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Venting Cucked therapy trying to make me "rethink" my memories of people treating me like shit

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I generally dislike going to therapy, much of it is useless cope. Seriously why should I try to downplay, forget, or in any other way alter my memories of rejection and ostracism I've received since I was a child? What, so I can become better able to be productive to society despite being a lifelong outcast? FUCK THAT! Honestly one of the only things which keeps me going is watching the very people and society who did this to me ultimately fail, or discern how futile their own actions are.

A few years ago I remember hearing about a chadlite who bullied me for years as a kid dying in a car accident, that shit made my day, hell it made my month. Of course it was difficult to hide the feeling of immediate satisfaction I felt upon hearing of it, but still, why would I rob myself of this pleasure? Tbh I can't wait until each and every one of the pieces of shit discovers exactly how mortal they are, how their lives are really no less futile and pathetic than my own. JFL@ being a castrated drone, ensuring the relative happiness of people who have demonstrated time and time again exactly how much they despise me.

Seriously the FAcels and their cuck mentality of "maybe something will happen when you're 40" makes me feel a strange mixture of pity and disgust. I mean how could this possibly sound appealing to anyone? Why would I want a used up whore after decades of rejection, slaving away for luckier people, many of them being people who likely wouldn't want anything to do with me? Even attempting to imagine this scenario makes me feel like roping right now, I resent the very notion. How cucked can someone be?
 
What, so I can become better able to be productive to society despite being a lifelong outcast? FUCK THAT!
But bro, think about all the boomers who need their pensions paid and hard-working government employees who need their salaries! What about being a decent human being and helping soyciety through meaningless low-level busywork that only pays slightly more than disability checks?
 
Why would you go to therapy lmao? you do realize your therapist wouldn't care if you blew your brains out right this second
 
Why would you go to therapy lmao? you do realize your therapist wouldn't care if you blew your brains out right this second
Trying to get NEETbuxx bro, need to make myself look good. Whether or not I feel it actually helps me is irrelevant.
 
I generally dislike going to therapy, much of it is useless cope. Seriously why should I try to downplay, forget, or in any other way alter my memories of rejection and ostracism I've received since I was a child? What, so I can become better able to be productive to society despite being a lifelong outcast? FUCK THAT! Honestly one of the only things which keeps me going is watching the very people and society who did this to me ultimately fail, or discern how futile their own actions are.

A few years ago I remember hearing about a chadlite who bullied me for years as a kid dying in a car accident, that shit made my day, hell it made my month. Of course it was difficult to hide the feeling of immediate satisfaction I felt upon hearing of it, but still, why would I rob myself of this pleasure? Tbh I can't wait until each and every one of the pieces of shit discovers exactly how mortal they are, how their lives are really no less futile and pathetic than my own. JFL@ being a castrated drone, ensuring the relative happiness of people who have demonstrated time and time again exactly how much they despise me.

Seriously the FAcels and their cuck mentality of "maybe something will happen when you're 40" makes me feel a strange mixture of pity and disgust. I mean how could this possibly sound appealing to anyone? Why would I want a used up whore after decades of rejection, slaving away for luckier people, many of them being people who likely wouldn't want anything to do with me? Even attempting to imagine this scenario makes me feel like roping right now, I resent the very notion. How cucked can someone be?
Based and blackpilled, 100% agree, fuck them
 
I wonder what CBT is like, therapy is silly I think, it is only for normies who have slight mental problems not complete failures like the truecel, I bet if Becky listened to a truecel in therapy she would need therapy herself.
 
But bro, think about all the boomers who need their pensions paid and hard-working government employees who need their salaries! What about being a decent human being and helping soyciety through meaningless low-level busywork that only pays slightly more than disability checks?

Speaking of boomers, what really makes me angry is young Bernie supporters. You do understand his policies are basically a huge wealth transfer to give EVEN MORE MONEY & BENEFITS to the most entitled and decadent generation in history?
 
just get over it br0, just forget all the countless events in ur life that caused u trauma br0!
 
Speaking of boomers, what really makes me angry is young Bernie supporters. You do understand his policies are basically a huge wealth transfer to give EVEN MORE MONEY & BENEFITS to the most entitled and decadent generation in history?
lol they think that welfare state will still be there for them by the time they retire
 
Trying to get NEETbuxx bro, need to make myself look good. Whether or not I feel it actually helps me is irrelevant.

