Do women irl care about weddings as much as it's shown in media?

[Deleted member 7448]

One of the many things I hate about modern women is the whole wedding thing. They spend enormous amounts of money on the most stupid shit, flowers and decor and other crap that won't matter in a few hours. All that money just fucking disappears without getting anything in return except her feeling nice for a few hours.

And the whole "hey day" and her feeling like a princess shtick is really annoying. The whole wedding shit symbolizes how women own men in today's society, forcing the guy to waste all his money and he'd better shut up and pretend he loves it. It's the first step in her wasting all his money for the rest of his life. Also the first step in making him do shit he doesn't want to do for the rest of his life.

Fuck I really hate women.

 

[Braincel14w]

It's status signalling to all the people they know so it's archetypical foid desire.

 

[tiredofthisshit]

marriage is a scam

 

[Thomas837]

I used to be so bluepilled, watched videos about happy weddings to try and get lifefuel, a reason not to rope.
I doubt I will ascend but I'm 18 so there's still hope for me.

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

Princess of cock carousel. Tfu blet

 

[DerPreuße]

I think that women love weddings is kinda wholesome. Wanting to be a princess for one day is basically their female power fantasy. It's much more natural and traditional, than a stern-looking "badass female warrior" or "the female version of a Chad that has dozen of sexual conquests".

I think when women want marriage, they want a wedding. Give them a wedding, but don't sign that feminist civil partnership contract, where you declare that you will keep fullfilling your marital obligations, even when she divorces you. That's not marriage anymore.

 

[Deleted member 17883]

Yeah I don't understand weddings either. Food is nice though

 

[StaroRavager]

One of the many things I hate about modern women is the whole wedding thing. They spend enormous amounts of money on the most stupid shit, flowers and decor and other crap that won't matter in a few hours. All that money just fucking disappears without getting anything in return except her feeling nice for a few hours.

JFL if you don’t realize that it’s been like this since the dawn of currency

 

[Deleted member 17724]

I absolutely despise weddings, they contain all the things I hate about social gatherings; large swaths of people I barely know, loud music, people pretending to be happier than they actually are, people taking photos of everything instead of trying to enjoy it in the moment.

 

[BrettyBoy]

Most women just virtue signal.

 

[Inceltard]

Wedding and funeral ceremonies is an absolute trash.
Especially the last one: hysterics, opened coffin, wild superstitions.

The dead man is rotting in the apartment onto the table for three days (all the people with whom I discussed this topic did not want their body embalmed in the morgue).
A bucket of water with an ax under the table (so that the handle of the ax swelled in the water instead of the dead man).
Eating on the grave.
Vodka glass for the dead man.
Butter, groats and candy scattered on the grave.
Curtained mirrors for forty days.

Place in the cemetery + monument and fence + transportation and funeral of a corpse + commemoration = can cost more than a one-room apartment in a new building

 

[anon]

My sister definitely cared a lot. My dad spent a lot of money for her wedding. What a waste.
She wanted absolutely everything to be perfect. Keep in mind I'm in eastern europe and even though my family is somewhat wealthy, it was still too much.
There were a few hundred guests, a 3000 euro wedding dress, a bunch of food etc. I don't know how much was spent overall, but it was a lot. Easily over 10-15k euros, maybe 20k. Just my suit and shoes were 700 euros or something like that. I'll never wear it again. I know it doesn't sound like much to western Europeans, but that's quite a lot where I live.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

My sister definitely cared a lot. My dad spent a lot of money for her wedding. What a waste.
She wanted absolutely everything to be perfect. Keep in mind I'm in eastern europe and even though my family is somewhat wealthy, it was still too much.
There were a few hundred guests, a 3000 euro wedding dress, a bunch of food etc. I don't know how much was spent overall, but it was a lot. Easily over 10-15k euros, maybe 20k. Just my suit and shoes were 700 euros or something like that. I'll never wear it again. I know it doesn't sound like much to western Europeans, but that's quite a lot where I live.

Where I live, 20k would be the equivalent of multiple years of your income. And yet people still spend thousands and thousands on weddings.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Yes, oh yes, OP. Where I live, women demand 20k rings or more and look to make tens of thousands from weddings. It’s very much a pissing contest with them about who has the best wedding as determined by haul and “VIP” guests and getting your friends to fly out to other areas to try on dresses and “vacay”. Guys pretty much have LAN parties with the bros or rot in a sports bar for their “bachelor” parties.

 

[blockhead24]

Not at all

 

[mylifeistrash]

my guess is not anymore

why bother with that shit when unlimited chad cock is on tinder

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I like the food part of it

 

[Kakarot]

My sister definitely cared a lot. My dad spent a lot of money for her wedding. What a waste.
She wanted absolutely everything to be perfect. Keep in mind I'm in eastern europe and even though my family is somewhat wealthy, it was still too much.
There were a few hundred guests, a 3000 euro wedding dress, a bunch of food etc. I don't know how much was spent overall, but it was a lot. Easily over 10-15k euros, maybe 20k. Just my suit and shoes were 700 euros or something like that. I'll never wear it again. I know it doesn't sound like much to western Europeans, but that's quite a lot where I live.

Dude your parents must be really rich. Why don't you get surgeries? There are no rich ugly people.

 

[Dionysus]

maybe if its a really good chad