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Do you have any contact or friends from high school

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I made mistakes, i couldn't control my mouth. And said somethings i shouldn't have said doubled that that im ugly. I basically gave them a reason to hate me.

I currently after high school, have no friends. I just wished i socialized while in middle school and high school. Making friends at that age range is more likely to me real, since people are not particulary self motivated, after something. Everyone to some extend is being themselves. While in adulthood making friends is had, everyone (but not all) are self motivated driven, looking to use others, looking to advanced them selves.

Im literary here alone, with no social skills, no skill at all in that fact. Didnt grow up with connection with my dad, i literarly have no connections with my dad, and its too late because im already an adult, he said he got tired of being alone, and went on to marry a woman and had 2 kids. Looking back i understand why.

Don't have any connections with my cousins, i dont even know who are my cousins on my dads side. And even if i go vist them. We are basically strangers, i never grew up with them. They'll just use me for my money. Not to mention i dont know everyone in my family.

I Currently live with a pyscho-overzeaous religious mom. Self sufficient- country living all of that believer. She should have told me, from the beggining that their was no eating meating; veganism, and that i woukd be reading books from their cult leader. I just want to get out, or hoping that it one day stops. Even if i do get out, i can't just abandon her, she'll approaching 60. Shes elderly. Dont to mention she can't get what she wants because of not enough money. And no connection, even family connections. I do believe livong with her caused my inceldom (isolation)
I was quite socialiable befote i lived with her.

Now im paying the consequences. No friends, no family support. Isolation. Boredom, defeated.
 
Friends were the last thing on my mind.
 
I have a few people I could 25 years later now, but why.
 
0 friends for more than 10 years
 
I made mistakes, i couldn't control my mouth. And said somethings i shouldn't have said doubled that that im ugly. I basically gave them a reason to hate me.
This one hits hard :feelsbadman:
 
never had friends from high school. was bullied and ignored, then eventually shut myself in during 11th grade
 
I considered people I know as friends, but I noticed throughout the years that, they been taking my kindness for their advantages and sadly I been a people’s pleaser aswell, but I kinda been always a loner:dafuckfeels::feelsseriously:
 
What’s a friend?
 
This one hits hard :feelsbadman:
I'm think of writing apology letters. After watching rehab room's work place politics video strengtherns my decision. As an incel you can not be giving people a reason to hate you.
 
I made mistakes, i couldn't control my mouth. And said somethings i shouldn't have said doubled that that im ugly. I basically gave them a reason to hate me.

I currently after high school, have no friends. I just wished i socialized while in middle school and high school. Making friends at that age range is more likely to me real, since people are not particulary self motivated, after something. Everyone to some extend is being themselves. While in adulthood making friends is had, everyone (but not all) are self motivated driven, looking to use others, looking to advanced them selves.

Im literary here alone, with no social skills, no skill at all in that fact. Didnt grow up with connection with my dad, i literarly have no connections with my dad, and its too late because im already an adult, he said he got tired of being alone, and went on to marry a woman and had 2 kids. Looking back i understand why.

Don't have any connections with my cousins, i dont even know who are my cousins on my dads side. And even if i go vist them. We are basically strangers, i never grew up with them. They'll just use me for my money. Not to mention i dont know everyone in my family.

I Currently live with a pyscho-overzeaous religious mom. Self sufficient- country living all of that believer. She should have told me, from the beggining that their was no eating meating; veganism, and that i woukd be reading books from their cult leader. I just want to get out, or hoping that it one day stops. Even if i do get out, i can't just abandon her, she'll approaching 60. Shes elderly. Dont to mention she can't get what she wants because of not enough money. And no connection, even family connections. I do believe livong with her caused my inceldom (isolation)
I was quite socialiable befote i lived with her.

Now im paying the consequences. No friends, no family support. Isolation. Boredom, defeated.
No
 
If it makes you feel any better, past a certain age people rarely keep in touch with their classmates from high school, not even their closest friends from high school. Life takes people in different directions and people drift apart. It's not like anime friendships that are everlasting and they're always there for each other (there's a trope/cliche/motif for what i'm describing but I can't remember the name of it, i'm sure you know what I'm talking about though).

