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SIR ETHNICCEL

SIR ETHNICCEL

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I know exactly what will happen. Some dudes will come here with all kinds of studies that the majority of people met their partner online, YET THEY HAVE NEVER EVEN HAD SUCCESS WITH THE APPS. These studies are all paid for by the dating apps ever heard of lobbying for example?


Dating app key statistics​


  • The dating app market made $4.94 billion revenue in 2022, $3.1 billion came from Match Group
  • Over 300 million people use dating apps worldwide, with about 20 million paying for premium features
  • Tinder was the most downloaded app in 2022, followed by Bumble
  • Tinder is the most popular dating app in the United States and Europe
Match Group
mtch.com
Match Group is an American internet and technology company headquartered in Dallas, Texas. It owns and operates the largest global portfolio of popular online dating services including Tinder, Match.com, Meetic, OkCupid, Hinge, PlentyOfFish, OurTime, and other dating global brands


Woemn dont use apps like that my niggas, its all men on those apps, one big sausage fest. The women actually on there are paid by the dating apps , ask how I know because my female cousin told me this when she was employed by them. Women are very aware of their surroundings and by evolution of nature VERY wary and fearful. Yes women use online apps like snapchat , Instagram . If they already KNOW YOU personally then slide into their DM's
 
I've always wondered if you're a boomer....
 
If they already KNOW YOU personally then slide into their DM's
They have already tons of DMs. I guess you already know such fact. Why would you stand out over all those 100 different guys?
 
I've always wondered if you're a boomer....
The first app user who never had success has arrived. So share with us all the amazing sex and relationships you got from the apps my nigga?

No I am mid 30's
 
So share with us all the amazing sex and relationships you got from the apps my nigga?
Zero. But, IRL? Zero, too. Meanwhile, some of my high-school peers got laid (or had a relationship). The less fortunate ones (average-looking) never got laid nor had a significant relationship.
 
everything in this modern world is made to make single men feel like utter rubbish.
 
Zero. But, IRL? Zero, too.
Aha but you have them and swipe away hoping for your soul mate.

Did you ever wonder that even if you get a date from those apps(in your dreams video game) that you would still have to meet the foid irl? So why not just meet women irl through work, church, school, family, hobbies, neighbours etc
 
work, church, school, family, hobbies, neighbours etc
I'm jobless and uneducated. I blame my already fucked-up brain chemistry (after long-term use of antipsychotics, forced during my mid-teenage years).

Church... hm. Latina grandmas?

School... well, I've already pointed that out.

Family... well, nope. Neither of my family members introduce anyone to girls (I think that only happens in Eastern Europe family dynamics or in SEA).

Hobbies... does tracking terrorism activities worldwide count?

Neighbours... oh, lord.
 
I'm jobless and uneducated. I blame my already fucked-up brain chemistry (after long-term use of antipsychotics, forced during my mid-teenage years).

Church... hm. Latina grandmas?

School... well, I've already pointed that out.

Family... well, nope. Neither of my family members introduce anyone to girls (I think that only happens in Eastern Europe family dynamics or in SEA).

Hobbies... does tracking terrorism activities worldwide count?

Neighbours... oh, lord.
Dude grandmas are the best allies you could ever wish for in your life.

Shieet larp as a christian baptised in the love of Christ ice of a none believer believer. Guess what happens with grandma? She likes your love for Jesus as a strong christian soldier larping and gives you direct introduction to her numerous granddaughters, great nieces, etc etc. My nigga open your eyes. If grandma introduces and even if the foid is totaly repulsed by your sub humanity she will still totaly TRUST YOU(refer to why foids dont fuck with dating apps how you believed because of fear) my nigga best believe. Grandma automatically breaks down all barriers and obstacles in your path.
Even better is to get in her mums good books and that is already 50% of making the daughter choose you and guess what grandma will make the mum like you.

Sometimes use your brain to think instead for video games.
 
Dude grandmas are the best allies you could ever wish for in your life.

Shieet larp as a christian baptised in the love of Christ ice of a none believer believer. Guess what happens with grandma? She likes your love for Jesus as a strong christian soldier larping and gives you direct introduction to her numerous granddaughters, great nieces, etc etc. My nigga open your eyes. If grandma introduces and even if the foid is totaly repulsed by your sub humanity she will still totaly TRUST YOU my nigga best believe. Grandma automatically breaks down all barriers and obstacles in your path.
Even better is to get in her mums good books and that is already 50% of making the daughter choose you and guess what grandma will make the mum like you.

Sometimes use your brain to think instead for video games.
Why no one applies your advice in this forum?
 
