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Do you have any goals in life?

diogenes

diogenes

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I'm in my early 20's and already washed out.

I have no hopes, aspirations, or goals. I have no desires either. The desire for a girlfriend or friends is not even remotely significant enough for me to do anything about it, and honestly I feel like I'm better off alone. I have nothing to look forward to either. Not even videogames or anime, not any kind of entertainment, not any kind of hope for the future.

Why do I study? Because I must. But I don't really care and I don't pour my all into it, I only half-ass it to get over with it (probably won't ever get hired either). Why do I work? Because I must. But if I could I would go postal.

What am I supposed to do other than ROPE?!
 
Get married is my last major life goal. I have made no progress. I already have a home, job, and a Christian lifestyle (mostly).
 
Yes I do have some goals.

Learning Japanese & Having a decent career

Oh yeah and finding a loving girlfriend....
 
6 figure salary.
 
Same. Idk how we can get out of it.
 
Become good looking.
 
See my niece and nephew through university. Find a nice boy for my niece to marry so she is loved and respected. Have my nephew marry a nice girl who appreciates him and not materialism. Possibly marry to make my parents happy. Do work for Doctors Without Borders when the children are established.
 
  • Lose my virginity to a 10/10 blonde model with blue eyes, an ass to murder for and a personality only the patrician of patricians could handle
  • Give my grandma the great grandchild she wants
  • Live in a nice home with all the fancy old white people I could ever want

  • Make a video game

  • work in an important multi million dollar company where I'm second in command
  • Get reddit shut down.
 
I already have a home, job, and a Christian lifestyle (mostly).
Seems like you're making progress then. You're 75% there.

Yes I do have some goals.

Learning Japanese & Having a decent career

Oh yeah and finding a loving girlfriend....
I am jealous. I remember when learning Japanese was my one priority in life.

Same. Idk how we can get out of it.
Is it impossible? I can't find a way. I hate everything I'm doing now but I can't envision another way that would satisfy me.
 
Seems like you're making progress then. You're 75% there.
Thats shit don't mean shit to women though. Face, height, NT status, frame are all more important than the money/status that that gives me.
 
Thats shit don't mean shit to women though. Face, height, NT status, frame are all more important than the money/status that that gives me.
I'm sure you should be able to find a devout Christian woman in your church community. They are rare, but since their parents control them if you are a decent man you should be able to gain their favor. I am ex-Christian and I can remember that in my own church community there were a few women who were very traditional and stuff.
 
Seems like you're making progress then. You're 75% there.


I am jealous. I remember when learning Japanese was my one priority in life.


Is it impossible? I can't find a way. I hate everything I'm doing now but I can't envision another way that would satisfy me.
Our only escape is death I think. This life is worthless to us anyway. We never asked for it. Actually it might be the worst burden we ever had to bear, we're so convinced that we must keep "being" ... In the end we'll just join eternity. Why struggle vaguely for what ? Some more decades ? I'm really considering suicide as a valid option at this point (real clean efficient suicide, not AW faking it to get attention).
 
Ascend and try to make up for lost time.
 
I'm sure you should be able to find a devout Christian woman in your church community. They are rare, but since their parents control them if you are a decent man you should be able to gain their favor. I am ex-Christian and I can remember that in my own church community there were a few women who were very traditional and stuff.
My last oneitis was a true tradcon girl raised under a patriarchy and was incredibly conservative. They are incredibly hard to find though, and I live in one of the more liberal big cities around (my oneitis was at college in a smaller, more conservative area). I know that's my best shot, but at the same time, they see my face and see my autism and they're not interested.
 
Be rich as fuck, get a regular access to pussy, that's about it
 
Our only escape is death I think. This life is worthless to us anyway. We never asked for it. Actually it might be the worst burden we ever had to bear, we're so convinced that we must keep "being" ... In the end we'll just join eternity. Why struggle vaguely for what ? Some more decades ? I'm really considering suicide as a valid option at this point (real clean efficient suicide, not AW faking it to get attention).
Same. I consider suicide everyday. Hibachi method. But I don't think I have what it takes. I'm a coward.

My last oneitis was a true tradcon girl raised under a patriarchy and was incredibly conservative. They are incredibly hard to find though, and I live in one of the more liberal big cities around (my oneitis was at college in a smaller, more conservative area). I know that's my best shot, but at the same time, they see my face and see my autism and they're not interested.
Well, good luck friend.
 
