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Discussion Did you make any attempts to ascend in your early teens 13-15?

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I never did and I somewhat regret it. Not because I didn't have the desire to get a girlfriend at that age but because I was too high inhib to even think about trying to get one. I just spent my time rotting alone playing video games and I didn't properly make any attempts at ascending until I was 17.

I mean it's not like I can go back and change things now anyway but I do believe there's some validity to the "just be first" theory, even if I didn't ascend it would have been nice to say I at least gave it a go back then. Too bad I was an autistic abused dog that gave up on the idea of getting a girlfriend before I even tried.
 
yes never worked, only got me in trouble.
 
no i only became interested in dating when i was 16, i think maybe cause of covid, i wouldnt go outside for weeks
 
yeah, some times irl and mostly online
online always worked well till I had to show my face :feelsjuice: always got blocked or ghosted afterwards
 
It'd be pointless anyway. Girls who really like you will approach you, if no girl approached you in teens it's the same as being an incel.
 
Didn't try. I had more chances at that age since I was roughly the same height as everyone.
 
yes never worked, only got me in trouble.
That's what I was scared of. I just naturally assumed I would fail so I never bothered. In some ways I wish I never changed my mindset from that. Would've saved me a lot of embarassment
 
That's what I was scared of. I just naturally assumed I would fail so I never bothered. In some ways I wish I never changed my mindset from that. Would've saved me a lot of embarassment
in the end im happy i gave it a shot, made it easier to get apathy towards foids after accepting the blackpill. And i get to say i tried, really did
 
A lot of the time i didn't bother but i also wasn't really given a choice either and sent my own way. Its a bit complicated
 
I wasn't even interested in foids at that age because I was a late bloomer (retarded) and I was bluepilled enough to believe that I would've gotten a girlfriend in due time.

Edit: Maybe I'm confusing my middle school years with my early high school. Anyway even when I started caring about girls I had no idea of what to do.
 
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Didn't try. I had more chances at that age since I was roughly the same height as everyone.
Yeah at 13 I grew a lot and finally went from turbo manlet for my age to just below average for my age. Then my puberty ended up early and I became a manlet for my age again.
 
yeah, some times irl and mostly online
online always worked well till I had to show my face :feelsjuice: always got blocked or ghosted afterwards
I considering trying online back then as well because I thought the foids on there would be "different" and "easier to talk to" but I get now that that is not the case
 
I tried when I was 15, on HS. The outcome was as expected, the foid give me the subhuman treatment. Although it's a free ego boost for the foid, I still think it's important to give it a try so as not to be haunted by your inertia over the years
 
I considering trying online back then as well because I thought the foids on there would be "different" and "easier to talk to" but I get now that that is not the case
some type of nerdy foids are/were at least easier to talk to but the mere sight of your face would wipe all your chances so it would never work out.
 
No, I didn’t start trying to ascend until I was 16
 
I wasn't that much interested in girls before turning 15

I remember thinking back then "Okay in this new year 2016 I get a girlfriend"
Time passed so quickly
 
No but it was probably my best shot. Went downhill from there.
 
all the females in my high school were so immature and childish at that age
 
Didn’t ask any girls out, but I tried to normiemaxx then as well as gain social status with thugmaxxing. I thought I could pull off the thug act & aesthetic since I’m a darkskin curry (and most of my school was curry) but I ended up just making a laughingstock of myself
 
Yep I was so fucking bluepilled back then. I will never get cucked like that again.
She was extremely attractive. I'm talking model tier. I tried dressing differently,talking more, and being confident,thugmaxxing. She was a beautiful Latina girl. She started ghosting me after I asked her out and started talking to my best friend at the time. Which made me pissed and showed me female nature atp.
 
yeah, some times irl and mostly online
online always worked well till I had to show my face :feelsjuice: always got blocked or ghosted afterwards
Brootal I'd say thats pretty normal nowadays considering women and there high standards
 
No, when I was a blooming adolescent, I had a completely distorted concept of reality. I always thought I was a solid 7 out of 10 and that girls would flock to me like sheep to a shepherd. I couldn't have been more wrong.
That, and on the other hand, because I've always been quite exquisite in my tastes, I'm someone very refined. I wouldn't bother courting a girl who is ugly, pig-like, and not a virgin. Here's a lovely poem by Pessoa that defines me well:
Não quero rosas, desde que haja rosas.
Quero-as só quando não as possa haver.
Que hei de fazer das coisas
Que qualquer mão pode colher?

Não quero a noite senão quando a aurora
A fez em ouro e azul se diluir.
O que a minha alma ignora
É isso que quero possuir.

Para quê?... Se o soubesse, não faria
Versos para dizer que inda o não sei.
Tenho a alma pobre e fria...
Ah, com que esmola a aquecerei?...
 
I never did and I somewhat regret it. Not because I didn't have the desire to get a girlfriend at that age but because I was too high inhib to even think about trying to get one. I just spent my time rotting alone playing video games and I didn't properly make any attempts at ascending until I was 17.

I mean it's not like I can go back and change things now anyway but I do believe there's some validity to the "just be first" theory, even if I didn't ascend it would have been nice to say I at least gave it a go back then. Too bad I was an autistic abused dog that gave up on the idea of getting a girlfriend before I even tried.
Lol, don't regret. I made attempts because I thought if I don't do it now, I will stay alone for the rest of my life. Needless to say it didn't work.
 

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