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Serious Do you think the bitterness will ever go away?

wizardcel

wizardcel

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FACEandLMS posted a thread, a few days ago, which mentioned his reluctance to live a life of anger and resentment. That really made me think. After all these years, is it possible to erase all the bottled up feelings? I really don't know. It might be too late to make peace with the world after you've been on this path for so long. If you hit a punching bag for years, it will eventually rip open. The same goes for people.

A person can take just as much damage without being scarred for life. I think even if foids disappeared, the sadness would still remain. A lot of us might never be whole again -- we can be 80% ok, but 100% is out of reach at this point. I coped hard in 2018, but it doesn't matter how much I try to run from myself; at the end of the day, I will still be me: a collection of failures, disappointments, and regrets. How do you recover? I guess you don't. You just exist as a broken man.
 
Growth hormones will help.
 
I think the misconception is that we can alter our feelings by just making it. I believe that people aren't just Incel due to looks, but personality also has a guiding hand, after all...the difference between a failed Normie and an Incel can just be a sense of self awareness. Any member here could easily be out clubbing every weekend wearing an Avengers shirt and posting on IT to get good boy points, but they aren't, they're here. You may make peace with the world but you're making peace with the world as it is, you'll still be aware of how awful it is, nothing can change that...you can't go back to being ignorant.

I think you stop being bitter when you just become numb to it, I don't think being at peace is an option.
 
fake news

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It is the youthpill. Just take the youthpill.
 
No...because your are simply lying to yourself. like faceandlms is. if you know its a lie than why even lie to yourself?
 
No, it’ll live with you. Some may be fortunate enough to escape inceldom, but the truth will never escape them.
 
I've been alot less bitter lately, due to changes I've made in my own life. Sure it flares up now and again, but it's much easier to manage.
 
blackpilled since birth, i have no bitterness. i have no emotion towards the abyss.
 
I can't remember a time where I didn't hate everyone.
 
Yes. Once you truly accept it's over, you can move on. The key is to stop having any hope you will ever ascend ever.
 
Yes bro. I’m slowly becoming more and more volcel tbh. Females outright disgust me now.
 
No it will die with us,within us,inside us.
 
Hell fucking no....Feminists started this war.
 
I will never leg go of my hatred
 
I was born bitter. Bitterness is in the very core of my being, without it I'd be an NPC tbhngl.
 
No, I think it can lessen but to go away completely? Never.
 
It's over, we can never change anymore the only way would be if we go back to our child days, forget everything that happened to us and live everything different, no bully, friends to support us, romantic experience, fun parties, a life, we never had any of this and we will probably never have and by some miracle, a really fucking rare miracle we get this things we going to fuck all up, because the damage is still here and in our age it takes experience with this things to maintain them.
 
I will be forever bitter since i lost my youth and while being in the best years of my life 17-27 i was and still are just rotting at my room.
 
Personally, I'm naturally not a spiteful or bitter person, so this probably affects me less than others.

For me, the main feeling is apathy. I know that no matter how many girls I approach on the streets/malls/shops, how many I message online etc etc, it won't work. So the motivation to take action plummets. There's no burning sense of anger; just apathy.
 
It would require people treating me like a human, compared to others.

I'm not holding my breath for that day.
 

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