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Serious Do you think there's a strong correlation between being a virgin without any possibility whatsoever of fucking (not even escorts) and going ER?

Is there?


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I was thinking about it. Look at the people who went ER: all that I can think of were confirmed virgins. ER himself, Lanza, Cho, etc.

ER happens more in the US, a country in which prostitution is outlawed, than in any other country.

Muslims, who also go ER quite often, are forbidden to fuck prostitutes by religious laws.

Even here in Brazil, the only guy who ever went ER (Wellington Menezes) was a Muslim convert and self-imposed virginity on himself by not going to prostitutes (which is something accessible in Brazil).

I myself, as much as my experiences with escorts were mostly pretty empty and disappointing, feel that if I haven't had them at this point I would be getting crazy, 30 yo virgin is just too much to deal with, especially living in oversexualized times like now in the west.

So much for the cucktears narrative that sex isn't a big deal or a basic need. Looks like you go crazy from virginity.
 
Loneliness of any kind could drive someone mad.
 
Yeah. Majority of the people who goes ER follow a pattern and being virgin is one of the main role of creating a ER, though the (((media))) won't admit it.

Most shooters are not good looking and many have autism or similar issues so that basically force them to be incels, developing sexual frustration, social rejection and eventually the desire to die. This is the point where people make the decision of roping or going ER. most people choose the rope option but some take it a step further and go for ER.
 
is this a serious question?
 
Yes legalizing prostitution would stop all ERs.
 
ER happens more in the US, a country in which prostitution is outlawed, than in any other country.

Muslims, who also go ER quite often, are forbidden to fuck prostitutes by religious laws.

Even here in Brazil, the only guy who ever went ER (Wellington Menezes) was a Muslim convert and self-imposed virginity on himself by not going to prostitutes (which is something accessible in Brazil).

The reason for that may be because America has easy access to guns more so than most countries, not necessarily because of prostitution being outlawed. For me it wouldn't matter to have a prostitute, what bothers me most is this crippling loneliness I feel and nothing will ever change it but a female that wants to be with me, and there is no such female in the world that would.
 
Islamic terrorism perfectly illustrates why young men go ER. Imagine convincing sexually frustrated young men that they’ll receive 72 virgins in the next life.
 
is this a serious question?
I meant especially not having access even to escorts. It's obvious than being incel in general increases your chances of going ER drastically.
 
I was thinking about it. Look at the people who went ER: all that I can think of were confirmed virgins. ER himself, Lanza, Cho, etc.

ER happens more in the US, a country in which prostitution is outlawed, than in any other country.

Muslims, who also go ER quite often, are forbidden to fuck prostitutes by religious laws.

Even here in Brazil, the only guy who ever went ER (Wellington Menezes) was a Muslim convert and self-imposed virginity on himself by not going to prostitutes (which is something accessible in Brazil).

I myself, as much as my experiences with escorts were mostly pretty empty and disappointing, feel that if I haven't had them at this point I would be getting crazy, 30 yo virgin is just too much to deal with, especially living in oversexualized times like now in the west.

So much for the cucktears narrative that sex isn't a big deal or a basic need. Looks like you go crazy from virginity.
Voted no but actually realizing I have ER impulses often and I'm a virgin who will never go to prostitutes, except if you bring me to one.
 
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Being a KHHFV does that to some men. There's definitely a correlation. Out of millions of KHHFV, there's bound to be a few hundred potential ERs and dozens who actually go ER.

I'm a KHHFV, but I don't want to ER. I'm just too lazy and dumb for it. I'm also high inhib like most incels.
 
I meant especially not having access even to escorts. It's obvious than being incel in general increases your chances of going ER drastically.
Ah yes. That makes the question more interesting. I've always said that one should refuse whatever soma this brave new world offers us to numb our discontent. We should never accept this grave injustice that's being done unto us but instead fight it with every fiber of our being. Whether that entails going ER or not is up for the individual to decide. So to answer your question; yes, and it's a good thing.
 
It takes a special type of person to go ER and as we can see, many permavirgins either LDAR or sui. Inceldom plays a role but it’s not the deciding factor
 
Absolutely. That is self-evident to me.
 
