Do you think being a virgin causes depression

[ionlycopenow]

Off my experience viewing others, dudes seem so happy and full of life in high school when they're getting girls, fast forward to seeing them only a year or two later, they look nervous, unconfident and about ready to blow their brains out. I recently saw a dude I recognized from school, he used to be a Slayer because he was considered buff/wide framed, but now in the real world he isn't jack shit especially with all the gymcels being the norm, and he looked like he had clinical depression. I was astounded really he looked like he was on the verge of tears and despair and back in school I remember him being super outgoing and driven to do anything.

Seeing that happen so much, I think that being a virgin is the worst because you don't even know what it feels like, and second worse is what I said above. But I think it does make you become depressed. I think Normies stave off depression from their shitty job and life by saying, "at least I have a pussy I can at least fuck occasionally". Once again see pic related

 

[Billowel]

no but being a loser without a future does.

 

[ionlycopenow]

no but being a loser without a future does.

I am both

 

[Billowel]

I am both

same.life is brutal

 

[ionlycopenow]

same.life is brutal

How you holding up?

 

[Billowel]

How you holding up?

not well,but death will come one day and hopefully i will get my last rites. Wouldn't like to die without being absolutely sure that i am not in mortal sin.

 

[Irredeemable]

Yes. Even bluepilled virgins despair over the empty desert that is their sex life. Touch starvation is real.

 

[ionlycopenow]

not well,but death will come one day and hopefully i will get my last rites. Wouldn't like to die without being absolutely sure that i am not in mortal sin.

If you believe in Christ and try not to sin you will be fine. It's unavoidable but try not to.

Yeah some days I am really thinking about the rope but it's not been too too bad ever

 

[ChronicPaincel]

Things are fucking brutal in 2020 for us men

 

[Lebensmüder]

Off my experience viewing others, dudes seem so happy and full of life in high school when they're getting girls, fast forward to seeing them only a year or two later, they look nervous, unconfident and about ready to blow their brains out. I recently saw a dude I recognized from school, he used to be a Slayer because he was considered buff/wide framed, but now in the real world he isn't jack shit especially with all the gymcels being the norm, and he looked like he had clinical depression. I was astounded really he looked like he was on the verge of tears and despair and back in school I remember him being super outgoing and driven to do anything.

Seeing that happen so much, I think that being a virgin is the worst because you don't even know what it feels like, and second worse is what I said above. But I think it does make you become depressed. I think Normies stave off depression from their shitty job and life by saying, "at least I have a pussy I can at least fuck occasionally". Once again see pic related



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This. Mental illnesses like depression get treated like a regular medical disorder nowadays and not like the logical result of a society that abandons most men and views them as expendable trash - it's only natural to behave that way with certain life experiences.

The greatest mistake of our society was demystifying everything and treating science like a god. Instead of seeing mentall illness as a result of the environment (e.g. as something shaped by your life experience) and seeing the individual afflicted by that problems as human being they see it as a defect at the organic/molecular level that can be removed with the proper medication - the scientific/cold-logical approach ultimately resulted in the dehumanization of humans as a whole because the technocrat/professional sees their patient only as a machine/a collection of different parts (organs, molecules, atoms) that requires fixing at a certain level and not as a human being.

 

[ionlycopenow]

This. Mental illnesses like depression get treated like a regular medical disorder nowadays and not like the logical result of a society that abandons most men and views them as expendable trash - it's only natural to behave that way with certain life experiences.

The greatest mistake of our society was demystifying everything and treating science like a god. Instead of seeing mentall illness as a result of the environment (e.g. as something shaped by your life experience) and seeing the individual afflicted by that problems as human being they see it as a defect at the organic/molecular level that can be removed with the proper medication - the scientific/cold-logical approach ultimately resulted in the dehumanization of humans as a whole because the technocrat/professional sees their patient only as a machine/a collection of different parts (organs, molecules, atoms) that requires fixing at a certain level and not as a human being.

You're spot on. I think stuff like depression/anxiety is mostly "nurture". Sure, I'm sure some people are less predisposed to it than others genetically, but either way it will arise given living enough in a shitty life or society.

Modern society drives people to be absolutely miserable to the point of craving suicide and instead of changing that they'd rather give them pills to suppress it instead. It's insane.

I hear some non western countries have way lower depression rates despite not necessarily better ways of life.

 

[Deleted member 28793]

1.Being a virgin: depressed because you don't know how it's like
2.Being a normie: depressed because you have to live up to foids' standards
3.Being incel: depressed because you either are still 1 or you've been 2 but now it's all gone or you've been redpilled and everything you believed in was bs

 

[ionlycopenow]

1.Being a virgin: depressed because you don't know how it's like
2.Being a normie: depressed because you have to live up to foids' standards
3.Being incel: depressed because you either are still 1 or you've been 2 but now it's all gone or you've been redpilled and everything you believed in was bs

Takeaway: if you're not Chad you're probably going to be depressed to various severity

 

[Haywire]

it sure doesn't help or feel great being alone.

