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Experiment Do you get angry when you have rare esoteric interests that another girl has but she hangs out with the best looking guy with them as well?

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Say you like nerdy stuff like comics, anime, etc. and another girl likes it. You have a couple conversations iwth her, and she doesnt' take hte bati fully becuase you might not be to par with her desires.
But worse yet comes her personality pairage, and he is good looking, so he takes the companionship you would have had instead of her.
And then you feel like the part of the universe you were special in liking has also ostracized you as well. Like the special/ esoteric/ super dynamic primal hierarchy of people who would be into/ spiritually connect with your fantasy/ esoteric interests would also look down on you.
Because someone who would like it, and have similar tastes as you would also have the life philosophy of the girl who just rejected you.
The people in the very fantasy franchise who experience all of the things you WANT to be real, just like the girl who rejected you may ALSO reject you because of the correlation of that girl's tastes in you.
Like if there is a ghost tv show, and she rejects you, so the people who like ghosts may find you unworthy as well.

Say you like to be loki, or a viking, or something in real life, but a woman sees way more of that in another person than you?
And you feel, fuck my life, if only I were more like who I wanted to be myself, then I could have the ego boost/ happy experience that makes me feel closer to who I want to be than that UNWORTHY PIECE OF SHIT.
Do any of you feel this way?
Like you feel you are inherently blessed and worthy for a life that you have an entitlement to have for yourself? That the universe put too much out there for you to simply just have someone else take the mantle you think should be trademarked to yourself?
Say you're a shorter/ average looking guy but a sigma male chad comes in and takes the person who you were edgelordmaxxing to be with, and that girl told you she liked the fantasy franchise you liked.

Conclusion: Not even the stuff that was non-looks based about you can get you laid, and the implication can eb taken that the chads/ stacies who are a part of your nerdy interests/ esoteric interests would also reject you because they would ahve the same interests as the foid who rejected you, and about the same amount of confidence to dispose of people who do not meet their high-criteria for interaciton.
 
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No. “Having things in common” has no bearing on sexual market value/mate choice.. It doesn’t matter. I wouldn’t expect a girl to like me if we have the same interests. My experiences/reality are consistent with my expectations. So why would I get angry? Female sexual nature exists in a bubble outside of everything else and only rewards genetic quality. Marriage market creeps out a bit and rewards resources.
 
No. “Having things in common” has no bearing on sexual market value/mate choice.. It doesn’t matter. I wouldn’t expect a girl to like me if we have the same interests. Female sexual nature exists in a bubble outside of everything else and only rewards genetic quality. Marriage market creeps out a bit and rewards resources.
idk man, sometimes there's more to being of primal value than being sexually attractive. like being company for them as well which underlyingly is also interwoven with being sexually attractive/ high primal wealth.
Women love conversations and bondship but with the guy they feel represents their soul-mate company which is so interdependent on so much more than how you talk or what you say.
I feel you're right in a reductionistic way.
Sometimes women have invested interests in esoteric/ geek culture but it's never separate from their hypergamistic tendencies. In fact, sometimes their geek culture is a fruit of that hypergamism. By only liking bad ass/ domineering characters.
 
idk man, sometimes there's more to being of primal value than being sexually attractive. like being company for them as well which underlyingly is also interwoven with being sexually attractive/ high primal wealth.
Women love conversations and bondship but with the guy they feel represents their soul-mate company which is so interdependent on so much more than how you talk or what you say.
I feel you're right in a reductionistic way.
Sometimes women have invested interests in esoteric/ geek culture but it's never separate from their hypergamistic tendencies. In fact, sometimes their geek culture is a fruit of that hypergamism. By only liking bad ass/ domineering characters.
I feel like that only if I ever caught in the headspace of somewhere inbetween bluepill and bplackpill.. like when I long for loving relationships and companionship and just being there for a girl and loving her.. things like that.. if for a second I stop seeing girls are eugenics automatins and my expections of them change, lots of things will pissme off. Seeing girls with assholes, jocks, abusive guys, mumble rappers, etc. I’ve grown out of that now for the most part and women in my mind are nothing but eugenics bots now. Like water is wet, the sky is key, girls are eugenics automatons. Reality is now very very rarely inconsistent with my expections/understanding, if ever. The blackpill is like the single elegant equation that explains human behavior, like how physicists are searching for one elegant equation to explain the universe.. if the blackpill is too painful or inconvenient, one goes through the steps of grief, eventually comes to terms with it and accepts this paradigm shift/new reality he’s living in, everything makes sense, no need to get angry over anything.