I hope you know how to play the game, I've never been to therapy but based on what I've heard, if you respond too well too quickly they assume you are faking your "recovery" and just saying what they want to hear, and that isn't "real progress", you have to put up some resistance, disagree a bit, ask the therapist to try and reason you into accepting their perspective, so that they can delude themselves into thinking that they are "helping you"

Actually I'm wrong, that's the strategy if you want to get our of therapy, in order to get your neetbux you probably have to stay in therapy so I guess you have to do the opposite so the therapist recommends that you keep seeing them
 
I wonder what CBT is like, therapy is silly I think, it is only for normies who have slight mental problems not complete failures like the truecel, I bet if Becky listened to a truecel in therapy she would need therapy herself.
CBT is a scam most therapists (which are foids) puts blame on you, that you won't accept invites to parties (jfl thinking that any incel have friends and are invited to parties), won't accept complements (i never got complements from anyone but family). It's natural to be depressed and socially anxious when people kept bullying, ignoring and treating you like ghost for the majority of your life, and yet those fucking whore holes blames always the victim. :feelsree: :feelsree: :feelsree: :feelsree:

CBT and vast majority of drugs they give you won't help you since they expect you to have normal life with friends, gfs and maybe kids, incels are not curable since they are dysfunctional and have never experienced those things all the sell you is bluepills and false hope that things will get better, sorry in incels life IT WILL ALWAYS BE WORSE and jewish pseudoscience brainwashing won't change a thing.


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Those are keywords from CBT book "CBT made simple" what a fucking joke.


Meditation and magic mushrooms did more good things to me than worthless therapies. Only true thing from this book is that it is your brain that makes you feel that way and you can decide to make those feelings pass and don't act on them and i could get to know it without reading your shitty book but just by simply meditating (which is known to make depression/anxiety less severe).
 
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That is very cucked. Shame on them. Would they tell a rape victim to just forget about it sweaty!

Never forget what happened to you, but don’t obsess over it make yourself miserable than you already are as an ugly male.
 
CBT is a scam most therapists (which are foids) puts blame on you, that you won't accept invites to parties (jfl thinking that any incel have friends and are invited to parties), won't accept complements (i never got complements from anyone but family). It's natural to be depressed and socially anxious when people kept bullying, ignoring and treating you like ghost for the majority of your life, and yet those fucking whore holes blames always the victim. :feelsree: :feelsree: :feelsree: :feelsree:

CBT and vast majority of drugs they give you won't help you since they expect you to have normal life with friends, gfs and maybe kids, incels are not curable since they are dysfunctional and have never experienced those things all the sell you is bluepills and false hope that things will get better, sorry in incels life IT WILL ALWAYS BE WORSE and jewish pseudoscience brainwashing won't change a thing.
Yeah, because when you inevitably come to the realization that none of this shit is your fault, you lose all motivation to contribute to society. Worse, you might actively wish harm upon it. Honestly I don't believe in free will, so I'm pretty much precluded from even toying with the notion of blame. As for their bullshit false hope, I want none of it. There is no way I could manage to be in a relationship with a roastie, not after being treated like garbage my whole life, you'd have to erase my memory. Not that I could betabuxx even if I wanted to, I have no money for a foid to steal.

I've just come to the conclusion that I should do whatever seems best to me, and that certainly doesn't include supporting a civilization which facilitates inceldom.
 
It's too late but, you shouldn't have used reasons to describe your emotions!

It would have been better to say, i don't know why i feel sad or whatever. Vague.

That way it can't be explained therefore it's an illness instead of a reasonable reaction.

Ofc someone that's been treated like shit, will feel like shit!

Just blank out and say you forgot. And you already forgave them... Just make it seem like your some kind of defective fuckup if you expect to be treated neetly like one!

Of course i am just guessing, but im willing to bet im right. Look it up! Try for something inherited.
 
Therapy is a useless moneygrab
 
Yeah, because when you inevitably come to the realization that none of this shit is your fault, you lose all motivation to contribute to society. Worse, you might actively wish harm upon it. Honestly I don't believe in free will, so I'm pretty much precluded from even toying with the notion of blame. As for their bullshit false hope, I want none of it. There is no way I could manage to be in a relationship with a roastie, not after being treated like garbage my whole life, you'd have to erase my memory. Not that I could betabuxx even if I wanted to, I have no money for a foid to steal.

I've just come to the conclusion that I should do whatever seems best to me, and that certainly doesn't include supporting a civilization which facilitates inceldom.

So what's your plan going forward? I feel like I'm in much the same situation as you...at least the way you describe it is mostly how I feel like I've experienced it. What does doing whatever seems best to you even look like in this reality???
 
