I don't focus on what I cannot control. I cannot control someone into loving me, but I control traits which makes me lovable.
I refuse to believe in anything that inhibits me.
If you are an incel and you place your life's focus on a women's attention and that attention is disadvantaged from the start due to inceldom then you arre playing a losing game where your soul and selfworth is at stake.
If you continue to do that, soon you'll have no bitch, AND you'll be a poor failure.
Mindset is what seperates IS and IT. It's what makes someone NT vs Simp. It's what makes someone a celibate englightend monk or a competitive successful capitalist who finds passion in his work.
Mindset is determines if the glass is half empty or full. It's what determines if an incel will mope his entire life being bitter until he shrivels up into a shell of his childhood self before fading away or a guy who finds passion and meaning in the various beauties of life, living peacefully, and going out with grace.
It's all cope at the end of the day. But if you enjoy being emotionally damaged with lowselfworh. Living with unending bitterness after respites of your so called not coping through black pill, then by all means rape yourself. Me, I know I am getting raped from all directions due to inceldom, so there is no need for me to face fuck myself. Me, I stake myself worth on my career, passions, and my niggas.