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Do you ever feel guilty for being a loser?

Do you ever feel guilty for being a loser?

  • No

    Votes: 37 48.7%
  • Very rarely

    Votes: 13 17.1%
  • Quite often

    Votes: 26 34.2%

  • Total voters
    76
mylifeistrash

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Sometimes I have hours long guilt trips on how I disappointed my parents because I didn't "make it big" when I was young and make my parents proud.

Then I look back at all the shit I failed at with people verbally telling me how I failed. Or how I should have a loving wife and children.

In reality, all of that shit is nearly impossible and I've never met anyone who has become successful and had some sort of relationship with children that didn't go bad.

Men are given unrealistic expectations ("just succeed brah") by showing the 0.01% who made it and ignoring everyone else who failed. Then are shamed for failing a rigged game.
 
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No, its all because of jews
 
Yes I actually do.
 
Biggest guilt is against myself for failing to achieve my dreams. But biggest part of that guilt goes to femoids, just they unable to feel it
 
I only feel bad about my own situation. Sometimes I think I could have made better choices.
 
My life is a huge failo. But there was nothing I could've done anything about it.
 
I'm a massive failure and I do hate myself because of it, but at the same time I don't know whether I could have or still can turn things around. I'm too low iq and high inhib to do jack shit.
 
I failed at life so far. It's a bitter pill to swallow.

I am trying to turn it around though.
 
I don't consider myself a full loser, maybe a partial loser or something. But I am self conscious.
 
No, I don't feel bad about anything, really, and worrying about stupid shit like that gets you nowhere. Either way, it's not my fault so who can claim the guilt?
 
No, it's not my fault. I've been given a shitty hand in life. I'm actually impressed i did as well as i did, considering how fucked i was.
 
I can't feel guilty because of things i didn't had a choice.
 
It comes to me once in a while but then I just see people that are poorer with crotchroaches or a beta without a dime in his pocket and a ugly foid and think my life is not that bad.
 
I feel guilty for nothing. I don't care if people think I'm a loser, I've divorced myself from caring what cucks and betas think.

If me being a "loser" means not supporting the same society that hates me and wants me dead, so be it. I'll gladly continue to give society the middle finger and take the loser label.
 
I never feel guilty, just lonely and miserable in my own right.
 
no i just hate being alive
 
Im innocent, FUCK every normie trying to shame me.
 
Yes I feel guilty because I had a job and quit it, maybe in that job in the long run I would stay better in the economical aspect.
For other decisions just not been to much interested in studymaxx( not support in that regard by my parents) but maybe if I can put more effort right now I can have a degree, and for social circles the few I stay I usually quit. I am the least persevering person in the world.
 
The term loser is stupid anyway. A loser at what exactly? How can you lose at something you were never allowed to be part of?

It never started for us. There never was any losing. We were observers.
 
Yes man.Even If its not my fault I lost the genetic lottery :feelsbadman:
 
No, its all because of jews
My life is a huge failo. But there was nothing I could've done anything about it.
No, I don't feel bad about anything, really, and worrying about stupid shit like that gets you nowhere. Either way, it's not my fault so who can claim the guilt?
No, it's not my fault. I've been given a shitty hand in life. I'm actually impressed i did as well as i did, considering how fucked i was.
I can't feel guilty because of things i didn't had a choice.
I feel guilty for nothing. I don't care if people think I'm a loser, I've divorced myself from caring what cucks and betas think.

If me being a "loser" means not supporting the same society that hates me and wants me dead, so be it. I'll gladly continue to give society the middle finger and take the loser label.
no i just hate being alive
Im innocent, FUCK every normie trying to shame me.
The term loser is stupid anyway. A loser at what exactly? How can you lose at something you were never allowed to be part of?

It never started for us. There never was any losing. We were observers.
I concur
 
The term loser is stupid anyway. A loser at what exactly? How can you lose at something you were never allowed to be part of?

It never started for us. There never was any losing. We were observers.
Exactly. There's absolutely no reason any of us should feel guilty for losing the genetic lottery.
 
Exactly. There's absolutely no reason any of us should feel guilty for losing the genetic lottery.


I feel guilty for failing in my career and other life aspects though. I through my own free will nuked my own career and feel like an useless loser.
 
I don't really feel guilt for it since I didn't choose it, but I do feel embarrassed regardless.

Embarrased with your looks and genetics or how your life turned out?
 
I don’t feel any guilt because it literally never began for me.

To have guilt I would of had to of had a chance, but I never did.

It was over for me before it even started
 
No if i was literally just tall i would have enough motivation to get a good paying job + a gf besides my autism.
I would gymmaxx all day and get some hobbies. No instead i'm a "manlet" if i work out, people in schools, at work, and girls call me a midget and there is literally no reason to do anything. I'm not gonna NEET through my life but at best i'm gonna work a shitty minimum wage job and either live alone or live with my parents for the rest of my life. Sadly its hard to get good copes like escorts and sexdolls / VR etc when you live by ur parents jfl so idk if i will move out ever.
 
Everyday. Even right now. I'm lurking on an incel board when a Chad is finger-fucking girls as young as 11/12 right now and getting blown by her older sister or Mom and they all think it is fun and would never call the cops on him.

Meanwhile I get death stares if I even look at a female as she gets out of the pool and tries walking back to her apartment.
 
Dating is a scam.

You truly can’t win if you decide you want to follow the rules.
 
Everyday. Even right now. I'm lurking on an incel board when a Chad is finger-fucking girls as young as 11/12 right now and getting blown by her older sister or Mom and they all think it is fun and would never call the cops on him.

Meanwhile I get death stares if I even look at a female as she gets out of the pool and tries walking back to her apartment.
Don't sit so close to the window!
 
no i have no reason to
 
yes, because often times I see guys who I mog and wonder why I can't get any female attention.
 
I don't really feel guilty. I couldn't have been successful, even if I had tried. I do sometimes feel ashamed of my lack of desirable traits.
 
Only sometimes
 
When I used to think everything in my life was 100% my fault, yes.

But now that I know its all about looks and my face is shit, I know it was over before it even began. It's sad but comforting at the same time.
 
to put it simple yeah man.
 
Both yes and no.
On one side, I think I could do more self-improvement (such as gymcelling more, not relapsing on NoFap, and forcing myself to socialize with others) to get a better life, but instead, I am a lazy fuck who just LDAR at my room, so in that way, I feel gulity.
On the other side though, I have both autism and social anxiety, and ”putting myself out there” would therefore require much more effort from me than if I was a NT normie, so considering that, I think it is justified for me to not feel guilty about being a loser, at least to some degree.
 
No tbh. All the important shit was not decided by me or my actions.
 
Sometimes I have hours long guilt trips on how I disappointed my parents because I didn't "make it big" when I was young and make my parents proud.

Then I look back at all the shit I failed at with people verbally telling me how I failed. Or how I should have a loving wife and children.

In reality, all of that shit is nearly impossible and I've never met anyone who has become successful and had some sort of relationship with children that didn't go bad.

Men are given unrealistic expectations ("just succeed brah") by showing the 0.01% who made it and ignoring everyone else who failed. Then are shamed for failing a rigged game.
sadly i do
 
Men are given unrealistic expectations ("just succeed brah") by showing the 0.01% who made it and ignoring everyone else who failed. Then are shamed for failing a rigged game.
 
I used to more when i was younger.
 
My only regret is wasting my 20’s instead of looks maxing and career maxxing. If I started early I would be 5/10 looks and be half way to my retirement. Instead I spent my 20’s fucking escorts, traveling and leasing cars. Instead of saving, investing and looks maxing.
 

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