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It could be a fight, betrayal, heartbreak, or anything that hurt you deeply.
 
Finding out that my oneitis of three years dates a muscly felon
 
Nothing to be honest. I have not had many experiences with people in general throughout my life.
 
It could be a fight, betrayal, heartbreak, or anything that hurt you deeply.
 
When I was in highschool I got friendzoned by my oneitis and 1 week later she started dating some htn in my class and then I got mad and start pestering them and then they both humiliated me on the school groupchat by calling me out and riling me up.
 
some of the memories i which i can remember right now at this moment

when i was around 3-5 year old and was spending my time outside, i saw two kids playing in the sandbox, i tried to befriend them but one of them just started pouring sand on my head and then my grandma came. It wasn't a joke, they did it with malicious intent.
kid-pouring-sand-onto-his-face-v0-h2u0xhofkc1d1.jpeg
 
some of the memories i which i can remember right now at this moment

when i was around 3-5 year old and was spending my time outside, i saw two kids playing in the sandbox, i tried to befriend them but one of them just started pouring sand on my head and then my grandma came. It wasn't a joke, they did it with malicious intent.
kid-pouring-sand-onto-his-face-v0-h2u0xhofkc1d1.jpeg
:lasereyes:
 
After three years after I got my bachelor's degree, I tried contacting my friend group from when I was an undergrad.

Apparently they were still in contact with each other, and they were being very evasive, and then one of them outright said something along the lines of:

"Look, we aren't in school anymore. It was fun hanging out when the four of us were taking classes with each other, but that was then. We have been married for two years and "X" has a kid on the way. The fact is, you aren't somebody that we necessarily need in our lives anymore. We know that you have mental health issues and that is not necessarily your fault, but the fact is that you are not somebody that "X" wants around now. I know that sounds harsh, and you didn't do anything wrong, but people like you are what they are what they are. Please don't contact us again."

That basically opened my eyes as to how temporary most friendships are and they will casually abandon you the moment they pair off.
 
After three years after I got my bachelor's degree, I tried contacting my friend group from when I was an undergrad.

Apparently they were still in contact with each other, and they were being very evasive, and then one of them outright said something along the lines of:

"Look, we aren't in school anymore. It was fun hanging out when the four of us were taking classes with each other, but that was then. We have been married for two years and "X" has a kid on the way. The fact is, you aren't somebody that we necessarily need in our lives anymore. We know that you have mental health issues and that is not necessarily your fault, but the fact is that you are not somebody that "X" wants around now. I know that sounds harsh, and you didn't do anything wrong, but people like you are what they are what they are. Please don't contact us again."

That basically opened my eyes as to how temporary most friendships are and they will casually abandon you the moment they pair off.
once you’re no longer useful, you’re forgotten
 
When I was just a kid I tried to pet a cat in the sidewalk and a old witch in a house next asked what I was doing, I answered petting the cat, she said she'd strangle me like a cat is strangle :feelsrope:

KILL GRANNIES :feelsree: (in gta 8)
 
When I was just a kid I tried to pet a cat in the sidewalk and a old witch in a house next asked what I was doing, I answered petting the cat, she said she'd strangle me like a cat is strangle :feelsrope:

KILL GRANNIES :feelsree: (in gta 8)
:shock:
 
Too many tbh but notably getting beaten up in school
 
My entire life up until I was around 28 or so.

After three years after I got my bachelor's degree, I tried contacting my friend group from when I was an undergrad.

Apparently they were still in contact with each other, and they were being very evasive, and then one of them outright said something along the lines of:

"Look, we aren't in school anymore. It was fun hanging out when the four of us were taking classes with each other, but that was then. We have been married for two years and "X" has a kid on the way. The fact is, you aren't somebody that we necessarily need in our lives anymore. We know that you have mental health issues and that is not necessarily your fault, but the fact is that you are not somebody that "X" wants around now. I know that sounds harsh, and you didn't do anything wrong, but people like you are what they are what they are. Please don't contact us again."

That basically opened my eyes as to how temporary most friendships are and they will casually abandon you the moment they pair off.
relatable
 
After three years after I got my bachelor's degree, I tried contacting my friend group from when I was an undergrad.

Apparently they were still in contact with each other, and they were being very evasive, and then one of them outright said something along the lines of:

"Look, we aren't in school anymore. It was fun hanging out when the four of us were taking classes with each other, but that was then. We have been married for two years and "X" has a kid on the way. The fact is, you aren't somebody that we necessarily need in our lives anymore. We know that you have mental health issues and that is not necessarily your fault, but the fact is that you are not somebody that "X" wants around now. I know that sounds harsh, and you didn't do anything wrong, but people like you are what they are what they are. Please don't contact us again."

That basically opened my eyes as to how temporary most friendships are and they will casually abandon you the moment they pair off.
Bro what the fuck?! I'd just have broken his face for that.

Friends my ass. Wow.
 
Bro what the fuck?! I'd just have broken his face for that.

Friends my ass. Wow.
It was a text.

A lot of people get all smug or high and mighty towards their single friends when they get married or start having kids as they basically think they've outgrown you. Also, they felt that I was the fun but "weird" guy in college, but I guess they now felt that I was "creepy" for not settling down like they did. It was kind of like how Mila Kunis character in Ted (2012) was trying to convince John to stop being friends with Ted because she felt that Ted was stopping him from growing up mentally.

I learned that this is unfortunately how most people think. Meeting people you can chat with is the easy part, but it is hard to find close and long-term friends as opposed to casual acquaintances whom you hang out with.

This is especially true after you are done with college, as most of your coworkers at the office are too busy with their families at home or are disinclined to want to fuck around with some guy who they see at work after hours who is just a casual associate at best.
 
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