I was thinking about it. Look at the people who went ER: all that I can think of were confirmed virgins. ER himself, Lanza, Cho, etc.

ER happens more in the US, a country in which prostitution is outlawed, than in any other country.

Muslims, who also go ER quite often, are forbidden to fuck prostitutes by religious laws.

Even here in Brazil, the only guy who ever went ER (Wellington Menezes) was a Muslim convert and self-imposed virginity on himself by not going to prostitutes (which is something accessible in Brazil).

I myself, as much as my experiences with escorts were mostly pretty empty and disappointing, feel that if I haven't had them at this point I would be getting crazy, 30 yo virgin is just too much to deal with, especially living in oversexualized times like now in the west.

So much for the cucktears narrative that sex isn't a big deal or a basic need. Looks like you go crazy from virginity.

Do you know anything about this guy since you are from Brazil?
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I have yet to hear of a single shooting perpetrated by a sexually active man thats not gang or robbery related
 
Do you know anything about this guy since you are from Brazil?View attachment 72021
I know all there is to know (on the internet, that is) about him. Ask me anything.

His act was a public outrage in Brazil since he targeted like 11-13 yo girls.
 
I know all there is to know (on the internet, that is) about him. Ask me anything.

His act was a public outrage in Brazil since he targeted like 11-13 yo girls.

Was he bullied or something like that?
Why did he target children?
Was he inspired by the Virginia Tech massacre?
 
Was he bullied or something like that?
Yes, heavily (they put his head into the toilet bowl, threw him into trash cans, etc), by lots of people and constantly through a good period of time.

Why did he target children?
Not sure, he didn't say why. I think his mind got stuck at that phase when he was bullied the most. He killed girls like the ones who bullied him/encourage bullying against him.

Was he inspired by the Virginia Tech massacre?
I don't know, he didn't mention it. He admitted drawing inspiration from Islamic terrorists like Bin Laden though.
 
Yes, heavily (they put his head into the toilet bowl, threw him into trash cans, etc), by lots of people and constantly through a good period of time.


Not sure, he didn't say why. I think his mind got stuck at that phase when he was bullied the most. He killed girls like the ones who bullied him/encourage bullying against him.


I don't know, he didn't mention it. He admitted drawing inspiration from Islamic terrorists like Bin Laden though.

You mentioned fucking Escorts felt empty and dissappointing. How so?
 
You mentioned fucking Escorts felt empty and dissappointing. How so?
Most of the time is feels empty, sometimes it feels disappointing and sometimes it feels borderline revolting.

Empty because you pay to fuck a low-quality hoe who usually don't do it very willingly (provided I'm ugly, I already fucked one together with a Chadlite friend and she was willing with him), and then I go back home on a bus and ALWAYS see some way more desirable gf material girl that I'll never ever even kiss.

Also no validation, romance, etc etc.

Disappointing and sometimes borderline revolting because some hookers are simply too shitty, like the last one who didn't want me to even touch her breasts. I talked about it on my escorts video, check out my Youtube channel.
 
That's why incel global revolution is emerging looking for solutions
 
ER had enough money to travel to someplace like Nevada, Australia, Holland, etc. where prostitution is legal. I think his case was different. In his manifesto, he said that going to a prostitute would make him feel like a "pathetic loser for having to hire a girl when other men could get the experience for free." Basically, he put too much importance on social/political validation from foids.
 
ER had enough money to travel to someplace like Nevada, Australia, Holland, etc. where prostitution is legal. I think his case was different. In his manifesto, he said that going to a prostitute would make him feel like a "pathetic loser for having to hire a girl when other men could get the experience for free." Basically, he put too much importance on social/political validation from foids.

Too much? Not being able to get a gf means you lack intrinsic value, and are a defective sub-human. No amount of success and achievement in any area of life will cure the battered self esteem and mental anguish caused by knowing that other men with far less success and intellectual abilities than you get pussy for free. The reason? You are a manlet AND asian AND lacking facial dimorphism. That's what got on ER's nerve, not the absence of the physical act of sex.
 
I was thinking about it. Look at the people who went ER: all that I can think of were confirmed virgins. ER himself, Lanza, Cho, etc.