Yeah, because when you inevitably come to the realization that none of this shit is your fault, you lose all motivation to contribute to society. Worse, you might actively wish harm upon it. Honestly I don't believe in free will, so I'm pretty much precluded from even toying with the notion of blame. As for their bullshit false hope, I want none of it. There is no way I could manage to be in a relationship with a roastie, not after being treated like garbage my whole life, you'd have to erase my memory. Not that I could betabuxx even if I wanted to, I have no money for a foid to steal.

I've just come to the conclusion that I should do whatever seems best to me, and that certainly doesn't include supporting a civilization which facilitates inceldom.
free will dont exist , is the truth , the simple truth. In my opinion is the bottom of the black pill
 
Rotting, I can't see a reason to do much of anything.
It's true. I don't even know why I ask anymore. I guess out of some false hope that someone will have a different and better answer than I do. I'm basically resigned to enjoying the small pleasures in life that I can achieve while generally just rotting...
 
We know life sucks and people here still think is a good idea to reproduce smh.
 
Yeah, I wish I were never born tbh.
Well that'd be too good, most of us aren't that lucky. Hence we are billions and counting, existing as a result of one silly orgasm or stupid selfish reasons.
 
free will dont exist , is the truth , the simple truth. In my opinion is the bottom of the black pill
True just do as this oldcel try to close your eyes and start saying/singing words they will appear out of nowhere and you have zero control over them.
 
I was in CBT group therapy thing and some gymcel mentioned how he approached roughly 40 women in the span of 6 months or so and it never worked out but even after that he was convinced that he just didn't approach enough women
note: don't ever try dropping black pills in any group therapy I tried that and I got roasted by 10 normies for two consecutive sessions
 
I was in CBT group therapy thing and some gymcel mentioned how he approached roughly 40 women in the span of 6 months or so and it never worked out but even after that he was convinced that he just didn't approach enough women
note: don't ever try dropping black pills in any group therapy I tried that and I got roasted by 10 normies for two consecutive sessions

What Blackpills did you drop? I'm guessing the looks are the only thing that matters thing? That's usually the easier one to swallow for them.

CBT seems like such a giant scam. There's no way I can forget all of the bullshit I've been through.
 
What Blackpills did you drop? I'm guessing the looks are the only thing that matters thing? That's usually the easier one to swallow for them.

CBT seems like such a giant scam. There's no way I can forget all of the bullshit I've been through.
I was basically talking about how it's impossible to change your way of thinking which is what they were trying to do "Analyze a negative thought that pops in your mind like I'm ugly/dumb etc and confront it" the gymcel had a pretty bad case of acne even at the age of 25 and he was 5'7 and I said something to the psychiatrist along the line well how do you disprove facts he has acne and he's short
the idea of CBT is that it's literally all in your head you're not really ugly/dumb/manlet and you just have to force your brain to believe otherwise
 
I was basically talking about how it's impossible to change your way of thinking which is what they were trying to do "Analyze a negative thought that pops in your mind like I'm ugly/dumb etc and confront it" the gymcel had a pretty bad case of acne even at the age of 25 and he was 5'7 and I said something to the psychiatrist along the line well how do you disprove facts he has acne and he's short
the idea of CBT is that it's literally all in your head you're not really ugly/dumb/manlet and you just have to force your brain to believe otherwise

JFL. And what were they saying to shame you for stating simple facts of the situation?
 
JFL. And what were they saying to shame you for stating simple facts of the situation?
"You're too negative", "I wish you didn't come", "You're a toxic person", "How dare you" I mean I've gotten worse and the group did have some sort of moderation so you couldn't just call someone a dumb cocksucker
 
I was basically talking about how it's impossible to change your way of thinking which is what they were trying to do "Analyze a negative thought that pops in your mind like I'm ugly/dumb etc and confront it" the gymcel had a pretty bad case of acne even at the age of 25 and he was 5'7 and I said something to the psychiatrist along the line well how do you disprove facts he has acne and he's short
the idea of CBT is that it's literally all in your head you're not really ugly/dumb/manlet and you just have to force your brain to believe otherwise
Lol really?
 
I hope you know how to play the game, I've never been to therapy but based on what I've heard, if you respond too well too quickly they assume you are faking your "recovery" and just saying what they want to hear, and that isn't "real progress", you have to put up some resistance, disagree a bit, ask the therapist to try and reason you into accepting their perspective, so that they can delude themselves into thinking that they are "helping you"

Actually I'm wrong, that's the strategy if you want to get our of therapy, in order to get your neetbux you probably have to stay in therapy so I guess you have to do the opposite so the therapist recommends that you keep seeing them
jfl does this actually work?
"You're too negative", "I wish you didn't come", "You're a toxic person", "How dare you" I mean I've gotten worse and the group did have some sort of moderation so you couldn't just call someone a dumb cocksucker
lmao what a bunch of cucks
 
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jfl does this actually work?

