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Serious Do you have a oneitis?

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Who is she? Tell me about your oneitis. Mine is a prostitute I have hired for about a year. She is an amazing woman. I love her and am happy to have met her in my life time even if I mean nothing to her. She plays fortnite with me and told me her real name so I think I mean something to her. At least I hope I do.
 
Who is she? Tell me about your oneitis. Mine is a prostitute I have hired for about a year. She is an amazing woman. I love her and am happy to have met her in my life time even if I mean nothing to her. She plays fortnite with me and told me her real name so I think I mean something to her. At least I hope I do.
Kek you got cucked by a whore. Get a grip mayne shes only with u because u pay.
 
Having a oneitis just proves you aren't blackpilled enough.
 
If you still have a oneitis, you're not qualified enough to be an incel.
 
Stopped having a oneitis in middle school. Shit's pointless if she don't love you back.
 
Girl from hs,
Called me a serial killer to my face.
She doesn't have a fb(I think) so I can't stalk her.
Want to simetanuosly watch her get acidfaced/marry her.
 
Had lots of them. The last and longest one was 8 years younger than me, light brown hair, green eyes, lean, decent 5-6/10 face. She was a self-identified lesbian, kek, but I couldn't ever believe her, since she was good-looking and feminine. Turned out I was right, she has kissed and probably fucked men, I saw pictures of her kissing men AFTER she turned me down for being a lesbian.

Tried to kiss her once, she turned her face, wrote a love letter to her, she ignored it. That has been going on since 2012, it's WAY weaker now, to the point I can hardly think of her as an onitis anymore, but shit, it pains me to know I won't ever feel that pussy, them tits or even her lips. Onitis is the worst, don't spend a lot of time with attractive women, that was my mistake. she was kinda part of my social circle for a while.
 
Not too much; I've been a crusty old curmudgeon since grade school.

There was a girl in middle-school I found particularly attractive. If I was going r*** someone it would have been her.

The closest I've come is when I met a woman online who told me all the sweet things I wanted to hear. She agreed, reassured, empathized, and desired me. Of course that was all a lie, she was basically trolling me. Another instance of 'if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.' But even then I was already thinking of moving past her onto the next bitch. Still, that's the closest I've felt to real love - for whatever that's worth.

Funny it was a cruel joke; much like life itself.

Who is she? Tell me about your oneitis. Mine is a prostitute I have hired for about a year. She is an amazing woman. I love her and am happy to have met her in my life time even if I mean nothing to her. She plays fortnite with me and told me her real name so I think I mean something to her. At least I hope I do.
I have a therapist who considers himself my friend. The only thing is I usually don't have to pay my friends to talk to me.

Don't believe what women say, and only half of what they do. You're in for a hurting if you let these feelings go on. She's prostituting not just her body, but her friendship as well. People only do things if there's something in it for themselves.
 
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I don't want to ruin my mood. There are lots of girls in school that I find attractive but one of them is particularly attractive.
 
Had one or two brief infatuations with a oneitis, while bluepilled. I knew I never really stood a chance, so I wasn't foolish enough to hope, but I sure as hell fantasized about some, ideal future together.
I was most badly hit by a Nordic girl. She was stunningly beautiful. Looking back, I can see, at her heart, she was a female like any other, and hence suffered from the same cruel flaws, but damn, still... thinking about her, her life, what could have been in a perfect world, it all still induces such painful longing.
But it is the week of Retribution, we would do well to not dampen ourselves with thoughts of that nature.
 
Lol over 10 years ago I used to cope hard about a oneitis. Used to tell myself one day she would break up with her bf and then I would be there. I also told myself she wasn't having sex either. Wrong, they were banging non stop and she dated the guy for all of high school
 
I used to have oneitis. One of my oneitis I knew in High School was 10/10 witty blond with an innocent sensual attitude. It was 8 years ago. I watched her facebook a week ago. She's now a fat enemployed child-mother in couple with a low tier normie cuck (really ugly, no status, etc ...). Idk, maybe she fell for his "marvellous personnality" after all ... Or she had no choice. She used to be so carefree ... I can't imagine her being trapped with the beta and the baby, and all these problems. She doesn't look how she used to anymore, I'm not even talking about her body, I'm talking about her facial expression, the indelible markings of a harsh life. Poor girl.

