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SuicideFuel Dad says "I have everything"

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When I tell my Dad my feelings about feeling immense sadness and social isolation (mainly due to bad looks / extremely socially debilitating autism), he tells me "You have nothing to complain about. You have everything" because I have basic necessities like food, water, a caring family, etc. He also had me in his mid 40s btw and he like 60 now
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No everything for your face.
 
My mom also says the same and she yells at me a fuckton every chance she can get :feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope: Im 19 and ive never talked to a girl, and my mom also knows that I am very autistic, and yet she still expects me and always tells me about looking "presentable" to get a gf. She even talks about "when im married" JFL
 
They were supposed to give you a good life/good start at it, and they failed. It's their fault
Doesn't mean you shouldn't try improving your situation to the best of your ability though.
 
My mom also says the same and she yells at me a fuckton every chance she can get :feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope: Im 19 and ive never talked to a girl, and my mom also knows that I am very autistic, and yet she still expects me and always tells me about looking "presentable" to get a gf. She even talks about "when im married" JFL
Molotov cocktails are easy to make I've heard.
 
They were supposed to give you a good life/good start at it, and they failed. It's their fault
Doesn't mean you shouldn't try improving your situation to the best of your ability though.
Yeah, but also don't beat yourself up about things you can't change.
 
I guess at least he's not a hypocrite who was having sex in his teens but brutal that he doesn't understand. Sorry you're in this position bro wish you had friends
 
Yeah, but also don't beat yourself up about things you can't change.
Yeah, but also don't beat yourself up about things you can't change.
Its really mentally liberating when you realize how a lot of things that have happend to you in life and the ways others have treated you were actually never really your fault at all. It lets you finally forgive yourself for things you thought you had control over
 
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I guess at least he's not a hypocrite who was having sex in his teens but brutal that he doesn't understand. Sorry you're in this position bro wish you had friends
I have almost 0 irl friends. I have 1 who I see once a week mostly and 1 on discord who only hops on at night
:feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:So I am lonely most of my days really. And I hate almost all the people on my area, and I am also a lolcow in my area too because I did stupid shit because I thought it was funny in elementary ( jestermaxxing never again).
 
Molotov cocktails are easy to make I've heard.
Exactly. I like the saying "it's not your fault, but it's your responsibility" for that reason, when it comes to dumbfuck retarded parents
Meaning don't beat yourself up for shit that was not your fault (your parents ARE fully responsible for how you turn out), but dont fall into a sense of powerlessness and instead try to make the best of what you have
 
Despite them being unsympathetic meanies and dysfunctional parents they do have one point, you have everything (that you need). You don't need women, you WANT them, but if you know what they are like then you shouldn't want them at all. Women stink and don't want you + you are autistic = just enjoy a simple life and completely forget about all expectations and "hopes" like having a woman
 
Exactly. I like the saying "it's not your fault, but it's your responsibility" for that reason, when it comes to dumbfuck retarded parents
Meaning don't beat yourself up for shit that was not your fault (your parents ARE fully responsible for how you turn out), but dont fall into a sense of powerlessness and instead try to make the best of what you have
Spot on. People can still enjoy themselves even as absolute subhumans. Gaming is the best cope for me. OP needs a strong cope that he's passionate about and one that gives him a sense of purpose/fulfillment.
 
Its really mentally liberating when you realize how a lot of things that have happend to you in life and the ways others have treated you were actually never really your fault at all. It lets you finally forgive yourself for things you thought you had control over
You're right man, the best we can try to do is come to peace with it
 
Parents just don't understand, just because I have luxurious copes at the palm of my hand, that doesn't invalidate my relational bankruptcy.

Copes don't make good memories, people do.
 
Despite them being unsympathetic meanies and dysfunctional parents they do have one point, you have everything (that you need). You don't need women, you WANT them, but if you know what they are like then you shouldn't want them at all. Women stink and don't want you + you are autistic = just enjoy a simple life and completely forget about all expectations and "hopes" like having a woman
Do you have autism too?
 
I have almost 0 irl friends. I have 1 who I see once a week mostly and 1 on discord who only hops on at night
:feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:So I am lonely most of my days really. And I hate almost all the people on my area, and I am also a lolcow in my area too because I did stupid shit because I thought it was funny in elementary ( jestermaxxing never again).
Having a friend you see once a week is great if you can connect with them, the larger the friend group the less "friend" they are. Don't expect life to be like some sort of movie where you have all these great relationships and friends, good people are rare and it's best not to make your happiness hinge on a bunch of asshats
 
Spot on. People can still enjoy themselves even as absolute subhumans. Gaming is the best cope for me. OP needs a strong cope that he's passionate about and one that gives him a sense of purpose/fulfillment.
Music helps me a lot
 
Do you have autism too?
I don't know but I am a social retard and I've reverted back to enjoying childhood life. Watch some cartoons and drink milk or something trvst me it's way better then the drama, leeching and sadness a foid would bring
 
Having a friend you see once a week is great if you can connect with them, the larger the friend group the less "friend" they are. Don't expect life to be like some sort of movie where you have all these great relationships and friends, good people are rare and it's best not to make your happiness hinge on a bunch of asshats
Its just sad that nt people get to have almost disney channel esque social lives (going to events, parties, early relationships etc.) as I rot due to genes. But you make great, nuanced perspectives too
 