Yeah youre probably, they are mostly bots and employees to chat up losers. From what i could tell on dating websites not mainstream dating apps, its mostly old dudes looking for a wife to betabuxx and old foids looking for a younger guy for sex. Ie the desperate people.
 
Why no one applies your advice in this forum?
shieeet my nigga because they believe that dating apps are their ticket to success

I think the main thing is that my advice forces one to take action and that is alot of work. Sticking to things like church, work, neighbours takes time and today most men rather just play vidya and masterbate

i.e they hoping for the quick fix and stop shop solution to all their problems.

But let me tell you something, they will end up as wizards like me. I am talking and giving advice from experience, not because I think I am all that and high IQ but because I have been there and already seen these things.
 
shieeet my nigga because they believe that dating apps are their ticket to success

I think the main thing is that my advice forces one to take action and that is alot of work. Sticking to things like church, work, neighbours takes time and today most men rather just play vidya and masterbate

i.e they hoping for the quick fix and stop shop solution to all their problems.

But let me tell you something, they will end up as wizards like me. I am talking and giving advice from experience, not because I think I am all that and high IQ but because I have been there and already seen these things.
I guess I will have to LARP. It'll take years in order to be "accepted". Been there.
 
Yeah youre probably, they are mostly bots and employees to chat up losers. From what i could tell on dating websites not mainstream dating apps, its mostly old dudes looking for a wife to betabuxx and old foids looking for a younger guy for sex. Ie the desperate people.
Exactly, like seriously just ask yourself why would a young hotty even go on dating apps when she has hundreds of dudes getting in her face and DM'S daily right where she lives?
 
I guess I will have to LARP. It'll take years in order to be "accepted". Been there.
Nah not years. People just need to trust you first i.e test with you by leaving the purse unattented to see if you steal. Test you with small responsibilities. Then after that you in their good books, then they introduce you.
 
Nah not years. People just need to trust you first i.e test with you by leaving the purse unattented to see if you steal. Test you with small responsibilities. Then after that you in their good books, then they introduce you.
I'm mostly talking about religious settings. But I get what you mean.
 
Modren society is a big scam.

Take us back to medival Europe, to the middle ages. A time of brotherhood, where look didn't metter.
 
Modren society is a big scam.

Take us back to medival Europe, to the middle ages. A time of brotherhood, where look didn't metter.
you truelly believe looks didnt mattter in the past? Incels were the foot soldiers drafted to go fight and be slaughtered enmasse for the Chad land lords and state officials.

Dudes just need to intergrate into society properly. The problem with most cels here is we have fucked up low iq , emotionaly challenged parents who could give a fuck about teaching kids such things. Of course the mental cels get a free pass here. I wont down play mental health but for all other cels here they just dumb thinking dating apps , gymmaxxing and vidya will solve their problems. Only proper intergration will i.e get in grandmas good books. Get in the neighbour roasties good books who has 3 daughters and 5 nieces. etc etc etc etc
 
you truelly believe looks didnt mattter in the past? Incels were the foot soldiers drafted to go fight and be slaughtered enmasse for the Chad land lords and state officials.

Dudes just need to intergrate into society properly. The problem with most cels here is we have fucked up low iq , emotionaly challenged parents who could give a fuck about teaching kids such things. Of course the mental cels get a free pass here. I wont down play mental health but for all other cels here they just dumb thinking dating apps , gymmaxxing and vidya will solve their problems. Only proper intergration will i.e get in grandmas good books. Get in the neighbour roasties good books who has 3 daughters and 5 nieces. etc etc etc etc
If you didn't secure a gf in your 20s, then it most likely won't happen in the 30s.

I've mentioed here but if I reach age 40-45 with no femily and no finnacial/social prospect. No point in living alone in old age and risking having heart diseses, cancer, dimentia and other stuff.

better end it being healthy and of sound mind, seeing my grandma going through dimentia and me having complications from covid(No I didn't take the vax).
 
If you didn't secure a gf in your 20s, then it most likely won't happen in the 30s.

I've mentioed here but if I reach age 40-45 with no femily and no finnacial/social prospect. No point in living alone in old age and risking having heart diseses, cancer, dimentia and other stuff.

better end it being healthy and of sound mind, seeing my grandma going through dimentia and me having complications from covid(No I didn't take the vax).
Yeah well what can we do if we already wizards. But still I see men in their 40's impregnating roasties everyday. Even short refugee cels are impregnating roasties in Germanistan and they dont even marry them.

Shieeet I even see short refugee cels impregnating tall Aryan roasties.

Point I am saying is these apps and internet are not good for mental health thats what I am saying. Men have to intergrate into society to fully function and most of us incels are still functioning on the bull shit we were taught by our parents who could care less to teach us these things.
 
