Story Do I belong here?

[sdontos]

47 year old fat and balding. Was married but was cheated on a lot which I accepted because I was so desperate to be married. Eventually she had enough and left.

Now I have not had sex for 10+years and the women of my age I have approached have been friendly until I floated anything more serious at which point they have acted with horror that I was thinking about moving it on.

My worse experience happened last year when a young alpha female at work unfriended me on facebook when I had let slip I had been looking at her photos. There was a group of three of them and they could not be more unfriendly towards me even though I am nice to them. One of them makes a point of saying 'Busy weekend?' knowing I will spend most of it jerking off.

So do I fit as an Incel? Genuinely not sure, this is all new to me.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Sounds like it to me.

 

[_incelinside]

You would be what is described as a 'failed normie'

 

[JustKillMe]

No you don’t
Because you were married and expressed sex with someone that isn’t an escort and changed vibes and emotions with her You’re a normie sir
Now get the fuck outta this form
Thank you

 

[whogivesafucc]

You would be what is described as a 'failed normie'

No you don’t
Because you were married and expressed sex with someone that isn’t an escort and changed vibes and emotions with her You’re a normie sir
Now get the fuck outta this form
Thank you

 

[th62eathhts2]

lose weight. if you can't get laid after losing weight,maybe. idk maybe not, it's not like we can relate to each other you have had girlfriend(s). Christ that facebook story made me cringe.

 

[NeverSubmit]

Yes you're an incel idc what anyone says

 

[sdontos]

No you don’t
Because you were married and expressed sex with someone that isn’t an escort and changed vibes and emotions with her You’re a normie sir
Now get the fuck outta this form
Thank you

I was married but I was always the junior partner bending myself to what she wanted because I was so desperate and scared.

 

[Weed]

"Now I have not had sex for 10+years", probably but you are 47 already so lol

 

[Blackpill101]

You would be what is described as a 'failed normie'

 

[Deleted member 6470]

He belongs here.
He was married but due to social pressure.
And come on, the old hag he called wife never showed any respect to him.

Don't be like him, you can avoid that situation.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

You would be what is described as a 'failed normie'

 

[Americanpsycho]

out

 

[EthnicelNL]

I think MGTOW is more suited for you OP.

 

[Jockcel]

>>>r/MGTOW

 

[BlackPilledKira]

You're the lowest end of failed normie.

Truecels are those who have never had any sexual or romantic relations with a women that is not a prostitute.

 

[Colly]

For all we know you could've slayed in your youth before you got cucked, hit with MPB and let yourself go. Like someone said above, you're a failed normie more than incel.

 

[ItsOverBuddyBoyos]

I'd say no, but honestly if you haven't gotten pussy in over a decade you're basically a born again incel, kek.

 

[starystulejarz]

No you don't belong here, since you had sex multiple times and at least in the beginning you're brain make you believe in affection and being in love with women which desire you. I don't even remember when i was really happy probably never, you at least had few moments while i've got zero attention from any women.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

MGTOW would suit you better.

 

[Deleted member 6501]

You would be what is described as a 'failed normie'

yeah, pre much this

 

[Barry]

47 year old fat and balding. Was married but was cheated on a lot which I accepted because I was so desperate to be married. Eventually she had enough and left.

Now I have not had sex for 10+years and the women of my age I have approached have been friendly until I floated anything more serious at which point they have acted with horror that I was thinking about moving it on.

My worse experience happened last year when a young alpha female at work unfriended me on facebook when I had let slip I had been looking at her photos. There was a group of three of them and they could not be more unfriendly towards me even though I am nice to them. One of them makes a point of saying 'Busy weekend?' knowing I will spend most of it jerking off.

So do I fit as an Incel? Genuinely not sure, this is all new to me.

Real talk if you have money saved up, then go live in indonesia or something and bang young cutie pi asian girls

 

[IsolationHurts]

I find your life enviable, tbh.

 

[Spec Carrot]

You don't belong here.
You're just a failed normie.

 

[Mainländer]

Gonna say that again: an ugly man who has had sex in the past through tons of effort but whose looks have decreased even further and is now incapable of getting anything even through massive effort is much more of an incel to me than some 6/10 mentalcel who has never even tried or just has unrealistic standards.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

You would be what is described as a 'failed normie'

 

[Robinxyz]

Gonna say that again: an ugly man who has had sex in the past through tons of effort but whose looks have decreased even further and is now incapable of getting anything even through massive effort is much more of an incel to me than some 6/10 mentalcel who has never even tried or just has unrealistic standards.

 

[IncelmaBinHardon]

Bornagaincel.

 

[Deleted member 3291]

no

 

[AnonSnake]

Incels.me: Civil War

 

[Deleted member 3725]

Damn it sucks to be male in the modern age.

 

[acnescarcel]

Gonna say that again: an ugly man who has had sex in the past through tons of effort but whose looks have decreased even further and is now incapable of getting anything even through massive effort is much more of an incel to me than some 6/10 mentalcel who has never even tried or just has unrealistic standards.

 

[Cleftcel]

Gonna say that again: an ugly man who has had sex in the past through tons of effort but whose looks have decreased even further and is now incapable of getting anything even through massive effort is much more of an incel to me than some 6/10 mentalcel who has never even tried or just has unrealistic standards.

very high iq post

Bornagaincel.