ER happens more in the US, a country in which prostitution is outlawed, than in any other country.

Muslims, who also go ER quite often, are forbidden to fuck prostitutes by religious laws.

Even here in Brazil, the only guy who ever went ER (Wellington Menezes) was a Muslim convert and self-imposed virginity on himself by not going to prostitutes (which is something accessible in Brazil).

I myself, as much as my experiences with escorts were mostly pretty empty and disappointing, feel that if I haven't had them at this point I would be getting crazy, 30 yo virgin is just too much to deal with, especially living in oversexualized times like now in the west.

So much for the cucktears narrative that sex isn't a big deal or a basic need. Looks like you go crazy from virginity.

ER happens a lot in Germany despite prostitution being legal.
 
Too much? Not being able to get a gf means you lack intrinsic value, and are a defective sub-human. No amount of success and achievement in any area of life will cure the battered self esteem and mental anguish caused by knowing that other men with far less success and intellectual abilities than you get pussy for free. The reason? You are a manlet AND asian AND lacking facial dimorphism. That's what got on ER's nerve, not the absence of the physical act of sex.
This. Anyone can fuck whores.
Foids and numales are convinced men only care about sex and that it's all we think about because we're primitive creatures. In their minds women are innocent, pure and wise angels who don't care about looks.
 
That's why it's called going ER...
 
Going ER gets triggered by the following reasons:

Loneliness
Sexual frustration
Being ugly (low SMV)
Coming from low social class (not always but could be an indicator)
Poor (again not always)
Autistic
Realistic
Blackpilled


This all combined could someone create a potential guy going ER.
 
ER happens a lot in Germany despite prostitution being legal.
Germany is hors concours, I myself would probably have gone ER at some point had I stayed there much longer.
 
Of course. You could say the same about the Middle East where prostitution and pornography are illegal.

"It will be seen from these figures that at the charity level men outnumber women by something like ten to one. The cause is presumably that unemployment affects women less than men; also that any presentable woman can, in the last resort, attach herself to some man. The result, for a tramp, is that he is condemned to perpetual celibacy. For of course it goes without saying that if a tramp finds no women at his own level, those above - even a very little above - are as far out of reach as the moon. The reasons are not worth discussing, but there is little doubt that women never, or hardly ever, condescend to men who are much poorer than themselves.
A tramp, therefore, is a celibate from the moment when he takes to the road. He is absolutely without hope of getting a wife, a mistress, or any kind of woman except — very rarely, when he can raise a few shillings — a prostitute.
It is obvious what the results of this must be: homosexuality, for instance, and occasional rape cases. But deeper than these there is the degradation worked in a man who knows that he is not even considered fit for marriage. The sexual impulse, not to put it any higher, is a fundamental impulse, and starvation of it can be almost as demoralizing as physical hunger. The evil of poverty is not so much that it makes a man suffer as that it rots him physically and spiritually. And there can be no doubt that sexual starvation contributes to this rotting process. Cut off from the whole race of women, a tramp feels himself degraded to the rank of a cripple or a lunatic. No humiliation could do more damage to a man’s self-respect."​
― George Orwell, Down and Out in Paris and London, 1933
 
It takes a special type of person to go ER and as we can see, many permavirgins either LDAR or sui. Inceldom plays a role but it’s not the deciding factor
I think the combination for a person to go ER is

-high testosterone to boost aggression instead of passiveness which leads to roping
-lifelong of social rejection and ostracization
-access to guns
-having knowledge and research of previous ERs (see columbine copycats)
-desire to do something big and be remembered for it
-virgin, inceldom
-understand that roping is useless and makes you one of the many suicides daily

ERs as you can see are very rare, but someone who fits all conditions may go ER
 
Cut off from the whole race of women, a tramp feels himself degraded to the rank of a cripple or a lunatic. No humiliation could do more damage to a man’s self-respect."
George Orwell IQ.

