Serious Do any of you not have social anxiety

[Reprobus]

I feel like it's so easy for you to say you have social anxiety or a mental illness. I swear there are more "memtalcels" on here than actual incels. Like I could strike a conversation up but the reason I'm here is because I'm fucking ugly. I'm not "autistic" just really fucking ugly

 

[Crustaciouse]

Being ugly makes you develop social anxiety because people treat you badly.

 

[TheRealChincel]

I don’t have anxiety in approaching women, public places, or one-on-one interactions (doctor, teller, etc) My anxiety is in bars, clubs, etc. Basically where I know people will go home or in the back and have sex while I’ll be holding my beer/drink and hoping not to get humiliated/kicked out.

 

[allbluee]

Being ugly makes you develop social anxiety

 

[Reprobus]

Being ugly makes you develop social anxiety because people treat you badly.

See that I get but the people going on tangents about how they have every mental illness in the dictionary is overdone

 

[Deleted member 11318]

Yes I have. Only because of my looks.

 

[3uxp]

70% of this forum summed up in on image tbh

 

[Reprobus]

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Exactly so many people on here will claim mentalcel and be attractive

 

[micropenis29]

There's absolutely nothing wrong with social anxiety. It's a healthy response to an insane society. Don't believe the fools that tell you that it's a "disorder." That's utter nonsense.

I'll be making a more comprehensive post on this on a future date, but for now I want to emphasize that for someone to not develop social anxiety despite experiencing what should've been the catalyst for it (bullying or emotional instability from a parent/teacher/older sibling/other authority figure would be catastrophic. It would doom him to an entire life of being mercilessly shit on and publicly humiliated by those who are "higher than him in the pecking order."

Social anxiety is your brain telling you, "come on man, fuck these faggots and their little game. Just stop playing." Unfortunately, most incels don't listen to this valuable message and instead do try to keep playing. They'd be far better off embracing their social anxiety.

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

being ugly is social anxiety

 

[Deleted member 11032]

There's absolutely nothing wrong with social anxiety. It's a healthy response to an insane society. Don't believe the fools that tell you that it's a "disorder." That's utter nonsense.

I'll be making a more comprehensive post on this on a future date, but for now I want to emphasize that for someone to not develop social anxiety despite experiencing what should've been the catalyst for it (bullying or emotional instability from a parent/teacher/older sibling/other authority figure would be catastrophic. It would doom him to an entire life of being mercilessly shit on and publicly humiliated by those who are "higher than him in the pecking order."

Social anxiety is is your brain telling you, "come on man, fuck these faggots and their little game. Just stop playing." Unfortunately, most incels don't listen to this valuable message and instead do try to keep playing. They'd be far better off embracing their social anxiety.

Look forward to the further analysis.

 

[SchrodingersDick]

Social anxiety is just PHDspeak for Manletism

 

[San Salvador]

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Some of these apply to me, ngl.

 

[Mainländer]

My social anxiety actually diminished upon my return to my country. I feel so much like talking in my native language to fellow countrymen after all those months of ostracism and struggling with German.

 

[Deleted member 14577]

My social anxiety was intense when I was younger, chest pains, visible heart beats, choking and sweating in some situations, but I've gotten it under control to an extent. My main problem now is a lack of social skills, I have a hard time engaging in social interactions, I'm bad at chit-chat and often don't know what to say or how to interpret what was said.

I tried giving blood for a pizza coupon last year and they rejected me saying my heart pressure was too high, the nurse thought I was afraid of needles but I wasn't I was just anxious because I had to talk strangers.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

dont really have any anxiety unless im in a large group or an area with lots of people. for example youd never see me in a club.

 

[Juxtaposition6]

I don't, not wanting to make small talk is not social anxiety.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

My anxiety has dimished by large amount over the past 2 years. Its like 90% lower.

 

[Bronzehawkattack]

I have a little bit of social anxiety, but not much. Just very specific circumstances make me anxious.

 

[Deleted member 15292]

I had it but it got away, i coped

 

[GetFucked]

I had like heart damaging levels of anxiety for most of my life. I started taking a stack of zinc, magnesium, D3, and sometimes lithium and it helps alot. Also just making gains to the point where I'm ogremaxxed has helped too. I still have trouble talking to people but I'm not nearly as bad as I used to be.