 

[masterwizard]

Even if you weren't incel, the rules don't actually forbade it as long as you reasonably accept the black pill.

• Incel (Allowed): Person who is not in a relationship nor has had sex in a significant amount of time, despite numerous attempts.
• Mentalcel (Allowed): Type of incel whose reason for failure in relationships/sex is related to mental illness or major insecurities.
• Volcel (Allowed): Person who, for various reasons, is voluntarily abstinent and does not engage in sex.
• Blackpilled (Conditional): Person who is none of the above but has a blackpilled mentality.

As long as you don't go around bragging you were married back in the day, which you aren't, I can't see a problem. Maybe a mod can elucidate more on this. Plus 10 years is a long time, so I'd argue you fit the first category fine. You've been incel longer than some of the kids here.

 

[dungeonbrain]

I'd accept you. Gatekeepers can fuck off.

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

I welcome you with open arms. Fuck the mentalcel 6/10s who say otherwise. Your experience of being nothing but a betabuxx cuck (your wife was ever attracted to you and just used you while she fucked men better than you. Don't worry, you'll pick up on the terminology) will be insightful info for this forum.


Welcome brother.

 

[sdontos]

I welcome you with open arms. Fuck the mentalcel 6/10s who say otherwise. Your experience of being nothing but a betabuxx cuck (your wife was ever attracted to you and just used you while she fucked men better than you. Don't worry, you'll pick up on the terminology) will be insightful info for this forum.


Welcome brother.

I never got angry with wife for cheating because I kind of felt unnatural doing it like it wasn't what I was made for. I know some men jst seem to naturally know how to do it

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

I never got angry with wife for cheating because I kind of felt unnatural doing it like it wasn't what I was made for. I know some men jst seem to naturally know how to do it

No sense in getting mad at a female for her innate nature.

 

[sdontos]

Even if you weren't incel, the rules don't actually forbade it as long as you reasonably accept the black pill.

• Incel (Allowed): Person who is not in a relationship nor has had sex in a significant amount of time, despite numerous attempts.
• Mentalcel (Allowed): Type of incel whose reason for failure in relationships/sex is related to mental illness or major insecurities.
• Volcel (Allowed): Person who, for various reasons, is voluntarily abstinent and does not engage in sex.
• Blackpilled (Conditional): Person who is none of the above but has a blackpilled mentality.

As long as you don't go around bragging you were married back in the day, which you aren't, I can't see a problem. Maybe a mod can elucidate more on this. Plus 10 years is a long time, so I'd argue you fit the first category fine. You've been incel longer than some of the kids here.

Thanks after some reading up I think you are right I am blackpilled. While I may be content in other aspects of my life I simply cannot imagine a relationship with a woman in anyway. At least not since the rejections I have had since I have been single.

 

[sdontos]

Bornagaincel.

I have referredto myself as a born again virgin before. As I lost it late and any activity was finished very soon after.

 

[masterwizard]

Thanks after some reading up I think you are right I am blackpilled. While I may be content in other aspects of my life I simply cannot imagine a relationship with a woman in anyway. At least not since the rejections I have had since I have been single.

Its fine just ignore the mental 19 year olds that think they have it worse.

Care to tell us a bit about your marriage? What it was like? What went wrong? Did your wife cheat on you?

Have you ever thought about sex tourism in asia? You can get some companionship if you are realistic about what to expect and have a bit of money to give them.

 

[sdontos]

Its fine just ignore the mental 19 year olds that think they have it worse.

Care to tell us a bit about your marriage? What it was like? What went wrong? Did your wife cheat on you?

Have you ever thought about sex tourism in asia? You can get some companionship if you are realistic about what to expect and have a bit of money to give them.

My marriage was as others have said here an attempt at normality. I failed to finish on my wedding night and she was cheating on me withn a year. I pretended not to notice.because I felt it was my fault she had to find someone else. Normal marriage went on day to day. Pretty boring. When she eventually told me she was cheating and I said I knew she did start treating me badly by being more open inwhat she did. eventually she said she was too unhappy and wanted to split.

I have never considered sex tourism in Asia but have definitely seriously considered prostitutes in the uk. Part of me craves the contempt that they wold show in taking my money.

 

[DCarver14]

Yea, failed normie/cyborg

 

[heroinfather]

Yes you're an incel idc what anyone says

you don't dictate that you fucking mongol

 

[zerozerozero]

cucks.me

 

[Izayacel]

You got pretty much cucked but glad you realized the harsh thruth, begone with their love and personality bs, assholism and pua (trigger her emotions ) counts and ofc on top of that looks, these ugly clits shozld seriously eat their fakeup so they finally get what personality means

 

[Deleted member 60]

cucks.me

 

[NeverSubmit]

you don't dictate that you fucking mongol

That's my view you don't have to agree

 

[masterwizard]

I failed to finish on my wedding night.

Interesting. You mean you failed to orgasm? Did you have problems with ED, or just overall low sex drive? Anorgasmia in men is something that doesn't get much attention, but its more common than people think.

Did you ever make her orgasm, or multiple orgasm?

 

[Angry_runt]

Many incels on this site venerate this guy

If he can be here, so can you.
Anyone who disagrees can eat shit and die.