Do you still try to get a girlfriend/sex?

[bcroger]

I do.

I am a 30 year old man and i've never had sex or a relationship before, but I still try. For example, I stop by at a smoothie shop and I try to talk to foids who work there sometimes. Most of them are college students. Some of them look too young (like 18-21) but I sometimes try to talk to the ones who appear to be 22+. They are seniors/super seniors and grad school students so they are at least closer to my age.

I also try to talk to foids at work who are not disgusting, landwhales. I don't mind overweight, but I avoid obese pigs. Not being an obese animal is really my only requierment. There are 3 foids who aren't landwhales who are not married. I try to talk to them from time to time as well. None seem interested, but its important to still try imo.

Thoughts? Do you guys try, if so how?

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

i don't try

 

[AutistSupremacist]

I fantasize about it all the time, but I don't think it will come. In reality, it is all I really want.

 

[SupremeAutist]

I haven't done any trying in a couple months now but I haven't thrown in the towel yet

 

[High Tier Aryan]

No

 

[BurntIvoryKingcel]

I stop by at a smoothie shop and I try to talk to foids who work there sometimes. Most of them are college students. Some of them look too young (like 18-21) but I sometimes try to talk to the ones who appear to be 22+. They are seniors/super seniors and grad school students.

awful, awful strategy.

 

[bcroger]

awful, awful strategy.

Why?

Its really the only place I see foids who are not disgusting, zoo animal, landwhales.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

No. Not a chance I'm risking anything talking to random women today. I don't feel comfortable even talking to my old female neighbors.

 

[NiggerAnnihilator]

Why?

Its really the only place I see foids who are not disgusting, zoo animal, landwhales.

ur so stupid bud. have fun catching a false harassment charge for doing that dumb shit.

 

[fatecel]

haven’t spoken to a foid in like 8 months

 

[Pancakecel]

Have those foids you talked to ever shown interest in you? I'm guessing no, so what's the point of cold approaching them still.

 

[bcroger]

Have those foids you talked to ever shown interest in you? I'm guessing no, so what's the point of cold approaching them still.

No, but you still have to try man.

I also looksmax. I do skincare and i'm trying to get my bodyfat from around 16% to 14%.

 

[bcroger]

i don't try

Interesting.

 

[glutty]

I'm gonna try in the summer when I get the freetime but if I fail well there's always this place to go to.

 

[umsure]

I tried for the last 13 years (I’m 26 and started liking girls at 13). I’m tired man. How much more do you want me to try? There’s not even more profiles to swipe on the dating apps in my city.

I haven’t held hands or had my first kiss yet.

 

[umsure]

I also looksmax. I do skincare and i'm trying to get my bodyfat from around 16% to 14%.

You’re either capable of ascending or still in the coping phase. Some of us are legitimately truecels which is hard to imagine. I have a medical reason for my trueceldom, which I don’t like sharing on every post, but it is real and I exist as a guaranteed man to die as a virgin.

 

[NiggerAnnihilator]

You’re either capable of ascending or still in the coping phase. Some of us are legitimately truecels which is hard to imagine. I have a medical reason for my trueceldom, which I don’t like sharing on every post, but it is real and I exist as a guaranteed man to die as a virgin.

he needs to be perma’d

 

[nazianime]

Nope, I have erectile dysfunction now.

 

[bcroger]

I tried for the last 13 years (I’m 26 and started liking girls at 13). I’m tired man. How much more do you want me to try? There’s not even more profiles to swipe on the dating apps in my city.

I haven’t held hands or had my first kiss yet.

True.

 

[Fed_911]

If it’s over, it’s over

No point in trying to get a gf if one is still a khhv after 20

 

[Doomedvirgin]

I gave up in highschool

 

[kay']

haven’t spoken to a foid in like 8 years

 

[underballer]

Yes

 

[PersonalityChad]

No.

 

[Five Dozen Eggs]

I'm 30 as well. Sometimes I'll need to re-blackpill myself by downloading one of the billion dating apps out there. I always put genuine effort into making a good profile and have had several "good" pictures taken of me over the last few years but the only matches I ever get are bots or onlyfans whores. I usually see the writing on the wall after a few weeks and shut down for a long time until I'm dumb/horny/bored enough to try again.

I won't try in person any more after a foid accused me of assault after I asked if i could buy her a drink at a bar. I would have gotten jumped by 3 or 4 white knights if I hadn't have booked it immediately.

 

[WeirdFish]

Brutal story. When are you gonna get the message and give up, I wonder. I'm not trying as of yet. No point, I'm moving in a few months and then maybe I'll start trying again. Only problem is that nothing ever happens and I just give up feeling worse about things

 

[Rapistcel]

I do.

I am a 30 year old man and i've never had sex or a relationship before, but I still try. For example, I stop by at a smoothie shop and I try to talk to foids who work there sometimes. Most of them are college students. Some of them look too young (like 18-21) but I sometimes try to talk to the ones who appear to be 22+. They are seniors/super seniors and grad school students so they are at least closer to my age.