I still flip the fuck out mentally though when I see hot girls with tall hot guys and get angry not because they’re not with me but because I’m not a tall hot guy. It’s not a foid’s fault for condemning a man’s genetic lineage to death, it’s the man’s fault for not having good enough genetics. Foids are NPC’s running on jungle code. Can’t really get mad at them. It would be like getting mad at a baby for crying. Babies cry, that’s just what they do. Foids do eugenics, it’s just what they do.
 
Foids don't care about things in common or good conversation when it comes to sex. All that matters to their decision making regarding sexual partner choice is the tingles in their twat which are activated by handsome, tall men.
You can really hit it off with a girl, have loads in common, many long, deep conversations over any span of time but as soon as chads shows an interest in her she will forget you exist.
 
I like reading and it pisses me off that most people into reading are stupid foids. Even on Jewtube most "booktubers" are stupid roasties that recommend some NPC garbage.
 
No. My interests are too demented for foids to associate with.
 
A foid doesn't have real interests aside from Chad. Whatever the Chad she's pursuing is interested in, she's coincidentally "interested in". Chads hobbies happen to also be her "hobbies".

I've never met a foid that I wasn't convinced was a lesbian/asexual that had actual interests of her own that were truly authentic.
 
No, I'm interested in 2D. And there's no way in hell I'm discussing my love of 2D with another woman.

I have other interests, but none of them are sexy. People can only either be a friend to me, or be intimate with me. Not both.
 
Chads interest can be ritual sacrifice of dogs and he'll still get women
You are your bones
 
Hate when roasties with children and esoteric interests, who spent young years riding cock carousel, telling me to "improve personality". No, not your potential betabuxer cuck, gtfo roastie
 
OP you're not blackpilled.

There was a dating in the dark UK episode where both the foid and the guy got along with each other so well.
They evidently both had great personalities for each other (as cucktears would say), but how the guy looked in the end (not foid because guys aren't shallow relative to foids): destroyed any chance of relationship.

As someone else said it's how foids feel when they're around you. They dont care similarities and shit. That's bluepilled thinking.
 
Having interests in common is the biggest cope ever. It doesn't help a bit if the foid is not attracted to you to begin with, i.e. when you're ugly.
 
OP you're not blackpilled.

There was a dating in the dark UK episode where both the foid and the guy got along with each other so well.
They evidently both had great personalities for each other (as cucktears would say), but how the guy looked in the end (not foid because guys aren't shallow relative to foids): destroyed any chance of relationship.

As someone else said it's how foids feel when they're around you. They dont care similarities and shit. That's bluepilled thinking.
Someone mentioned to me this before. I know about it already. And this is a realistic phenomena where it appears as though they have esoteric/ non superficial einterests. But they still get with the people who have them best. That's human nature.
So it ultimately comes down to, for them, those who have the most glamor/ primal hierarchy capital amidst their interests.
I never implied that a girl cares about similarities alone lmfao. I am just saying they find the best looking iwth the similarities they have for compatibility but chiefly superficial/ pedigree/ dominarchy traits.
 
I'd rather not talk with a femoid that has the same interests as me, jfl
 
I got excited once when a foid in class told me she played fantasy basketball. I thought it was something we could possibly bond over. Like we would spend time together over this outside of class.

I didn’t realize at the time she wasn’t trying to relate with me because we both liked basketball. She was just telling me she liked chad basketball players. God I was stupid.
 
I got excited once when a foid in class told me she played fantasy basketball. I thought it was something we could possibly bond over. Like we would spend time together over this outside of class.

I didn’t realize at the time she wasn’t trying to relate with me because we both liked basketball. She was just telling me she liked chad basketball players. God I was stupid.
biology will hurt you.
school should be honest baout it instead ofl etting people engage with pain.
 
"Having things in common" is nothing more than a potential reason to talk to someone in an appropriate situation. It does nothing beyond that
 

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