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Blackpill Dating in your 30s ― YOU'VE BEEN WARNED

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While you will be on your first date at 30, excited and nervous like a teenager, your date will be a experienced broad equipped with a list of 300+ deal breakers. Negative experiences with Chad made women hard-boiled cynics disillusioned with notions of romance, so from now on their approach to dating normies is strictly utilitarian, best exemplified with the mean spirited calculus "WHAT IS HE BRINGING TO THE TABLE?"

Another thing you should know is that girls in their 30s don't get crushes anymore forget about her ever having butterflies when she sees you, as they were gutted out of her by numerous unfaithful Slayers throughout her teens and twenties. She already had her wild roller-coaster ride of emotional escapades and there is nothing new that could excite her like it did when she was 18. While there is a lot of ironic apathy among incels, just wait till you meet a 30 year old emotionally numb and frigid roastie.

tl;dr: Older women will lower their standards inasmuch as they are now prepared to give you couple of try-dates even if you don't sexually excite them at first sight. But this comes with a terrible, terrible price!
 
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Older women will lower their standards inasmuch as they are now prepared to give you couple of try-dates even if you don't sexually excite them at first sight. But this comes with a terrible, terrible price!

While you will be on your first date at 30, excited and nervous like a teenager, your date will be a experienced broad equipped with a list of 300+ deal breakers. Negative experiences with Chad made women hard-boiled cynics disillusioned with notions of romance, so from now on their approach to dating normies is strictly utilitarian, best exemplified with the mean spirited calculus "WHAT IS HE BRINGING TO THE TABLE?"

Another thing you should know is that girls in their 30s don't get crushes anymore forget about her ever having butterflies when she sees you, as they were gutted out of her by numerous unfaithful Slayers throughout her teens and twenties. She already had her wild roller-coaster ride of emotional escapades and there is nothing new that could excite her like it did when she was 18. While there is a lot of ironic apathy among incels wait till you meet a 30 year old emotionally numb and frigid roastie.
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is there anyone who would make it to 30 as incel and not rope? not me that's for sure
 
Imagine not roping as a sub 8 male in 2020
 
Is good to be broken NEET
 
I cannot handle all these agepill threads :feelsrope:
IT IS OVER ahahahahahahahaaahahahahaha
 
Aristotle IQ
 
It's the same as dating in your 20's, you get ignored
 
Aristotle IQ

This is the reality for anybody thinking about ascension in midlife.

If you didn't ascend in high school or college at the latest, it's beyond over
 
What makes you think I could get a date even in my hypothetical 40s? There is no way on earth it could ever happen, it never initiated.
 
It doesn't matter. The wall, lowering SMV due to kids, etc. is a mgtow fantasy that doesn't reflect reality. I can buy women don't get crushes anymore, but I just can't wrap my head around lowering of standards. Seems like it's the opposite in a lot of ways.
 
If i won't manage to get a girlfriend before i hit 30, i will just give up and monkmaxx.
 
No one here is foolhardy enuff to deal with anything older than 21.
 
they stop having crushes at age 16. From there onwards they just want what chad can offer to her (status, protection, etc)
 
It doesn't matter. The wall, lowering SMV due to kids, etc. is a mgtow fantasy that doesn't reflect reality. I can buy women don't get crushes anymore, but I just can't wrap my head around lowering of standards. Seems like it's the opposite in a lot of ways.
LOOKS, they ease it on LOOKS a notch, but buxxing capabilities, social status, life goals, maturity level, enter the equation and make it even harder for PeterPancels.
 
This is a major cause of suicidal thoughts for me. Even if I don't rope and somehow get the surgeries, I'll be way to old to get a foid worth marrying so I will have no choice besides monk mode. LTRing a used up whore is dishonorable. Even in my mid twenties, all the foids are single mother roasties now. I'd rather kill myself than date a single mother, they should only date single fathers for fucks sake. It's so rare for a 30yr old man to get a virgin femoid or at least a one body 16-18 yr old. Missing out on teen love is going to be a pain that never leaves me. It really does hurt to know that my best and most honorable option is to monkmaxx if I don't rope.
 
Is not easy to find young cute girls for dating, and for old cunt I not searching
 
Yeah, it's already over for us.
Just one more reason to go ER
full
 
I agree with this. I'm honestly gonna just go MGTOW mode if I can't get a girl after college. Not looking forward to dating some soulless roastie with a higher body count than the average Mensa IQ. I can not love that.
 
Brutal agepill, by your 30s it's already over for having a girl genuinely fall in love with you. It's either incel for life or betabuxx.
 
Game over, buddy boyos:feelsrope:
 
JFL @ dating any female over the age of 25
 
It's an even a bigger mess trying to get a date when being in this position in your 40s, I've given up!
 
Like a knife to the gut a long and painful death.
 
It's an even a bigger mess trying to get a date when being in this position in your 40s, I've given up!

How do your 30s compare to your 40s?

This is a major cause of suicidal thoughts for me. Even if I don't rope and somehow get the surgeries, I'll be way to old to get a foid worth marrying so I will have no choice besides monk mode. LTRing a used up whore is dishonorable. Even in my mid twenties, all the foids are single mother roasties now. I'd rather kill myself than date a single mother, they should only date single fathers for fucks sake. It's so rare for a 30yr old man to get a virgin femoid or at least a one body 16-18 yr old. Missing out on teen love is going to be a pain that never leaves me. It really does hurt to know that my best and most honorable option is to monkmaxx if I don't rope.

I don't even demand a virgin at this point, it is the thril that lacks in relathionships after 30, when even normies had their share of fun by then, first crushes, first kiss, broken heart...at 30 you'll be entering a dating world of grown ups with the experiences and emotional maturity of a 13 year old.
 
