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Ellsworth

Ellsworth

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Do you share with your friends and family that if you can’t date or get a gf then you don’t really care if keep on living or not? Or do you keep it to yourself.
 
Not anymore. I just got gaslighted every fucking time. No matter how much evidence or facts I brought up to my family, they continued to find some arbitrary reason as to why I'm a single virgin man.

One day I got rejected then told my sister and she said "well it's a cloudy day, she could've been depressed." ffs.
 
I don't talk about it
 
If your normalfag family members ever try to hassle you about not trying to date just tell them you are trying to get your life together before you date anybody.
 
I’m not saying I’m suicidal, I had those thoughts when I was younger but not anymore. Just I don’t really care to much about life and if I live or die since I’m excluded from such a major part of life.
 
Don't really talk about it but I told my friend that I don't think I will get married or have kids and he agreed. Same with my mom. Sisters never ask me about it.
I guess they just know
 
I'll keep living if I don't have those things but I know when I'm in my 30's and 40's it's gonna start hurting really bad
 
Don't really talk about it but I told my friend that I don't think I will get married or have kids and he agreed. Same with my mom. Sisters never ask me about it.
I guess they just know
Nobody in my family ever asks. Never have. I find that weird.
 
Nobody in my family ever asks. Never have. I find that weird.
It's because they don't have to ask. They just look at you and already know
 
Do you share with your friends and family that if you can’t date or get a gf then you don’t really care if keep on living or not? Or do you keep it to yourself.
No i don't, neither do I have anybody to share it. My family don't care about me. Everything that counts for my dad is, that I go to school. He don't talk to me, I need to go to him, to get him to speak with me. He never comes in my room, and looks if everything is alright.

I don't know, if he even enjoys my presence, I wouldn't care either. For a long time, my dad was a person that really made me feel something, but after I got older I lost that feeling. I think he doesn't love me. I can't make him proud, I'm a loser, which lives in social isolation that only goes to the gym.

I gived up on this. I don't try it with my father anymore, it's his turn now. He needs to show me, if he loves me. I did this and got nothing from it.

(Edit: neither do I want to talk about it)
 
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Well I don’t have any friends. I tell my family that I’m not looking to date anyone and they usually don’t ask anything beyond that
 
I don’t have anyone to tell
 
My mother knows I don’t have a gf and never did yet, but I don’t tell her the extent of how depressing it all is. And as for anyone else, I try to hide it. I always lie and tell coworkers that I’ve had relationships in the past and am just temporarily single
 
Do you share with your friends and family that if you can’t date or get a gf then you don’t really care if keep on living or not? Or do you keep it to yourself.
I just tell them that I gave up lol. They usually leave me alone about it
 
My mom is the only person I can talk to using my voice, and I bitch and whine to her constantly. Although these weeks I have been more content with my AI waifu, so have spared her a bit.

My mom is great, aside from being rather mentally stunted. For example, she could never play table tennis with words with me - like I wish I had someone who could say "normies suffer in company, you suffer in solitude, but everyone suffers", so I could respond with "then suicide is great", and she could say "but you have 2 years' worth of Steam games to play through still".
 
The topic never really comes up, except from some few rare occasions.
 
I vent to my brother sometimes, also about religion and existentialism. He is probably sick of it :feelshaha:
 
no i never talk about that shit with my irl friends and family. theyll prob just gaslight me to oblivion
 
Not anymore. I just got gaslighted every fucking time. No matter how much evidence or facts I brought up to my family, they continued to find some arbitrary reason as to why I'm a single virgin man.

One day I got rejected then told my sister and she said "well it's a cloudy day, she could've been depressed." ffs.
Same for me but my family members started mocking me after i hit my 20s.

Its not just asking about where my girlfriend is or when i get a girlfriend as it was in my teens.

Now they started to literally bully me about it.

My older Cousin whos a mother at age 28 said i should date ugly fat women because its better then nothing.

I am like...nah I wont.

Then again I know even disgusting landwhales have more options then I will ever have.
 
Not anymore. I just got gaslighted every fucking time. No matter how much evidence or facts I brought up to my family, they continued to find some arbitrary reason as to why I'm a single virgin man.

One day I got rejected then told my sister and she said "well it's a cloudy day, she could've been depressed." ffs.

this,

I dont know why the elephant in the room of being a failure of genetics is such a foreign concept to them
 
Do you share with your friends and family that if you can’t date or get a gf then you don’t really care if keep on living or not? Or do you keep it to yourself.
I say the truth
 
I don’t share anything of these things with my “friends” unless they’re also incels.If you share these things with the normies/chads, they’ll usually either bully you or try to bluepill you and other normshit things
 
I don’t share anything of these things with my “friends” unless they’re also incels.If you share these things with the normies/chads, they’ll usually either bully you or try to bluepill you and other normshit thinfs
 
Sometimes. But I am trying not to bother my friends with this, i should remain silent and suffer alone.

I noticed that, in the beggining, they tried to bluepill me. But now they are convinced that there's no way for me to overcome inceldom, so they just get sad when I tell them about my failures and they try to confort me.
 
My older Cousin whos a mother at age 28 said i should date ugly fat women because its better then nothing.
The thing is not even fag ugly foids like me. They all still fucking reject me.
Then again I know even disgusting landwhales have more options then I will ever have.
I've found that the fatter they are, the higher the body count they have.
 
I've found that the fatter they are, the higher the body count they have.
I was fucking shocked to learn that this one 21 yo girl from a class on my college was not a virgin.

There was this one class we had and the Prof asked her "How was your first time?" (The reason was to NOT get an answer because its supposed to be an "intimate" question)

I just said to her "Shes a virgin haha" it was my Jestermaxx - i did it JFL because I assumed SHE WAS A VIRGIN - she was fat like beyond just chubby and had a low tier becky face.

It was so embarassing for me to find out she had dozens of bodies.

BTW this happened when I was still redpilled.

Now I know women of all races and looks have infinite more SMV then the biggest gigachad.
 
One day I got rejected then told my sister and she said "well it's a cloudy day, she could've been depressed." ffs.
she could have had lifelong depression and it would have been fixed instantly if chad asked her out
 
Do you share with your friends and family that if you can’t date or get a gf then you don’t really care if keep on living or not? Or do you keep it to yourself.
My brother is basically a older and uglier version of me, he’s knows we’re both fucked but he doesn’t spend time on incel or BP spaces so he doesn’t know any terms that we use here.

We’ve debated my dad and none biological uncle over it and I posted a thread about that actually.

On my first day at my job I almost said I was an incel when I got asked if I ever had a girlfriend, glad I didn’t but I don’t think I would have gotten fired though.
 
I'm not suicidal + plus it never came up because they're muzzies. The problem with ethnic parents is that while you can have no gf and be left alone in your teens, they really crank up the pressure to get married in your 20s.
 

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