Serious Do you struggle with your sense of masculinity?

[NegroKing]

I tend to get scared easily because of my anxiety and inability to understand how the world works which makes me feel vulnerable. I also feel that I have certain other feminine traits which makes it even worse. I have only recently discovered the importance of masculinity as my father never taught it to me in my own and my mom kept trying to turn me into a beta bitch. You won't be respected by anyone, male or female.

Just considering how much easier life would have been if I understood this from a young age makes me very mad. I can think back to so many instances where I made a fool of myself by not acting manly enough. If they were female, they were disgusted while men thought they could push me around. I will not make that mistake again.

 

[Deleted member 5653]

Yes, I do. All my childhood I was taught to like act like a beta... by a chad dad. Now that I am in my twenties I still feel like little teenager and I can't relate to my peers.

 

[Hunter]

this. in my house i lived with 3 sisters my mother and every other day my beta stepdad. i only reunited with my father yesteryear and prior to that i hadnt seen him for almost a decade. needless to say, my upbringing is a huge contributor to how beta and socially weak i am.

 

[NegroKing]

this. in my house i lived with 3 sisters my mother and every other day my beta stepdad. i only reunited with my father yesteryear and prior to that i hadnt seen him for almost a decade. needless to say, my upbringing is a huge contributor to how beta and socially weak i am.

For me it's similar. My dad was a pussy himself but also kind of an asshole. I hated him so I had to look to my mom for guidance who was a lunatic that tried to turn me into a complete faggot.

 

[Hunter]

For me it's similar. My dad was a pussy himself but also kind of an asshole. I hated him so I had to look to my mom for guidance who was a lunatic that tried to turn me into a complete faggot.

lmao pretty much same boat except my father isnt truly the asshole, all my childhood my mom painted him as the asshole but now i realise the truth. my mom wants to turn me into a nice guy betatype, if i turned into a faggot she would crucify me.

 

[NegroKing]

lmao pretty much same boat except my father isnt truly the asshole, all my childhood my mom painted him as the asshole but now i realise the truth. my mom wants to turn me into a nice guy betatype, if i turned into a faggot she would crucify me.

Yeah when I said faggot I just meant beta as fuck lol. She doesn't understand because Indians don't really have a concept of masculinity and of course she's a woman. I actually used to think my dad was a thug so I associated masculinity with bad things but now I realize he was just a pussy who was overcompensating.

 

[GeneticFilth]

Masculine just means you're tall or have an attractive face. Take anyone that you consider to be masculine and if they woke up and had a narrow frame with tiny wrist, tiny ankles, and were short, with an ugly face, they would be the most unmasculine person in the world.

 

[BKing]

Absolutely. I bet 99% of this forum are like this. I also can't relate to men my age because I've never had the experiences they've had (countless little things, listing them is going to take forever) and now I have to catch up at least 15 years. Is this even possible?

 

[NegroKing]

Masculine just means you're tall or have an attractive face. Take anyone that you consider to be masculine and if they woke up and had a narrow frame with tiny wrist, tiny ankles, and were short, with an ugly face, they would be the most unmasculine person in the world.

That's cope. People who I mogged in all those categories were still more masc than me.

 

[GeneticFilth]

That's cope. People who I mogged in all those categories were still more masc than me.

Even face?

 

[Juxtaposition6]

My shyness is my biggest weakness, i have to somehow destroy it be it with therapy, meds or whatever the fuck.

 

[UnfitForReproduction]

I'm actually too masculine and dimorphic for women

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Masculine just means you're tall or have an attractive face. Take anyone that you consider to be masculine and if they woke up and had a narrow frame with tiny wrist, tiny ankles, and were short, with an ugly face, they would be the most unmasculine person in the world.

This. I was born as a mouthbreather, which prevents you from getting enough oxygen and constantly puts your body into fight or flight mode. Most of my anxiety comes from that, which is not my fault. So no, i dont question my masculinity. If anything, society does that to me.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

nah HOLD FRAME BRO@!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[3uxp]

Idk if i'm masculine i have the classic 1000 yard aspie stare i rarely talk can that be considered masculine ?

 

[Alone75]

I don't feel a real man I suppose, all it would take was for one femoid to willingly open her legs for me really to feel like one finally. Also I've suffered with anxiety and depression, it's more a symptom of how I've been treated and carrying on for so many years like this.

A female gets empathy and compassion plus a billion sex starved male orbiters. A male gets called weak and pathetic. It's the way it is.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Masculine just means you're tall or have an attractive face. Take anyone that you consider to be masculine and if they woke up and had a narrow frame with tiny wrist, tiny ankles, and were short, with an ugly face, they would be the most unmasculine person in the world.

this

99% of personality traits are just your looks

 

[FeminismsCancer]

I feel emasculated because I don't have my shit in order. It's pure sui fuel to see how my stacy sister does.