Yeah well what can we do if we already wizards. But still I see men in their 40's impregnating roasties everyday. Even short refugee cels are impregnating roasties in Germanistan and they dont even marry them.

Shieeet I even see short refugee cels impregnating tall Aryan roasties.

Point I am saying is these apps and internet are not good for mental health thats what I am saying. Men have to intergrate into society to fully function and most of us incels are still functioning on the bull shit we were taught by our parents who could care less to teach us these things.
If u had parents, I had a single mother, and a violent slavic father.
 
most cels had fucked up family life as children.
Also school is shit, better be homescholled then go to the trash that are schools,middle schools and high schools.
 
I used to pay for tinder I canceled my tinder subscription along time ago when I quit trying to get a girlfriend. Looking back on it all now that I never had any success on tinder I see paying for dating apps as a cucked decision to make if the guy paying for it is not going to get any results while the top percentage of chads are the only guys that can get decent results while probably not even going for the payment features on these dating apps. dating apps are a form off online prostitution if guys are paying for them so much while foids are getting paid to be on them. It’s like dating apps are another way to profit from taking money from simps who make the same payment decision over and over again for results that aren’t to even the most likely outcome the simps expect. Simps are always going to make payments expecting good outcomes for what won’t be the outcome it’s really profitable for the people useing these dating apps as a source of income
 
I used to pay for tinder I canceled my tinder subscription along time ago when I quit trying to get a girlfriend. Looking back on it all now that I never had any success on tinder I see paying for dating apps as a cucked decision to make if the guy paying for it is not going to get any results while the top percentage of chads are the only guys that can get decent results while probably not even going for the payment features on these dating apps. dating apps are a form off online prostitution if guys are paying for them so much while foids are getting paid to be on them. It’s like dating apps are another way to profit from taking money from simps who make the same payment decision over and over again for results that aren’t to even the most likely outcome the simps expect. Simps are always going to make payments expecting good outcomes for what won’t be the outcome it’s really profitable for the people useing these dating apps as a source of income
glad i found somebody who can relate to what i am saying.

dating apps are a billion $ industry . Every industry comes and goes with time and untill the dating app industry declines as more men discover its all smoke and mirrors, the CEO's running those dating app companies will do everything to milk simps for every penny they can get out of them

i have not used dating apps in years but i am guessing that they even have paid adverts these days like Facebook and Instagram

also women dont really use dating apps because they are by nature of evolution very cautious . example look at the amount of rape threads here. That is male evolutionary nature and women know this. Thats why they dont like using dating apps but hookers and women who want free dinners use them because they got husbands who are always close by when they go on "dates"(cough cough)
 
Ive been om Tinder doing work since it came out, heres my stats for measure:
150 000 right swipes
300 matches (0.2%)
150 first message responders (0.1%)
3 dates (0.002%)

So to compare, at my age, the chance of me going on a date with someone when I swipe them on Tinder is about the same of me dying today of any cause.

So I might get killed by an asteroid before I succeed on Tinder, and Ive tried all different pics and profile texts. Comparing mine to an attractive white guy tho then you will realize it is possible you just dont go past that threshold with who you are :/
 
Ive been om Tinder doing work since it came out, heres my stats for measure:
150 000 right swipes
300 matches (0.2%)
150 first message responders (0.1%)
3 dates (0.002%)

So to compare, at my age, the chance of me going on a date with someone when I swipe them on Tinder is about the same of me dying today of any cause.

So I might get killed by an asteroid before I succeed on Tinder, and Ive tried all different pics and profile texts. Comparing mine to an attractive white guy tho then you will realize it is possible you just dont go past that threshold with who you are :/
how many dates could you have gotten if you rather spent those years just socialising with foids at work, school, church, neighbours, friends of friends, friends of family members etc etc
 
how many dates could you have gotten if you rather spent those years just socialising with foids at work, school, church, neighbours, friends of friends, friends of family members etc etc

I did, and that number would be zero. Not church tho, Im not religious.
 
they cost to much
 
Just go outside theory confirmed.
 
I did, and that number would be zero. Not church tho, Im not religious.
Dude you have been using Tinder since 2012 thats now going on 12 years and you only been on 3 dates? Thats 1 date every 4 years.

Dude in that time you could have betabuxxed and impreganted 4 roasties if you willing to work 60 hour weeks. Hooked up with 20 landwhales and smashed 30 grannys and banged 400 hookers.

Dude what the fuck?
 
Dude you have been using Tinder since 2012 thats now going on 12 years and you only been on 3 dates? Thats 1 date every 4 years.

