Higgscel.......as a man who should know better, you disappoint me.
Facebook
is was a useful tool to shatter any illusion your school or highschool buddies faired any better than an incel. Time makes fools of us all and we can NEVER recreate the opportunity or glory of high school.
Anyways to answer your question I went to many different places and two different high schools. As, like you, I was a moved-around-cel myself due to my abusive Father's job in the military* (*his role was a non combat admin clerk and he was never sent to warzones. Too incompetent, only a stay at home
Dad's Army style reserve even in his youth
).
I actually had lots of friends and made zero friends where we ended up. Cause despite the size of this place I live there are two types
"You in't from 'round 'ere. I aren't 'appy bout it. Get orf' my land!. We"re be a closed shop!" anti-social, shunning new comer types.
Or second-home, holiday home owners, rich white people fleeing that ethnic shithole called London. They only interact with locals serving them coffee, dinner, fish and chips or alcohol on
Chelsea-On-Sea while driving their
Chelsea Tractors.
I fit into neither so I reflected on my prior two geographical different high schools. Too many case studies to unpack but some samples
That hot 12 year old, blonde haired blue eyed, who shagged everyone but me? Single, obese mother, failed "registry office marriage", two teen foids kids now
old young enough for De Geso, debilitating genetic disease. She's also a cat and dog lady now.
Personal friend of mine with helicopter parents very straight and narrow and almost asexual? Married with grey hair, 3 kids (all foids) with an uggo for a wife. He looks dead behind his eyes though, despite being a home owner.
Coolest metal bass guitar player in high school who used to have a Stacy for a girlfriend in high school and I thought would be in a PANTERA band? Posted a suicidal Facebook message on behest of his obese wife (not the Stacy) and his three daughters. Even a summer holiday video you could tell he was dead behind the eyes.
He plays with an obese talentless foid singer in a wedding band.
Another personal friend of mine. Like latter guy with less talen but more fat. Only 1 daughter. Works as a truck driver on good money but again. Morbidly obese, suicidal and posting "ode to my youth" music and film references from high school.