 

[BrendioEEE]

I know how to act like a Normie in public, even if i'm the complete opposite at home and with real friends. Fake it till you make it. Seems to work pretty well.

 

[IHateMySelf]

No, I dont. Actually, I can talk to anyone. My inhib so low that I said to my english teacher what I feel for her.

 

[thespanishcel]

So so tbh. I had more when I was in high school, when I started university there was so many people and they didn't care about what you did (unlike in high school) that I stopped caring about it. My social abilities are still crap but at least I don't get anxious in university corridors kek

 

[TurtleMan]

I've been pretty anxious since I was a kid. I feel a little bit better these days but it's still there. I have no idea where it comes from. My social skills are trash

 

[Rurik]

There's absolutely nothing wrong with social anxiety. It's a healthy response to an insane society. Don't believe the fools that tell you that it's a "disorder." That's utter nonsense.

I'll be making a more comprehensive post on this on a future date, but for now I want to emphasize that for someone to not develop social anxiety despite experiencing what should've been the catalyst for it (bullying or emotional instability from a parent/teacher/older sibling/other authority figure would be catastrophic. It would doom him to an entire life of being mercilessly shit on and publicly humiliated by those who are "higher than him in the pecking order."

Social anxiety is your brain telling you, "come on man, fuck these faggots and their little game. Just stop playing." Unfortunately, most incels don't listen to this valuable message and instead do try to keep playing. They'd be far better off embracing their social anxiety.

yes exactly! thank you for your posts!
people shame us for having anxiety and then expects us to just walk it off

 

[Ritalincel]

I don't

 

[Insomniac]

I’m autistic and interacting with others has always been difficult with me. I can’t make eye contact with anyone (even family members) and I often stutter.

It’s over.

 

[SilentSoup]

I'm a lookscel and a mentalcel: after being tortured and treated like shit for my whole life I think I do have social anxiety. But I'm sure that even if I magically got rid of my anxiety and started acting like a chad I'd still not ascend, because looks matter so much.

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

my social anxiety used to be pretty severe but ive burned out over the years. recently instead of cringing and cursing myself over a bad memory i get angry and usually verbalize something like "fuck those motherfuckers"

being angry is so much better than being sad, no one is every going to feel sorry for you anyways

 

[GeneticFilth]

How much social anxiety you have is a direct reflection of the way you look. If you are a true genetic abomination like me with severe acne, myopia, recessed chin, gigantic forehead, and many more bad genes then your brain will constantly be in fight or flight mode and you can't interact with anyone without suffering because your brain is telling you to get the fuck away from everyone.

 

[BlackPilledKira]

Nah, i don't have trouble speaking with people and usually have drinks with aquantinces on the regular. The key is to keep asking questions, people love speaking about themselves and how great they are, feed into their ego and they will like you.

However the Black Pill has made me see reality in such a way that i simply can't connect with anyone, mainly because i see through their bullshit virtue signalling and narcissism.

 

[FinancialCel]

I don’t have anxiety in approaching women, public places, or one-on-one interactions (doctor, teller, etc) My anxiety is in bars, clubs, etc. Basically where I know people will go home or in the back and have sex while I’ll be holding my beer/drink and hoping not to get humiliated/kicked out.

This. My anxiety is triggered by parties and social situations. One on one, I’m fine, even charming and personable. But in social settings I’m a wreck. Being an outcast in high school really leaves scars.


This is why I can’t just meet a girl through friends. And I’m not 9+ so Tinder is not an option, unless I want unemployed single mummas who just loooove to travel.

 

[everythingislava]

I'm surprised at how many do not have social anxiety on here.

Regardless, on the matter of mentalcels - I think you've got to differentiate between those who are self diagnosed, have friends but are 'shy' and those who are diagnosed and have their issues shape their entire life.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I feel like it's so easy for you to say you have social anxiety or a mental illness. I swear there are more "memtalcels" on here than actual incels. Like I could strike a conversation up but the reason I'm here is because I'm fucking ugly. I'm not "autistic" just really fucking ugly

I have social anxiety and I'm a manlet+framelet. The thing is drinking fixes my problem and makes me super confident and I have approached hundreds of foids in that state so I should know that even if I didn't have mental problems I would still lose.