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How do your 30s compare to your 40s?



I don't even demand a virgin at this point, it is the thril that lacks in relathionships after 30, when even normies had their share of fun by then, first crushes, first kiss, broken heart...at 30 you'll be entering a dating world of grown ups with the emotional maturity of a 13 year old.
The realization that my peers grown up and moved on, while I have the life experiences of a 13 year old, is truly
I know what you mean. I have that problem. I know their will be no real romance or thrill, no illusion of love. That person will never truly feel special, they are too old and already experienced that and you will never experience it. It only exists in dreams for oldcels. If these firsts have been denied in your youth, you will be a bleeding man until you die. Getting into a relationship with another old rotting body is the worst thing possible. Getting an 18 yr old or whatever is basically impossible at 30, and having these wounds from the lack of developmental milestones in your heart will make any relationship with a used up whore a disaster and harmful to you. Without suicide, extreme monkmode coping and separation from all sex and relationships is the best option. It's a brutal blackpill to swallow but every incel needs to know that it's too late for everyone who isn't a teen to experience a relationship that will feel like it actually matters. Throw it all away, wait for artificial wombs and waifubots and just watched as the former incels have better families than all the cucks who got bloodsucked by used up roasties.
 
How do your 30s compare to your 40s?

Not much different really, I became even more invisible to women at 30. I was struggling to get a job also and feelings of anxiety and depression became worse. I ended up on disability for a few years, taking different pills but they just made me more tired and unmotivated.

I was NEET from 30 until 43 pretty much, now I have a minimum wage job, but get extra working nights. At least I'm getting out of my room more now, but my life is still a joke.
 
While you will be on your first date at 30, excited and nervous like a teenager, your date will be a experienced broad equipped with a list of 300+ deal breakers. Negative experiences with Chad made women hard-boiled cynics disillusioned with notions of romance, so from now on their approach to dating normies is strictly utilitarian, best exemplified with the mean spirited calculus "WHAT IS HE BRINGING TO THE TABLE?"

Another thing you should know is that girls in their 30s don't get crushes anymore forget about her ever having butterflies when she sees you, as they were gutted out of her by numerous unfaithful Slayers throughout her teens and twenties. She already had her wild roller-coaster ride of emotional escapades and there is nothing new that could excite her like it did when she was 18. While there is a lot of ironic apathy among incels, just wait till you meet a 30 year old emotionally numb and frigid roastie.

tl;dr: Older women will lower their standards inasmuch as they are now prepared to give you couple of try-dates even if you don't sexually excite them at first sight. But this comes with a terrible, terrible price!

I wont be incel when I'm 30.

One way or another.

Either I fuck or die
 
Agreed. No emotional connections with women are formed in 30's The only thing these chicks are good for is sex.
 
I'd be better off going to shithole land and poo urchasibg some trash
 
Dating in your 30's. The only vision I see. Is being with a worn-out cunt and watching her 20 little offsprings rioting Mcdonald's.

I'd rather be incel than cuck!
 
Rope before 30
 
This is why dating in your teens is so crucial. If you miss out on this developmental milestone, you will forever be emotionally stunted.
 
While you will be on your first date at 30, excited and nervous like a teenager, your date will be a experienced broad equipped with a list of 300+ deal breakers. Negative experiences with Chad made women hard-boiled cynics disillusioned with notions of romance, so from now on their approach to dating normies is strictly utilitarian, best exemplified with the mean spirited calculus "WHAT IS HE BRINGING TO THE TABLE?"

Another thing you should know is that girls in their 30s don't get crushes anymore forget about her ever having butterflies when she sees you, as they were gutted out of her by numerous unfaithful Slayers throughout her teens and twenties. She already had her wild roller-coaster ride of emotional escapades and there is nothing new that could excite her like it did when she was 18. While there is a lot of ironic apathy among incels, just wait till you meet a 30 year old emotionally numb and frigid roastie.

tl;dr: Older women will lower their standards inasmuch as they are now prepared to give you couple of try-dates even if you don't sexually excite them at first sight. But this comes with a terrible, terrible price!

True, which is why I keep saying "ascension" is a meme, it doesn't really exist, if you have to "ascend" you've already lost at the game

Imagine not roping as a sub 8 male in 2020

Imagine dating (paying for a low chance to get sex) rather than prostitution (paying for sex)
 
JFL, this is potent suifuel.
 
While you will be on your first date at 30, excited and nervous like a teenager, your date will be a experienced broad equipped with a list of 300+ deal breakers. Negative experiences with Chad made women hard-boiled cynics disillusioned with notions of romance, so from now on their approach to dating normies is strictly utilitarian, best exemplified with the mean spirited calculus "WHAT IS HE BRINGING TO THE TABLE?"

Another thing you should know is that girls in their 30s don't get crushes anymore forget about her ever having butterflies when she sees you, as they were gutted out of her by numerous unfaithful Slayers throughout her teens and twenties. She already had her wild roller-coaster ride of emotional escapades and there is nothing new that could excite her like it did when she was 18. While there is a lot of ironic apathy among incels, just wait till you meet a 30 year old emotionally numb and frigid roastie.

tl;dr: Older women will lower their standards inasmuch as they are now prepared to give you couple of try-dates even if you don't sexually excite them at first sight. But this comes with a terrible, terrible price!
High iq and agepilled.
 
:feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope:

is there anyone who would make it to 30 as incel and not rope? not me that's for sure
There are plenty here. Some of us just get lost in copes and no longer care as much. The anger subsides and the copes take over.
 
Teach me about the pisspill bro, i want to ascend ngl
Piss yourself at least 14 times within this week, in order to prove yourself worthy of the pisspill. Then i might teach you.
 
The older, fatter and uglier women get the more demanding they become. Just look at your mother for example.
 

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