Not become homeless
Not go insane
 
All the goals I have are only possible to achieve in my dreams.
 
That is not reliable in the long run except if you've got nice parents.
You're right. I'm currently at home living with relatives. Since no one works and are living off government money we can't afford living in apartment anymore so homeless I go.
 
ame. I consider suicide everyday. Hibachi method. But I don't think I have what it takes. I'm a coward.
What do you mean by Hibachi ? I was rather thinking about quick ways, like a bullet in the head with a gun, or just laying on railroads waiting for a train. The train thing is cheap, but I would find it hard to stick to it until the good time. The first seems more appealing to me, but I can't buy a freaking gun to end myself in my moronic country. (ironically I would need to pass an exam to become a hunter, damn, that's a whole new "life project" while I just want to end myself)
 
You're right. I'm currently at home living with relatives. Since no one works and are living off government money we can't afford living in apartment anymore so homeless I go.

Why does no one have employment?
 
What do you mean by Hibachi ?
Death by CO poisoning. You get inside a confined space and burn charcoal. This produces carbon monoxide, which the body assumes is air so you pass out without even feeling a thing. Easy, and painless.

The first seems more appealing to me, but I can't buy a freaking gun to end myself in my moronic country. (ironically I would need to pass an exam to become a hunter, damn, that's a whole new "life project" while I just want to end myself)
Well I'd imagine that jumping from a height or standing in front of a train is as scary as pulling the trigger on yourself.
 
This question triggers me so much every fucking time.... . :feelsree::feelsree::feelsree: I always struggled with looking into the future. tbh
 
I could be a 6'4 billionaire celebrity gigachad and I'll still feel miserable at this point.
 
be financially stable, get surgery, marry, have 2 kids
 
Death by CO poisoning. You get inside a confined space and burn charcoal. This produces carbon monoxide, which the body assumes is air so you pass out without even feeling a thing. Easy, and painless.


Well I'd imagine that jumping from a height or standing in front of a train is as scary as pulling the trigger on yourself.

Hibachi is clever but it takes too long, you can "feel" it happen I'm sure. I considered jumping from a height but the delay of the fall is obviously a scary perspective (like keeping the same position to hit a train on its rail). The gun is definitely the best choice : quick, clean, less suffering if you do it well.
 
I used to but after a certain age I stopped caring because I realized I was gonna be a virgin forever. I remember when I was 20 I had so many ambitions but of course, these ambitions included getting a nice gf which never happened so the ambitions died out
 
no goals in life, except to exist.
governments will soon enough start killing off short men for their own benefit
just keep coping tbh,
 
Getting famous, I want the entire world to know my name. This year I'm attending one of the most acknowledged universities in my country, I will study software engineering. I have no social life, so dedicating all my freetime to studying is absolutely no problem for me. Then after becoming a succesful programmer, after becoming rich I will be looking forward to see the reactions of my past classmates from middle- and highschool. Seeing the face of chads who had been bullying me all the time, and the face of those useless sluts who had never been attracted to me and kept laughing at me whenever I got humiliated by those jerks would be invulnerable. As a rich and succesful person I might even have the oplortunity to have sex, to have the love of a girl, maybe even a long term girlfriend. That's my life goal
 
Play guitar better and educate myself. Also learn how to cook meals better. I never have normies interfere with hobbies that are individualistic in nature.
 
Building up the courage to neck myself when it comes to it.
 
I want to learn 5 languages and master my drawing. I think I'll be able to do it seein my consistency and all the free time I got as a neet incel
 
i'd like to visit japan one day but im afraid of planes so other than that nothing really
 
i have no goals.

life for me is just playing wow to cope and trying to find work / working.

im hoping for a nuclear bombing or divine intervention to end my life.
 
1. get a degree
2. lose fat
3. gain passive income

only 2 is a realistic goal but im so lazy
 
My goal in life is to die before im 45, doesnt matter how well my life is going at that point. I dont want to live past 45 years old.
I also have goals I want to reach before I become 45.
 
No, i already accepted my fate
 
Join a gang
Deal drugs
Go to jail
Get face tats
Become a rapper
Fuck jailbait fans
Overdose
Get better
Die in a pointless shoot out
 

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