I used Tinder for over 2 years, even paid Gold for a full year, I filled out all the data and updated my pics. When I started out in 2022 I was 22 at the time but since I was young I set my age to 20.
The first few weeks i got like 5 matches per week, but no girl that I could convince to get her number. So I thought "Maybe I should use the world wide option" to get more results? Which actually worked, but unfortunately gave me girls that lived 6000 km away. Since Gold allows you to nearly swipe indefinitely I eventually swiped like 500 pics daily to the right.
I also only swiped girls where I could think "Yes I can have a shot with her, this should be easy, finally I will find a girlfriend, something that didnt work throughout my entire school life or even in my freetime"
I was bluepilled at the time, I was thinking well, theres so many girls who search for a Boyfriend one surly would like that to be me. Right?
But...nothing happened, so I downloaded Bumble, Hinge, Boo and registered on Neu.de (which is like a partnership agency that is used to finding a girlfriend For you, but turned out to be a scam)
The days gone by, i swiped and swiped and only got so few likes and the likes I got were from 30+ year old women and foreigners that lived a whole continent away.
I was 22, almost 23 when I questioned my confidence, i already knew from school that I was rather an outsider, but this is online right? What could my profile be lacking, it was at the time where I discovered this "John" guy, who was a rich gigachad and looked amazing. He was a fuckboy, even described himself as such. So he showed of his profile where he was like driving a Lambo, half naked on the beach, a gym pic, surfing and thats when I got into Looksmaxxing and Self improvement.
I read all the best psychological books, hit the gym, ate healthy, used skin care and so on and so forth and noticed eventually i was shadowbanned from Tinder.
So i made a new acc. New pics, a fancy bio and Bam instant Gold membership for 6 months. And i started swiping and swiping. But over the next like 6 months, nothing happened. I talked to more girls online then ever before - but I never got a fucking date, I was shadowed all the time.
It was also at the time where I discovered Gerbert Johnson and DBDR - and something clicked - these dudes talk EXACTLY what ive been through. Well Gerbert talked more about social changes and DBDR talked about how miserable life is and since I was a Doomer kinda guy early on anyway, i could really identify myself with that. It was just last year around my 24th birthday when I really dived into the Blackpill.
I was still going to University, but nobody had friends there and i tried to find a girlfriend by going to bars or some outside events to make connection but it never worked out.
Eventually I discovered this forum and read it a few months, and while certainly a few people here seem to hate women, which i do not, but still follow the major principals of the Blackpill, I made an acc here.
I eventually deleted Hinge, because I got barely any likes at all, then Bumble because I got shadowbanned there for using filtered pics and ultimately Tinder after making my Catfish Stacy experiment
So i could barely get likes even with my best pics (they are actually decent) and hate the fact that i cant see my matches so I deleted it finally after 2 years and... Created a new one of a random blonde Stacy - guess what? Before i even really Set my profile up and made a Bio Ive got over 100...
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Online Dating and especially Dating Apps, are a Chad game only. The average of a man on Tinder, Bumble and Co is a 7/10 with a decent paying job. Tho there are a lot of 8s and 9s too. And while a lot of Inkies might say now these guys only want sex - it became apparent...no, they dont. Thed want a girlfriend, they want a relationship. Some of these dudes, especially the Arabs, even wanted to marry my Stacy catfish.
Men are DESPERATE. And I became desperate, not just a doomer, no really just depressed. Chronic depression and socially anxious.
While I cant fully support everything that is posted on this forum, especially the gore and brutalizing content or the obvious support of some pedos that want to hit on 14 yos that simply dont get banned, I still learned a lot about how bad the dating crisis is, how overly empowered women became, how disgustingly high the dating experiences are, how much energy and money it costs to even sustain a relationship and how many men are actually sexless and thus either became NEETs, roped or simply joined redpilled "MGTOW" cope.
Dating Apps tho? Ill probably never use and since I am not on Social Media much either, i unfortunately miss out on a grand total of nearly 60% of relationship sources.
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Unfortunately for me, I also dont have any friends, so basically another 10% of my options to find someone are gone. I wont go back to grade or highschool either and am kinda done with this university bullshit too.
And my family is broken and knows nobody either.
So yeah, the opportunities are shallow. I either find someone through luck or need to coldapproachmaxx eventually, something that i hate tbh.
It is...really bad, for everything
