Did your parents do the best they could with you?

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Mine did more or less tbh which is why I have a hard time getting mad at/hating them. Is my inceldom their fault? Well, I guess it depends on how you define that. But nobody wants their child to end up like me, and the factors that moulded me were pretty much out of their control. Were there some key differences they could have made in my favor? Yes. Would they have made any difference? I'm not sure. Maybe I'll never know. The attention to detail definitely slipped later in life compared to my brothers, but I don't think it was anything personal. Hell, I don't think I could relate to me if I was my own son.

Tl;dr: I don't really blame my parents, even if they fucked up here and there overall they tried.
 
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Who knows, what is done is done, no need to stress ourselves over something that we can't change.
 
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Diocel said:
Who knows, what is done is done, no need to stress ourselves over something that we can't change.
Yeah.
 
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ScornedStoic said:
And it's not your fault either, how the fuck is a 12 years old supposed to know about tongue posture, growth hormone and nutrition.
 
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Diocel said:
And it's not your fault either, how the fuck is a 12 years old supposed to know about tongue posture, growth hormone and nutrition.
Or not to believe what literally everyone is telling him.
 
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ScornedStoic said:
Or not to believe what literally everyone is telling him.
Elab on that.
 
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My mom, I'd say yes, except for the fact she allowed multiple stepfathers whom I hated to live here without my consent.

My father, definitely not.
 
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Diocel said:
Elab on that.
What is there to elab on? Everyone lied to me my whole life. Some meant to some didn't but it was all lies in the end. Parents, teachers, girls, movies, pop culture, ex-oneitis, literally everyone in public sphere etc etc.
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My mom, I'd say yes, except for the fact she allowed multiple stepfathers whom I hated to live here without my consent.

My father, definitely not.
That's unfortunate. After their divorce my mother was considerate of my feelings regarding her partners, until I was 18 of course
 
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No they did not.
 
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my dad never pass time with me and my mom usually ignore me because something with my siblings happen.
 
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My father 98% my mom 2% my parents are divorced when i was a baby.
I was raise by a father and guess what i hate women from my heart all are parasite little kids.
 
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dad left before I was born. had 2 stepfathers - one beat and tortured me and the other is an incel
Mom tried her best, but I think all that reflects poorly on her. Plus, you know, my most loving father figure being pretty much incel himself
 
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Lololololololololol No! Not even close. They did tons of harm.
 
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Diocel said:
Who knows, what is done is done, no need to stress ourselves over something that we can't change.
 
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ScornedStoic said:
Mine did more or less tbh which is why I have a hard time getting mad at/hating them. Is my inceldom their fault? Well, I guess it depends on how you define that. But nobody wants their child to end up like me, and the factors that moulded me were pretty much out of their control. Were there some key differences they could have made in my favor? Yes. Would they have made any difference? I'm not sure. Maybe I'll never know. The attention to detail definitely slipped later in life compared to my brothers, but I don't think it was anything personal. Hell, I don't think I could relate to me if I was my own son.

Tl;dr: I don't really blame my parents, even if they fucked up here and there overall they tried.
No, my father hated/hates me for existing and my mom is a passive, enabling doormat who means well at least but neither of them should have ever become parents.
 
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Not really, the only thing that could have helped me was GH and my parents were definitely not giving me that when i was a teenager. Yeah, but in general they didn't give a fuck.
 
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JFL if you don't hate your parents as an incel. They completely and utterly failed as parents which is supposed to be the greatest duty a human can have. Fuck your parents, fuck my parents, fuck everyone and everything.
 
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My mom literally thought I should be naturally born with talent and knowledge, I’m not joking. She sometimes thinks I should know things before they even happen, and she’s not that old either.
 
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They tried. I can't fault them really, the bluepilled life worked out reasonably well for them. I'd say I am a victim of the times we live in.
 
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AnonAutist said:
They tried. I can't fault them really, the bluepilled life worked out reasonably well for them. I'd say I am a victim of the times we live in.
It is the times we live in, but not only. Also the country plays a role. Where were you raised?
 
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ABSOLUTELY NO
 
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One of the saddest things is that I can't blame anything on my parents. We were financially stable, my dad always made sure we played sports, mom helped us with studies, they instilled good values, they never allowed us to play on the playstation more than 1 hour a day(each), home cooked meals, ect...