I haven't talked to any of my friends from high school in years. None of us has a "falling out" like OP described, people just drift apart.

Ironically I've had online friendships that lasted longer than any real life friendships I've had.

It sucks for older incels because it means we become completely isolated. Making close friends after age 30 is next to impossible. Single older males aren't really welcomed anywhere, including meetup groups specifically for older people.
 
no

I only have two friends on my phone and I haven’t texted them since covid
 
Isolation. Boredom, defeated.
Find something to do. Resigning to self-negating sentiments and concepts (welschmerz, ennui, ressentiment, angst, despair, schadenfreude, etc) will dampen the soul, enervate the will, and fracture the intellect.
I'm think of writing apology letters. After watching rehab room's work place politics video strengtherns my decision. As an incel you can not be giving people a reason to hate you.
Do not resort to apology! Your enemies will reaffirm their resentment as the gesture subvertly expresses surrender to the enmity exerted against you. What could you have said that made them despise you so? What is more likely to have roused scorn and malice is their perceptions of you rather than an indiscretion on your behalf.

Socrates' Apologia never intended to soothe the petulant, bruised convictions or beliefs of the Athenian public; instead, he chose mocking the order of affairs beneath malicious humility's disguise, ridiculing the spirit of the times in commensuration with his rational mind.
 
After hs we all sort of went our own ways and i changed my number and since i didnt have social media i lost contact with them for years. I got back with them a year ago and we hanged out a couple of times, they are still losers like me
 
None of us has a "falling out" like OP described, people just drift apart.
Yep, same with all my "friends". I hate to call them that, they were acquaintances I hung out with sometimes and never really trusted or anything. It's partly why I don't want to bother talking with anyone now. At best, they end up drifting apart like this and the worse can be much worse.
 
Serveral, but i isolated myself for a couple of years after HS. Luckily i was able to reconnect with some of them

Some of my freinds are still in HS and are graduating soon
 
Yes, but only with 2 people and very off and on
 
This one hits hard :feelsbadman:
I'm think of writing apology letters. After watching rehab room's work place politics video strengtherns my decision. As an incel you can not be giving people a reason to hate you
 
No
 
Only 1.

All else gone, some are in prison, some are NEETS, some are still in university, theres even at least 2 people I know that died, car accident and stroke - both I never really knew or cared about tho.
 
I made mistakes, i couldn't control my mouth. And said somethings i shouldn't have said doubled that that im ugly. I basically gave them a reason to hate me.

I currently after high school, have no friends. I just wished i socialized while in middle school and high school. Making friends at that age range is more likely to me real, since people are not particulary self motivated, after something. Everyone to some extend is being themselves. While in adulthood making friends is had, everyone (but not all) are self motivated driven, looking to use others, looking to advanced them selves.

Im literary here alone, with no social skills, no skill at all in that fact. Didnt grow up with connection with my dad, i literarly have no connections with my dad, and its too late because im already an adult, he said he got tired of being alone, and went on to marry a woman and had 2 kids. Looking back i understand why.

Don't have any connections with my cousins, i dont even know who are my cousins on my dads side. And even if i go vist them. We are basically strangers, i never grew up with them. They'll just use me for my money. Not to mention i dont know everyone in my family.

I Currently live with a pyscho-overzeaous religious mom. Self sufficient- country living all of that believer. She should have told me, from the beggining that their was no eating meating; veganism, and that i woukd be reading books from their cult leader. I just want to get out, or hoping that it one day stops. Even if i do get out, i can't just abandon her, she'll approaching 60. Shes elderly. Dont to mention she can't get what she wants because of not enough money. And no connection, even family connections. I do believe livong with her caused my inceldom (isolation)
I was quite socialiable befote i lived with her.

Now im paying the consequences. No friends, no family support. Isolation. Boredom, defeated.
i gave my old "friend" my phone number last year after not seeing him for 11 years
he never called or text to let me know it was him
just nothing
jfl
 

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