Dude in that time you could have betabuxxed and impreganted 4 roasties if you willing to work 60 hour weeks. Hooked up with 20 landwhales and smashed 30 grannys and banged 400 hookers.

Dude what the fuck?

More like 10 years, but like I said, I have 150.000 swipes, that is around 40 per day on average every day for 10 years.

Well theres a reason why Im here. Social anxiety is one of them. I had some bad experiences with women when I was younger since I was big. They rejected me really hard so I developed a fear for women etc. So Im still not to this day able to walk up and talk to them if I think there is a chance it could turn into something if I do it right. So maybe if I did have a chance, maybe I dont really think so, I mean the Numbers speak for themselves.
I always wanted a girl and love especially and I was working towards that as my main goal the entire time but I wasnt able to succeed at it.
 
  • The dating app market made $4.94 billion revenue in 2022, $3.1 billion came from Match Group
  • Over 300 million people use dating apps worldwide, with about 20 million paying for premium features
  • Tinder was the most downloaded app in 2022, followed by Bumble
  • Tinder is the most popular dating app in the United States and Europe

ethniccel1

my reaction to that information
 
More like 10 years, but like I said, I have 150.000 swipes, that is around 40 per day on average every day for 10 years.

Well theres a reason why Im here. Social anxiety is one of them. I had some bad experiences with women when I was younger since I was big. They rejected me really hard so I developed a fear for women etc. So Im still not to this day able to walk up and talk to them if I think there is a chance it could turn into something if I do it right. So maybe if I did have a chance, maybe I dont really think so, I mean the Numbers speak for themselves.
I always wanted a girl and love especially and I was working towards that as my main goal the entire time but I wasnt able to succeed at it.
i hear you brocel.

you need to seek help to deal with your social anxiety brocel. This is the wrong place, most here are in the same boat
 
From what i could tell on dating websites not mainstream dating apps, its mostly old dudes looking for a wife to betabuxx and old foids looking for a younger guy for sex. Ie the desperate people.
Tell me those sites. I’ll gladly ascend with a old woman
 
This is advice don’t work. Damn near every younger woman now has a social circle. They date chads/chadlites/normies from their social circle. Not a isolated dude who she knows through family.
 
This is advice don’t work. Damn near every younger woman now has a social circle. They date chads/chadlites/normies from their social circle. Not a isolated dude who she knows through family.
well you could simply just rot or rope, shieeeeet.

if your brains are too low iq to think of ways to navigate society then you going to rot forever. That advice is simply generic advice from my mind. If you cant even apply the abstarct concept to your current area and environment then you deserve to be alone NIGGER
 
I don't think that's true. Sure dating apps profit from having guys there but they also get positive marketing when people find happiness with the help of an app. Through them people that would have never met are able to meet.

The main problem is foids, as always. They are using it wrong. Most use dating apps with the sole intention of milking attention, inflating their ego and not at all to meet other men. A proof of this is that dating apps works wonders when you're a man looking for other men.
 
I don't think that's true. Sure dating apps profit from having guys there but they also get positive marketing when people find happiness with the help of an app. Through them people that would have never met are able to meet.

The main problem is foids, as always. They are using it wrong. Most use dating apps with the sole intention of milking attention, inflating their ego and not at all to meet other men. A proof of this is that dating apps works wonders when you're a man looking for other men.
dude i explained that by nature women are cautious of talking to random men on dating apps in such a "romantically" charged atmosphere. Most foids do not use those apps at all.

But hey brocel if you feel the apps are good and will help you ascend then by all means please go for it
 
dude i explained that by nature women are cautious of talking to random men on dating apps in such a "romantically" charged atmosphere. Most foids do not use those apps at all.

But hey brocel if you feel the apps are good and will help you ascend then by all means please go for it
I don't think they are good at all, but because of foids' egotistical and solipsistic nature. And women's cautiousness is just an excuse to mistreat men. What can guys do over the phone?

But it was a stroke of genius to create an app that's fueled by women's attention seeking behavior.
 
i hear you brocel.

you need to seek help to deal with your social anxiety brocel. This is the wrong place, most here are in the same boat

Ive been in treatment for a long time, cure for anxiety for me is alcohol, but it has only caused me trouble tbh, but it did save my life, in 2017. You know, this type of thing; failing biologocally in life is bad, and being without love tends to make people suicidal. Also my impression of this forum is that a lot of people feel that way. But I think you should know that soon, you will feel differently about it. We only get one life in the universe and no matter how bad it gets, you will eventually want to live as long as possible. Just have to get past this one bump in the road. Even if we are just a bunch of guys wanting a gf, with no sympathy given.
 

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