do the mundane shit they do you're "aloof." You won't "chill" so you're not "cool."
If you don't wanna live the lives they do the way they do, you're "different." You aren't just a fine old "regular" guy.
If you don't play by the same rules and regulations as them, you're "trouble." You are either normie or not, no exceptions.
People simply don't like you because you're not similar enough to them & their experiences. You don't have "an eye" for things like they do, so you're "off."
You don't "get along" beyond a superficial level because you go deeper than superficial. Normies can have "depth" sometimes, but not the same depth as yours.
You value more than the mundane and the basic tonality of humanness because you're not basic or normal. The normies are all basic and normal -- if they weren't they'd be the "weirdos" then. But YOU are the weirdo, not "them."
You gotta know the trends, like the trends generally, and be a man of his word.
The second you become the guy who doesn't care to entertain, you can become the "freak." You may not be disliked, but you'll always be "here" & they're "there."
Because you don't align yourself or solidify your identity, you are soon as "loose" to others. You need to be SOLID or you are PRONE TO INSTABILITY for others.
You aren't a solidified, enamored being of the arts, life or the commonality of modern basics. You see things in a different light that breaks the code of conduct.
You probably don't care about many thing normies do, or the basic-ness of such things, so you don't really feel ever on the same level as the "commoner" & his path or decay in life. You don't join him in his path, you just watch him in his path then.
Since you don't have a specific "mission" in life, those who align with something disregard you. You aren't helping them, so you're useless.
You aren't one of the blokes, you're one of the guys who ain't exactly "good" so it's "different." You ain't fully "in" so you're "hanging in the balance." You aren't really a "brotha" you're "some nigga."
You may not necessarily be HATED -- a strong word -- but to many you as a sub 6 are "meh." You aren't special, so you must make others "FEEL" for you. You gotta be mister offer, not mister be.
You aren't the jester or the clown, or the nichemaxxed bro, or the savior, white knight, smart dude with resourcefulness, or various other stand in roles you could have melded in to socially with a "role."
When a nigga asks you, "What's up?" you probably don't have a clear gesture or answer. What is "up" with you? Probably nothing, so why even elaborate on nothing?
Why? Because nothing is "up" with you -- you don't care, or small talk much, or have much to say or much to do with mundane, basic commonalities or pleasantries with most people. You don't just say shit, so you will be seen as out of the matrix.
You aren't "putting on a show" so you don't have anything interesting to say or do to fulfill another, or entertain another, or make another feel something particular about/towards you. If you got nothing unique, most people don't care.
You aren't "in" or "don't know the code/rules" so you always seem odd trying to "fit in" because you're not a member of the general "pack" of people, but "that guy."
When normies say "strong personality" they mean SOLIDIFIED IDENTITY OR BELIEF SYSTEM. You don't care too much about the "stupid shit" going on in the world.
If you don't have any VERY STRONG beliefs or views, many people won't like you -- or at least if you aren't NEUTRAL and COMMONLY ASCRIBED to commonalities or basics, you won't be liked. You won't share the "vibe" you will "ruin" it likely.
If you aren't strongly identifying, standing for, or supportive of any significant thing, then as an average looking man or even above you are "boring" or "weird" or "not very interesting." You aren't "in" or "out" so people are SUSPECT somewhat.
You don't have that "strong personality" that attracts others because you don't really have any true, highly developed sense of self or who you're "supposed to be" -- you just don't care. Since you have no angle, people can't feel you out the way they like.
And because of all of this -- for these VERY reasons -- many won't like you as a sub-superior male because you're not "fitting in" or "playing by the rules." Since you can't get anywhere OUT of the system, you're either a loser in it who "fits in" or the guy who is also a loser BUT OUT OF THE SYSTEM. No resources, true friends, support system, or any kind of "connections" really.
But it is what it is...
You aren't a "solidly enveloped" being in a group-oriented, ever growing, alienated world, so you're fucked. You either become good looking enough to fit in with other normies, find your own group or way, or just remain forever isolated. It is OVER.
At a past job, I overheard a coworker calling me weird, apparently because I'm not extroverted enough. Funny the only interaction that particular guy tried to have with me outside of work duties was the girlfriend question.
At a past job, I overheard a coworker calling me weird, apparently because I'm not extroverted enough. Funny the only interaction that particular guy tried to have with me outside of work duties was the girlfriend question.
At a past job, I overheard a coworker calling me weird, apparently because I'm not extroverted enough. Funny the only interaction that particular guy tried to have with me outside of work duties was the girlfriend question.
Do you have a girlfriend? That's the girlfriend question. Ya i couldn't even interact with people properly at all at the point I was too fucked up from too much isolation over years. Being more extroverted would just be increasing the volume on that.
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