This is evident in the fact that all my brothers and sisters are successful academically, and socially. I was the only one of my brothers who grew up weak and timid and I got bullied for it in school and that was the start of my down fall.
 
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I actually wish my mother would have done a little less. Father on the other hand could have done quite a bit more. Thing with my parents is they are good at their respective roles but also caused a lot of parallel damage.
Mainländer said:
stepfathers
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Caesercel said:
BBBBBBBBRRRRRUTAL
Very brutal indeed. Such shit should be illegal. I'd much rather a foid had sexually molested me than that.
 
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Caesercel said:
I actually wish my mother would have done a little less. Father on the other hand could have done quite a bit more. Thing with my parents is they are good at their respective roles but also caused a lot of parallel damage.

BBBBBBBBRRRRRUTAL
Huh, sounds kinda similar
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Very brutal indeed. Such shit should be illegal. I'd much rather a foid had sexually molested me than that.
Be careful what you wish for
 
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Yes, which is not much, but yes.

Can't blame 2 humans for the entire soyciety.
 
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ScornedStoic said:
Be careful what you wish for
Sorry, were you molested? Hopefully not by a guy :feelsbadman:
 
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When I was strangled by the umbilical cord, they should have let me die. In the 1950s I would have died.
My great curse is to have been born at the time I was born. In every sense of the word.
 
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Mainländer said:
Sorry, were you molested? Hopefully not by a guy :feelsbadman:
Thankfully no, unless you count doctors repeatedly checking out my dick and urging my parent to circumcise, forcing me to fight them off and get pretty traumatized over that tbh.
 
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Socially , no
 
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No, they made my life even worse than it would be only with ugly appearance, but as long as they allow me to be a NEET, I stay silent.
 
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My parents werent around
 
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ScornedStoic said:
Thankfully no, unless you count doctors repeatedly checking out my dick and urging my parent to circumcise, forcing me to fight them off and get pretty traumatized over that tbh.
You didn't end up getting the circumcision though, right?

I had the same thing happen to me as a teen, and I naively got cut because I was afraid I wasn't being able to really clean it 100% due to the mild phymosis I had. But I could have just done stretching exercises. Those doctors are greedy bastards, I regret it. IT will like this: I WASN'T OLD ENOUGH TO CONSENT TO MY FORESKIN GETTING CUT OFF!
 
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Mainländer said:
I had the same thing happen to me as a teen, and I naively got cut because I was afraid I wasn't being able to really clean it 100% due to the mild phymosis I had. But I could have just done stretching exercises. Those doctors are greedy bastards, I regret it. IT will like this: I WASN'T OLD ENOUGH TO CONSENT TO MY FORESKIN GETTING CUT OFF!
That's bullshit, I feel really bad for you. It's horrible what they do and you trust them because you think they're doctors and they should know what they're doing. It's tragic.
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You didn't end up getting the circumcision though, right?
No, but came a hair's edge away from getting it. I made a thread about it year(s) ago. The appointment was booked and my parents were going to force me into it, it's one thing I do resent them for. Several times over the years they'd sit me down in the bathroom and tell me it wasn't separating so I had to have the circumcision. I'd bawl my eyes out and beg them not to and after fighting them on it they'd postpone it.

Eventually the day came where they said they weren't gonna postpone it anymore and one day in the school bathroom I basically like ripped the foreskin into separating, like properly it would have probably been ready in a few months to a couple years so there wasn't any blood, it was supposed to come off, but it was all red and raw underneath and I've never had skin as sensitive as that. I could barely walk because the newly exposed skin was so fresh that a feather's touch felt like agony.

So sitting in class pretending nothing was wrong and then the walk home... Not fun. When I got home I told my parents and they cancelled the surgery, I never suffered any permanent health issues from separating it early but it was severely sore and sensitive for a few weeks and clearly was not meant to happen that early. But if I hadn't done it a doctor would have cut off part of my penis to fix what I solved as a pubescent in a school bathroom with my bare hands.
 
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The Nullifier said:
JFL if you don't hate your parents as an incel. They completely and utterly failed as parents which is supposed to be the greatest duty a human can have. Fuck your parents, fuck my parents, fuck everyone and everything.
Same
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You can't blame robots for following their biological script.
 
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They tried. That's all I could ask of them really.
 
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No. They should have killed me.