 

[Billowel]

If you believe in Christ and try not to sin you will be fine. It's unavoidable but try not to.

Yeah some days I am really thinking about the rope but it's not been too too bad ever

for the past 2-3 weeks i have had a lost of appetite(i get more filled easily too),so maybe my time is much closer then i think.

 

[Pengwin]

I'm certain of it.

 

[ionlycopenow]

for the past 2-3 weeks i have had a lost of appetite(i get more filled easily too),so maybe my time is much closer then i think.

Just hang in there. I have many dark days too, I know all about having 0 appetite on those days too but thankfully, it's tolerable on most ones.

 

[your personality]

Off my experience viewing others, dudes seem so happy and full of life in high school when they're getting girls, fast forward to seeing them only a year or two later, they look nervous, unconfident and about ready to blow their brains out. I recently saw a dude I recognized from school, he used to be a Slayer because he was considered buff/wide framed, but now in the real world he isn't jack shit especially with all the gymcels being the norm, and he looked like he had clinical depression. I was astounded really he looked like he was on the verge of tears and despair and back in school I remember him being super outgoing and driven to do anything.

Seeing that happen so much, I think that being a virgin is the worst because you don't even know what it feels like, and second worse is what I said above. But I think it does make you become depressed. I think Normies stave off depression from their shitty job and life by saying, "at least I have a pussy I can at least fuck occasionally". Once again see pic related



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Here's the thing: it never ends at least before the age of 50 even if you ascended or had intimacy from a woman once. You're back to square one or worse once she breaks up with you and you can't find anyone else.
Your mental state and mood will always be dependent on whether or not you are in a relationship with a woman.

 

[FinnCel]

Being rejected causes depression

 

[Lebensmüder]

You're spot on. I think stuff like depression/anxiety is mostly "nurture". Sure, I'm sure some people are less predisposed to it than others genetically, but either way it will arise given living enough in a shitty life or society.

Modern society drives people to be absolutely miserable to the point of craving suicide and instead of changing that they'd rather give them pills to suppress it instead. It's insane.

I hear some non western countries have way lower depression rates despite not necessarily better ways of life.

This also results from the purily scientific definition of life. In that definition made by logicians/scientists life is synonymous to existence, they only seek to extend the lifespan while not taking the life quality into account because they only see strictly metric data and statistics. Just fucking lol, a few years as a lion are better than thousand years of life as a sheep.
Their completely materialistic world-view is also seen whenever they are asked to describe life quality. If they are asked to define life quality in a country they only see the statistics and take financial success/e.g. as indicators of life quality. They see life quality (like everything) as a purely metric and therefore objective/quantifiable trait. The technocrats only see material/quantifiable stuff without taking the immaterial, but truly important stuff into account.

 

[ionlycopenow]

This also results from the purily scientific definition of life. In that definition made by logicians/scientists life is synonymous to existence, they only seek to extend the lifespan while not taking the life quality into account because they only see strictly metric data and statistics. Just fucking lol, a few years as a lion are better than thousand years of life as a sheep.
Their completely materialistic world-view is also seen whenever they are asked to describe life quality. If they are asked to define life quality in a country they only see the statistics and take financial success/e.g. as indicators of life quality. They see life quality (like everything) as a purely metric and therefore objective/quantifiable trait. The technocrats only see material/quantifiable stuff without taking the immaterial, but truly important stuff into account.

Very insightful and high iq

 

[PPEcel]

Being genetic trash causes depression.

 

[The Zulfigar]

Takeaway: if you're not Chad you're probably going to be depressed to various severity sooner or later

 

[Deleted member 24293]

I am 100% convinced that it causes depression and a shit ton of other problems.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

no but being a loser without a future does.

There's no future without kids.

Being genetic trash causes depression.

 

[ionlycopenow]

Being genetic trash causes depression.

Does it? I don't think it's being genetic trash itself but rather being a VIRGIN as a result of it

 

[Total Imbecile]

Yes. It completely destroys me mentally, everything from not being able to get out of my bed to having no self esteem, wanting to die every day and having 0 empathy all ties back to the fact that Im a virgin. There is nothing worse than being a virgin, and I think if you manage to stay one into your 20s you will be permanently damaged

I will never feel good about myself, even if I get a girlfeirnd I will know that shes settling for me, I will always know that no woman judged me good enough to be their bf in their prime, not even slaying can make up for making it to 22 a vigin

 

[Uglymuggly]

Yes. Even bluepilled virgins despair over the empty desert that is their sex life. Touch starvation is real.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

No shit