The worst part of the story is that we almost got together 8 years ago. I was to dumb and unexperienced to read the signs and do the appropriate things. Telling myself how things could have been different is a truly awful feel.
 
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I used to. She was a girl from high school. She was a cute petite brunette. I crushed hard on her for 6 fucking years, all the way from Junior year to halfway of college. Throughout that time, I would constantly approach her and orbit her in the hopes that she would reciprocate. She never did. In fact, when things got out of hand, she sent me a pic of herself chilling with some Chadlite bf. Never truly recovered from that.

I no longer carry any feelings towards her and I definitely don't orbit anymore, but she goes through my mind sometimes. I'm still afraid of running into her on the street due to how fucking small my town is. Am perfectly aware of how pathetic and non-blackpilled it was, but I couldn't really stop myself. The entire oneitis was a very irrational thing that I just wasn't able to handle graciously.
 
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My oneitis is also an escort. She took my virginity when I was 26. I saw her pretty regularly for awhile, but I've forced myself to stop, because I know that won't lead anywhere but pain.
 
i have a oneitis but i dont love her / i wanna kidnap her/ be with her forever
 
I had one, then I realized she has a boyfriend. She was an 8/10 (I'm quite harsh on ratings), I was going to ask her if she wanted to do anything over the summer but I found out she had a bf since she took a photo with him on sc. I knew she was probably going to reject me anyway, but you never know. It was mainly lust anyway, I've never felt in love with a femoid.
 
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I think it's a disease and it's killing me. I don't acknowledge the girl as special in any way, I am just a fucked up mentalcel and fantasize too much. I desperately wish it would stop.
 
No but I did in high school. She was actually nice, smart, and non degenerate but like every other girl who actually has value and substance as a person she literally has her pick of gigachads who are stupidly attractive, successful, and personable. There were no guys good enough for her at our hs so she dated a gigachad going to Berkeley.
 
Who is she? Tell me about your oneitis. Mine is a prostitute I have hired for about a year. She is an amazing woman. I love her and am happy to have met her in my life time even if I mean nothing to her. She plays fortnite with me and told me her real name so I think I mean something to her. At least I hope I do.
This girl that was in my econ class that i see around the local chinatown. Tall and pale like an elf but with big dark eyes. Could be a stacy but shes extremely anti social. Has an accent i dont know where from, i get juvy/jail vibes from her. I intend to approach her this summer. We had a rather unpleasant interaction at school and i want to remedy it
 
I don't even bother. I know I stand no chance whatsoever.
 
The last time I had one was 9 years ago in high school. I talked to her in school, she sucked chad's tool. The onitis remained until I found out that Chad was fucking her.
 
I got over it but I still stalk her
 
I feel in love with my escort too, beautiful redhead with turquoise eyes one time she asked me for my costco card so I took her in my truck and we walked around like we were a couple, I told her ass right away I wasn't paying for shit but I ended up buying her a cheese cake. Drove her to her apartment and helped bring in her groceries she had a nappy headed kid watching TV I made friendly gesture to this kid but it probably already knows what's up. This was when I handed her the cheese cake and we make eye contact for a while in my head I was thinking "nah bitch you best be forgetting imma be doing this regularly" so I just told her that I'd call her in a few weeks but never did, also blocked her.
 
I feel in love with my escort too, beautiful redhead with turquoise eyes one time she asked me for my costco card so I took her in my truck and we walked around like we were a couple, I told her ass right away I wasn't paying for shit but I ended up buying her a cheese cake. Drove her to her apartment and helped bring in her groceries she had a nappy headed kid watching TV I made friendly gesture to this kid but it probably already knows what's up. This was when I handed her the cheese cake and we make eye contact for a while in my head I was thinking "nah bitch you best be forgetting imma be doing this regularly" so I just told her that I'd call her in a few weeks but never did, also blocked her.
Good move.
 

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