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Serious Do you people have interests?

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I have legit none, and I think I was this way before the blackpill hit me.

I just realized how apathetic I am when I made small talk at work to ease my wageslave Monday. This guy was talking about how excited he is with his new boat and how happy he’ll be when he makes his next big purchase, a rolex. The whole time I’m thinking to myself ‘Why?’. I cannot wrap my mind around people being excited to own a watch, or having fun floating around the water in some overpriced boat.
 
Fallout 4 is my cope desu
 
JFL at thinking that the desire to buy a rolex and a boat counts as an 'interest'. Normslime are pathetic.
 
JFL at thinking that the desire to buy a rolex and a boat counts as an 'interest'. Normslime are pathetic.

I don’t disagree, but god damn it, it would be nice to feel excitement about something.
 
I just realized how apathetic I am when I made small talk at work to ease my wageslave Monday. This guy was talking about how excited he is with his new boat and how happy he’ll be when he makes his next big purchase, a rolex. The whole time I’m thinking to myself ‘Why?’. I cannot wrap my mind around people being excited to own a watch, or having fun floating
I know how you feel, I'm 'in the same boat', but it isn't your fault. It's very rare you will meet anyone who isn't entirely mundane, boring, and soulless. Be proud you aren't the kind of bugman who derives pleasure from spending thousands on a shiny trinket in the hopes it will boost his status.
 
I do but I feel more and more detached to everything I used to enjoy. Game developers, musicians... a lot of them are likely staunch normies who would likely hate me if they knew me, so how on Earth can I relate to their work?

I don’t have the patience to develop a ‘productive’ hobby either because a) I suck ass at everything I do and b) I keep thinking ‘why am I even doing this if no one will ever appreciate it and it won’t get me a gf?’.

Life’s a beach.
 
I don’t disagree, but god damn it, it would be nice to feel excitement about something.
Excitement was for childhood and teenage years, now everything is boring and mundane. I too have almost no passion anymore, I used to LOVE video games but now I don´t feel any excitement towards them. I don´t know if it´s just me but being in my 20´s is so boring! People my age are having the time of their life and I feel like everything is so insanely boring and mundane! As a child I literally used NO effort to having fun, just pick up a stick and off to an adventure with friends or play with a toy, video game etc. As a 24yo male I would have to but so much effort into anything just to try and have fun but nothing ever seems fun anymore, everything is so insignificant. Life fucking sucks, childhood was paradise on Earth but this is fucking hell.
 
What do you mean YOU people?
 
I used to, but after a while it´s impossible to feel any sort of dopamine when doing hobbies when you are clinically depressed.
 
Yes I do. You're probably depressed?
 
Likely, but why aren’t you? Seriously.
My biggest burden I have is not being an involuntary celibate, it's being ugly. All I want from women at that point is sex, not love or anything like that. I could get that from a prostitute, if I wanted. Being ugly on the other hand truly hurts and it's depressing. It affects every aspect of life where human beings are included. Since I'm naturally an introvert, I like being alone. And when I'm alone, I don't have to worry about my ugliness. Social comparison is what can seriously cause or aggravate depression so I try to stay away from being social. My dream life would be to live in a small house or camper van and own a couple of pets (best cope). Also all my family members are alive, I have a roof over the top and enough food, which I appreciate.
Of course I'm in a depressed mood after I've walked through a city and got mogged to oblivion by every single person, but that feeling fades away.
I can understand that you're depressed because of inceldom if you always wanted to have a loving wife and children and now you cannot get that. But in my case, I did not really want that anyways.
 
My biggest burden I have is not being an involuntary celibate, it's being ugly. All I want from women at that point is sex, not love or anything like that. I could get that from a prostitute, if I wanted. Being ugly on the other hand truly hurts and it's depressing. It affects every aspect of life where human beings are included. Since I'm naturally an introvert, I like being alone. And when I'm alone, I don't have to worry about my ugliness. Social comparison is what can seriously cause or aggravate depression so I try to stay away from being social. My dream life would be to live in a small house or camper van and own a couple of pets (best cope). Also all my family members are alive, I have a roof over the top and enough food, which I appreciate.
Of course I'm in a depressed mood after I've walked through a city and got mogged to oblivion by every single person, but that feeling fades away.
I can understand that you're depressed because of inceldom if you always wanted to have a loving wife and children and now you cannot get that. But in my case, I did not really want that anyways.
Well then I’m happy for you. I guess you’re lucky in that regard.
 

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