I also try to talk to foids at work who are not disgusting, landwhales. I don't mind overweight, but I avoid obese pigs. Not being an obese animal is really my only requierment. There are 3 foids who aren't landwhales who are not married. I try to talk to them from time to time as well. None seem interested, but its important to still try imo.

Thoughts? Do you guys try, if so how?

Take the blackpill

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I stopped before it even began

 

[Praetorian Kanga]

Nope, I have erectile dysfunction now.

Me too

 

[bcroger]

Take the blackpill

I already do, but whats the harm in trying?

 

[j10009504]

I don't actively try anymore but I would if someone came my way for some reason

 

[bcroger]

Brutal story. When are you gonna get the message and give up, I wonder. I'm not trying as of yet. No point, I'm moving in a few months and then maybe I'll start trying again. Only problem is that nothing ever happens and I just give up feeling worse about things

you try, at least you have a ray of hope.

Otherwise, it just feels useless.

 

[bcroger]

I'm 30 as well. Sometimes I'll need to re-blackpill myself by downloading one of the billion dating apps out there. I always put genuine effort into making a good profile and have had several "good" pictures taken of me over the last few years but the only matches I ever get are bots or onlyfans whores. I usually see the writing on the wall after a few weeks and shut down for a long time until I'm dumb/horny/bored enough to try again.

I won't try in person any more after a foid accused me of assault after I asked if i could buy her a drink at a bar. I would have gotten jumped by 3 or 4 white knights if I hadn't have booked it immediately.

Interesting story. Thanks for sharing!

 

[ethniccel2025]

i need to ascend

 

[kcarrots]

i don't try

 

[Bitter_And_Angry]

I don't try , I don't want to get into trouble or have foids making false accusations of harassment against me.

 

[lifeisfucked215]

I do but very rarely. Tbh I avoid foids like 95% of the time. Definitely don't chat with foid coworkers (legit every guy at my work puts them on pedestals) or foids in my class.

 

[NocturnalCel]

I don’t try at all. I did in college and realized it was over for me

 

[Incel_Doomer]

 

[Sans]

I still try, even though I know it's hopeless.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

For me, the desire to pursue a romantic relationship or actively seek out a girlfriend is slowly fading away. Over the years, my mindset has shifted dramatically, largely due to the influence of the blackpill and an overwhelming exposure to a certain understanding of female nature. These concepts have deeply impacted my mental and emotional state, to the point where I no longer see the pursuit of a traditional relationship as something I desire or actively aim for.
The drive to connect with someone romantically has gradually faded, replaced by a growing sense of disillusionment. Yet, paradoxically, my yearning for physical intimacy, particularly sex, has only intensified. It’s as though while the prospect of a fulfilling emotional connection has slipped away, the biological craving for physical closeness remains ever-present, leaving me in a confusing, somewhat detached space.
In essence, I’ve come to terms with the fact that the pursuit of a relationship no longer resonates with me. However, the craving for the physical aspects of intimacy remains a stark, undeniable reality that is increasingly difficult to ignore.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

I do.

I am a 30 year old man and i've never had sex or a relationship before, but I still try. For example, I stop by at a smoothie shop and I try to talk to foids who work there sometimes. Most of them are college students. Some of them look too young (like 18-21) but I sometimes try to talk to the ones who appear to be 22+. They are seniors/super seniors and grad school students so they are at least closer to my age.

I also try to talk to foids at work who are not disgusting, landwhales. I don't mind overweight, but I avoid obese pigs. Not being an obese animal is really my only requierment. There are 3 foids who aren't landwhales who are not married. I try to talk to them from time to time as well. None seem interested, but its important to still try imo.

Thoughts? Do you guys try, if so how?

I kinda gave up, fucking foids even got me banned in a mental health app, maybe if I get enough money to pay for dating websites then I could keep trying

 

[bcroger]

I kinda gave up, fucking foids even got me banned in a mental health app, maybe if I get enough money to pay for dating websites then I could keep trying

Tinder is free.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

I would if I knew how. I tried in college where it was easy mode and still failed.

 

[ForcedMarriageNow]

I don't even know how to try at this point, legal breeding age females are incredibly rare around me, thought I may have found one when my mom's friend bought her daughter over but of course she's underage and will be for the next 6 years so I'm shit out of luck there.

Tinder is free.

Free and time consuming thanks to swipe limits. Instead of me being able to try every account in a 200 mile radius in a couple days it's instead a process stretched out over weeks or even months.

 

[ogercel]

No I gave up

 

[omniyx55]

No, but you still have to try man.

I also looksmax. I do skincare and i'm trying to get my bodyfat from around 16% to 14%.

Cope. Over for some of us unless fakecel

 

[V c z s q e]

I mean I've seen guys chat non stop 8 hours at my job to ugly girls just for them to say they are not interested when being asked out at the end of a shift. If a women likes you she's going let you know. Why bother trying.

 

[bcroger]

Cope. Over for some of us unless fakecel

you try, at least you have a ray of hope.

Otherwise, it just feels useless.

 

[coolguy1488]

I refuse to use roastie dating apps so I guess no