-high testosterone to boost aggression instead of passiveness which leads to roping
:yes:

-lifelong of social rejection and ostracization
:no: (I'm an incel but I've had friends and a good relation with family members for most of my life)

-access to guns
:no:

-having knowledge and research of previous ERs (see columbine copycats)
:yes:

-desire to do something big and be remembered for it
:yes:

I think I'm pretty safe :feelsbaton:
 
I think the combination for a person to go ER is

-high testosterone to boost aggression instead of passiveness which leads to roping
-lifelong of social rejection and ostracization
-access to guns
-having knowledge and research of previous ERs (see columbine copycats)
-desire to do something big and be remembered for it
-virgin, inceldom
-understand that roping is useless and makes you one of the many suicides daily

ERs as you can see are very rare, but someone who fits all conditions may go ER
Very well put, though I wouldn’t call a few of the ERs we’ve seen high T
 
I wouldn’t call a few of the ERs we’ve seen high T
It's hard to say just by looking at or listening to the person. Judging by my looks and especially voice you probably wouldn't guess I'm as high T as I am.
 
No. There have been very few incel murderers. Cho had way more issues bothering him than not having sex. Sandy Hoax did not fucking happen.

An actual strong correlation that the Jew media will never admit:

Children of single mothers.
 
Note that male lions kill other males for females ;)

And if a lonely female refuses to mate with a male, he kills her without pity
 
It's hard to say just by looking at or listening to the person. Judging by my looks and especially voice you probably wouldn't guess I'm as high T as I am.
It certainly can be correctly evaluated based on a simple observation and diet as well as excessive (or lack thereof) could have played a role, but most shooters seem to be much smaller and less masculine (facials speaking) than their peers
 
Not virginity alone.

It’s being a social outcast mentalcel who bring you to ER-mode.

For obvious reasons Chad cannot be a social outcast, he cannot be a virgin also.
 
It certainly can be correctly evaluated based on a simple observation and diet as well as excessive (or lack thereof) could have played a role, but most shooters seem to be much smaller and less masculine (facials speaking) than their peers
High T doesn't always manifest itself in chiseled masculine bones and super tallness. Those have more to do with prenatal testosterone and genetics/diet as a kid, respectively.
 
Elab? What about Lanza, where's he now?
"Adam"'s likeness is probably Ryan Lanza, his "brother" who is a similarly looking ugly nerd.

The proof that Adam Lanza, any of the students killed, the Sandy Hook school even being open for years is all shoddy at best.

I know I sound like Mr. Conspiracy guy, but I really enjoy researching this stuff and rarely go all tinfoil hat. Sandy Hook is one that I unquestionably believe is a hoax, and if one does their own research, you'll likely feel the same.
 
"Adam"'s likeness is probably Ryan Lanza, his "brother" who is a similarly looking ugly nerd.

The proof that Adam Lanza, any of the students killed, the Sandy Hook school even being open for years is all shoddy at best.

I know I sound like Mr. Conspiracy guy, but I really enjoy researching this stuff and rarely go all tinfoil hat. Sandy Hook is one that I unquestionably believe is a hoax, and if one does their own research, you'll likely feel the same.
So all those high IQ stuff he wrote were just LARPs/false? :cryfeels:
 
High T doesn't always manifest itself in chiseled masculine bones and super tallness. Those have more to do with prenatal testosterone and genetics/diet as a kid, respectively.
I did acknowledge other factors that contributed to their less than impressive builds and voices but if they were in fact high T, where did it manifest? No matter how you slice it most of them were average T at best
 
I did acknowledge other factors that contributed to their less than impressive builds and voices but if they were in fact high T, where did it manifest? No matter how you slice it most of them were average T at best
I'm very high T (tested) and I don't have a chiseled jaw, hunter eyes, pronounced ridge, full beard, thick bone structure, deep voice or any of that.

In my case it manifested itself in my bald head, high sex drive and refusal to be a cuck, that's it.
 
I'm very high T (tested) and I don't have a chiseled jaw, hunter eyes, pronounced ridge, full beard, thick bone structure, deep voice or any of that.

In my case it manifested itself in my bald head, high sex drive and refusal to be a cuck, that's it.
While there are of course other ways their T could have manifested, none of the incel shooters showed any signs of baldness, their sex drives were normal as far as one could tell, and depending on your definition of being a cuck, one could argue that men are hardwired to act of cucked behaviors in order to protect their female counterparts
 

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