I don't know but I am a social retard and I've reverted back to enjoying childhood life. Watch some cartoons and drink milk or something trvst me it's way better then the drama, leeching and sadness a foid would bring
Animation is based im an autist who likes animation too
 
You don't need women, you WANT them,
We kinda do need them. We have basic psychological and physiological urges that only a woman can fulfill. The fact that we don't die from the lack of it straight away (a lot of us do though, slowly and painfully) doesn't mean it's a "want". It is a need
 
Its just sad that nt people get to have almost disney channel esque social lives (going to events, parties, early relationships etc.) as I rot due to genes. But you make great, nuanced perspectives too
The Disney channel social lives are literally just for social media but the reality is lame and even self harmful, most of those people don't even care about each other and just want social status and looking cool, it isn't something I'd do even if I could. I highly doubt there's a real reason to get drunk and fuck a whore at some party, just more nasty adult stuff
 
He thinks you'll starting pulling in your 40's. :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
 
Bro has gramp as father
 
We kinda do need them. We have basic psychological and physiological urges that only a woman can fulfill. The fact that we don't die from the lack of it straight away (a lot of us do though, slowly and painfully) doesn't mean it's a "want". It is a need
I think the suffering comes more from thinking about women then it does not having one. If you think about women all day, how AMAZING it would be to have one (it wouldn't be), fantasizing about them, self pity partying, thinking about other guys having them, exc you'll probably be mad and sad. Reality is that the thing you are looking for (love) cannot be found in women, they pump and dump hads and they take advantage of simps, you don't want to be in either of those nasty adult relationships. Block them from your mind!
 
I think the suffering comes more from thinking about women then it does not having one. If you think about women all day, how AMAZING it would be to have one (it wouldn't be), fantasizing about them, self pity partying, thinking about other guys having them, exc you'll probably be mad and sad. Reality is that the thing you are looking for (love) cannot be found in women, they pump and dump hads and they take advantage of simps, you don't want to be in either of those nasty adult relationships. Block them from your mind!
You can block out a lot of important needs with enough coping and mental gymnastics, I do understand that. But we shouldn't advocate for that, that's extremely cucked.
The effects of lacking intimacy are well studied and are too brutal to be okay with it like that.
 
You can block out a lot of important needs with enough coping and mental gymnastics, I do understand that. But we shouldn't advocate for that, that's extremely cucked.
The effects of lacking intimacy are well studied and are too brutal to be okay with it like that.
You can only lack intimacy as an adult because it only exists for adults, kids don't care about that baloney. Trick is to grow down instead of up, if you can
 
Theres no point in venting to older people they'll never make an effort to understand you. they think that the world is the same as it was 40 years ago
 
I never really understood the point of trying to open up to your parents like this. They never are receptive, and I myself was told if I kept being so negative I'd be kicked out of the house back when I was a teenager. You learn this shit when you're a kid dude, you're on your own. That's the way life is.
Then they'll say you're hysterical for thinking you're all alone. People that haven't been down in the shit make zero effort to understand how it's like. No point in engaging.
 
You can only lack intimacy as an adult because it only exists for adults, kids don't care about that baloney.
Wtf you mean? Kids that are left alone with no parents and no love are fucked up for life, this is well researched and is a common knowledge at this point. You sound like a redditor tbh
 
Bro has gramp as father
having elderly parents growing up is brutal ngl. my grandfather had his last children at like 70 years old, my uncles and aunts(who are younger than me) had to grow up feeding and bathing their own father after school cause he had severe dementia
 
I'm not talking about intimacy as in having parents or a friends, I was talking about in the sexual manner which I assumed you did too. Op already said he has a friend he sees every week which is the same situation for me. Love isn't needed in the romantic sense because there is no real romance anyways, it's all whore bullshit, it isn't wrong to stop wanting it
 
Wtf you mean? Kids that are left alone with no parents and no love are fucked up for life, this is well researched and is a common knowledge at this point. You sound like a redditor tbh
Sorry meant to make it a response to this
 
When will people realize that surviving isn’t living
 
Its just sad that nt people get to have almost disney channel esque social lives (going to events, parties, early relationships etc.) as I rot due to genes. But you make great, nuanced perspectives too
I can promise you that's not reality for even the most attractive people. I know it's hard to believe when you're young. The sooner you can get the bullshit that's filled our heads with social media and Jew TV/movies, the better.
 
having elderly parents growing up is brutal ngl. my grandfather had his last children at like 70 years old, my uncles and aunts(who are younger than me) had to grow up feeding and bathing their own father after school cause he had severe dementia
Yeah it’s going to be a huge burden
 
"You have everything son you will eat shit and you will enjoy it"
 
You have everything" because I have basic necessities like food, water, a caring family, etc. He also had me in his mid 40s btw and he like 60 now
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because that sure is "everything" lol :feelsseriously:
 
I can promise you that's not reality for even the most attractive people. I know it's hard to believe when you're young. The sooner you can get the bullshit that's filled our heads with social media and Jew TV/movies, the better.
i think more attractive people for the most part just stay single so they can continue doing one night stands but that disney-esque life is definitely more common for them
 
It’s like we have the same parents or something, both my parents are the exact same way. They just flat out refuse to acknowledge that I struggle mightily when trying to get a romantic relationship and sex, not because of the things that I can control, but precisely because of what I was predestined to have because of them: race, height, etc.

That’s honestly a major reason as to why I hate them. They just don’t care, they don’t want to accept that I’m facing perpetual Inceldom because of their combination of sub-par genetics.
 

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