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I'm new to 'incel' after finding it mentioned in the news.

It's nice to find a community like this, although everyone is going to be different, and maybe at different stages.
What I'm wondering to start with is if you incels are still able to have sexual thoughts?

Have your sexual thoughts changed or are you like me and have a mental block (kind of rewiring) where it is simply no longer possible to mentally have a sexual thought due to the distress it causes.
And whatever your situation do you see that ever changing from now on, as to me it feels permenant...
 
no it actually gets stronger. i know that on some fucked level you rather castrate incels to the point where they turn asexuals, but the truth is that we are here and you will have to deal with us in the future. a big problem that requires many resources to solve - it cannot be ignored
 
i want to fuck every girl in america
 
Masturbating right now as I type this.
 
All the time, and it‘s hell.
If a decent girl had sex with me for just once, I‘d be forever happy.
 
That sounds 'normie' to me (sorry i've picked up a term) - probably misusing it.
I was that way once - I had this thing going on (a long duration of high level directed trauma/abuse conditioning).
 
I fap too much for that to be the case.
 
Not anymore:feelsbadman:.

Snap. Do you/anyone else like that have physical symptoms too?
I have erectile dysfunction now.
Erectile dysfunction but balls still make cum and weird veins.
 
Snap. Do you/anyone else like that have physical symptoms too?
I have erectile dysfunction now.
To a degree yes. I just dont feel like it anymore, maybe its poor dieting or something but I feel like it has to do with being incel.
 
TONI KROOOOOOS
 
Good to know we share the same hobbies boyo tbqh.
 
I have lost the privacy to do that. It's just another of the psychological disintegrators I have.
 
I had a late puberty and I touched my pen very late.
Now I'm in my late 20s and horny as fuck.
Random boner, want to smash, etc.
What holding me ? My face.
 
My sex drive is obsessive. When I see a woman I am 100% thinking of fucking.

I think being sexless typically results in an obliteration or over-load of sex-drive.* I read that incels tend to talk about sex way too often - hence the "creep" label. It definitely causes a complex!

*funnily enough, this also seems to be the response of girls who get raped/molested when they are children; either they want no sex or non-stop sex.
 
I can't get a decent boner anymore due to the many meds I'm on, but when I do I stick ultra-degrading porn on and wank my life away.
 
I'm new to 'incel' after finding it mentioned in the news.

It's nice to find a community like this, although everyone is going to be different, and maybe at different stages.
What I'm wondering to start with is if you incels are still able to have sexual thoughts?

Have your sexual thoughts changed or are you like me and have a mental block (kind of rewiring) where it is simply no longer possible to mentally have a sexual thought due to the distress it causes.
And whatever your situation do you see that ever changing from now on, as to me it feels permenant...

I only have thoughts about degrading femoids.
 
Yes and no, I've tried to distance myself from foids.
 
My sexual desires grow larger by the day. I can't take it. I'm addicted to masturbating. I wake up and go to sleep with boners and masturbating. My only cope is masturbation. I jack off so much sometimes I feel like I'm about to pass out.

I'm 26 years old. I've never even smelled or felt a vagina. The closest time I ever tried to get some was over 10 years ago and my brother ended up fucking the girl.

I'm scared I've rewired my brain. I'm jacking off to very sadistic porn at the moment (FFM/MMF 3somes, roleplay rape, BDSM, anal prolapsing, fisting vaginas, futa, candle light torture, hitler raping jewish girls, etc) because regular porn doesn't turn me on anymore. Not getting laid plus 15 years of hardcore daily porn use (sometimes up to 8 hours) has warped me along with inceldom and schizophrenia.

Thing is when ever I do interact with society I'm automatically turned on by even the most grotesque women. its weird because when im alone i cant get hard looking at vanilla porn but when i am close to a femoid even showing a tiny bit of cleavage i get rock hard to the point that pre-cum comes out of my phimosis infested penis. it hurts because of my phimosis but being around femoid brings out the primal inside me. i can't explain it.

thus doktordoom has decided to become a true hikkikimori and not engage in society.

im just laying down and rotting at this moment tbh tbh ngl im fucked
 
Every single second
 
I have an awful mental loop that whenever I think of sex I feel nothing but intense trauma.
The worst disintegration loop possible and it is constant and permanent. Not habitable.

I operate with utmost dignity, always have done.
So when I see a pair of breasts or a pretty women and it has been equated with deep pain, I am betrayed.
 
I have constant sexual fantasies. One of the most prevalent one is me randomly being able to tell anyone to do anything. And ofc I use it to randomly grab co-worker boobs and asses and have them suck my dick and all that shit
 
Everyday, I think you only lose your sexual urges when you stop growing. Like when you become a 30 year old boomer and you haven't gotten a GF/Wife by this point or gotten your life on track I think your body starts killing your sexual urges. You should strive to try and become volcel by 25 or its over for you.
 
When I was younger, I was controlled by my emotions and libido and it was absolute hell. Miraculously and mercifully it has diminished lots (maybe due to medication). However, it's also because I isolate myself lots so I don't have triggers. I go outside and look at the women and it's a nightmare of knowing I've never had it and virtually assured I never will.
 
Everyday, I think you only lose your sexual urges when you stop growing. Like when you become a 30 year old boomer and you haven't gotten a GF/Wife by this point or gotten your life on track I think your body starts killing your sexual urges. You should strive to try and become volcel by 25 or its over for you.
I've been trying to cut my fapping down to once every 3 days, and I also don't feel upset about being a virgin anymore.

However, it's also because I isolate myself lots so I don't have triggers
This is true for me as well, I'm very isolated.
 
just bought a fleshlight
 
Everyday, I think you only lose your sexual urges when you stop growing. Like when you become a 30 year old boomer and you haven't gotten a GF/Wife by this point or gotten your life on track I think your body starts killing your sexual urges. You should strive to try and become volcel by 25 or its over for you.

nah, i'm 37 and still probably think about sex a few times a day still. I don't think T levels really start to drop till you hit your 50's

I would love to be asexual, mentally the logical part of my brain knows there is no chance, but still there is that irrational primal part of your brain forcing you to be attracted to females from a mating perspective.

I'm one of those guys that has never been able to jerk off, so i've learned to live with high levels of discomfort from having blue balls.
 
I don’t find women attractive anymore blackpill made me asexual
 
All the time, and it‘s hell.
If a decent girl had sex with me for just once, I‘d be forever happy.
You might feel a lot more depressed as you'd realize how much you've missed and how much you will continue to miss.
 
I hug my pillow and night and daydream when I sleep and wake up
 
Not anymore oddly enough. I used to fap every single day sometimes twice a day but now I don't really think about it anymore. Go figure.
 

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