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Definition of codependency from Wikipedia:
Codependency is a behavioral condition in a relationship where one person enables another person's addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement.[1] Among the core characteristics of codependency is an excessive reliance on other people for approval and a sense of identity.[1] Definitions of codependency vary, but it is generally defined as a subclinical, situational, and/or episodic behavioral condition similar to that of dependent personality disorder. The term is less individually diagnostic and more descriptive of a relationship dynamic.[1]
I question to what extent you can accurately diagnose an ugly incel or even low tier normie who happened to "ascend" (like I said in my other thread, statistically through betabuxxing or BPDs) as a "codependent", as a pathology that necessarily stems from some childhood trauma or something, for wanting to cling to his partner despite her many flaws and problematic behavior, when it's clear that such desperate behavior is heavily influenced by extreme sexual and romantic starvation over the course of years and knowledge that you won't find another partner easily at all.
It's like a person who gets treated poorly in their job but is still desperate not to lose it because they know they have no other better options and having a job beats homelessness/starvation. I know we don't physically need sex and relationships to survive like we do with food, but 99% of people are still not able to satisfactorily live without them.
I think that codependency stuff is only a thing in modern western feminist societies, really. If we lived in a functional society, you'd be able to just discipline your wife if she disrespected you and stop her when she wanted to engage in dumb foid undesirable/bad-for-self behavior, like we do with children. With time, she'd learn not to do it anymore (remember that foids are the ultimate comformists - without clown world soyciety enabling them, they wouldn't behave nearly as bad as they do today). Parents won't usually be codependent towards their small children because they have authority over them, for instance.
What do you think about the concept of codependency, @Atavistic Autist ? True or meme?
Codependency is a behavioral condition in a relationship where one person enables another person's addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement.[1] Among the core characteristics of codependency is an excessive reliance on other people for approval and a sense of identity.[1] Definitions of codependency vary, but it is generally defined as a subclinical, situational, and/or episodic behavioral condition similar to that of dependent personality disorder. The term is less individually diagnostic and more descriptive of a relationship dynamic.[1]
I question to what extent you can accurately diagnose an ugly incel or even low tier normie who happened to "ascend" (like I said in my other thread, statistically through betabuxxing or BPDs) as a "codependent", as a pathology that necessarily stems from some childhood trauma or something, for wanting to cling to his partner despite her many flaws and problematic behavior, when it's clear that such desperate behavior is heavily influenced by extreme sexual and romantic starvation over the course of years and knowledge that you won't find another partner easily at all.
It's like a person who gets treated poorly in their job but is still desperate not to lose it because they know they have no other better options and having a job beats homelessness/starvation. I know we don't physically need sex and relationships to survive like we do with food, but 99% of people are still not able to satisfactorily live without them.
I think that codependency stuff is only a thing in modern western feminist societies, really. If we lived in a functional society, you'd be able to just discipline your wife if she disrespected you and stop her when she wanted to engage in dumb foid undesirable/bad-for-self behavior, like we do with children. With time, she'd learn not to do it anymore (remember that foids are the ultimate comformists - without clown world soyciety enabling them, they wouldn't behave nearly as bad as they do today). Parents won't usually be codependent towards their small children because they have authority over them, for instance.
What do you think about the concept of codependency, @Atavistic Autist ? True or meme?
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