I don't know from experience, but based on what I've heard (from other people who have done therapy) its like a game of reverse psychology (ironically) to get what you want from them

If they feel like you are adapting too quickly to treatment and agreeing with them too quickly they'll see it as a form of resistance and you aren't actually trying to change, so they'll recommend that you keep seeing them or may even recommend that they can't treat you and be assigned to another therapist

If you put up some resistance but slowly over time make it seem like you are understanding their perspective and learning, they will consider you a successful patient

Basically you just have to understand what it is they want from you and emulate that, someone who is trying to fix something wants to be able to see that its broken and watch as its fixed step by step, if you just snapped your fingers and something broken was fixed, you wouldn't believe it, if you struggle for a while trying various things and it finally works you'll be more sure of your "accomplishment"

Basically this is just about "psyching the psyche" by using their ego, all these people think they are so smart and know how the mind works and everyone thinks, and that very way of thinking is their blindspot, because they don't think of themselves as being susceptible to those same shortcomings, but they are normies, all normies are susceptible, because they are emotional and illogical
 
Why would you go to therapy lmao? you do realize your therapist wouldn't care if you blew your brains out right this second
 
A few years ago I remember hearing about a chadlite who bullied me for years as a kid dying in a car accident, that shit made my day, hell it made my month.
Lucky bastard, I would give anything to feel this.

Also JFL in therapy meme, "Just forget bruh", how can we forget what made us? All this negative experiences resulted in what we are today, for bad or for good.

Just forget everything theory :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:

I think I going to become a theRAPIST as well get money from people with horrible problems just to say for them to forget everything.
 
I used to go to therapy and it was helping me quite a bit but I was soon told not to come anymore because other therapy members did not like my "aggressive positivity". In short I discussed about trying to solve all of my problems myself and improve while the rest of the group wanted to just talk about how badly life fucked them over and do nothing about it.
 
I don't know from experience, but based on what I've heard (from other people who have done therapy) its like a game of reverse psychology (ironically) to get what you want from them

If they feel like you are adapting too quickly to treatment and agreeing with them too quickly they'll see it as a form of resistance and you aren't actually trying to change, so they'll recommend that you keep seeing them or may even recommend that they can't treat you and be assigned to another therapist

If you put up some resistance but slowly over time make it seem like you are understanding their perspective and learning, they will consider you a successful patient

Basically you just have to understand what it is they want from you and emulate that, someone who is trying to fix something wants to be able to see that its broken and watch as its fixed step by step, if you just snapped your fingers and something broken was fixed, you wouldn't believe it, if you struggle for a while trying various things and it finally works you'll be more sure of your "accomplishment"

Basically this is just about "psyching the psyche" by using their ego, all these people think they are so smart and know how the mind works and everyone thinks, and that very way of thinking is their blindspot, because they don't think of themselves as being susceptible to those same shortcomings, but they are normies, all normies are susceptible, because they are emotional and illogical
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I used to go to therapy and it was helping me quite a bit but I was soon told not to come anymore because other therapy members did not like my "aggressive positivity". In short I tried to tackle, solve all problems myself and improve on them while the rest of the group wanted to just talk about how badly life fucked them over and do nothing about it.
wow, to be "told to not come anymore" even in therapy, straight ERfuel
 
I used to go to therapy and it was helping me quite a bit but I was soon told not to come anymore because other therapy members did not like my "aggressive positivity"

JFL @wide_eyed_optimism_ this is exactly what I was talking about, if you progress too quickly you'll be sent away, so if you want neetbux you have to be in a state of perpetual failure yet minute optimism, you can never let yourself seem like you are actually getting better
 
They work to keep you in check, not for yourself...
For the betterment of society in general.
They are scared that you might shoot someone.
Therapy is as bluepilled as it can get.
The real therapy is by taking the blackpill and embracing reality.
No more BS.
 
I was in CBT group therapy thing and some gymcel mentioned how he approached roughly 40 women in the span of 6 months or so and it never worked out but even after that he was convinced that he just didn't approach enough women
note: don't ever try dropping black pills in any group therapy I tried that and I got roasted by 10 normies for two consecutive sessions
Don't tell me they made him approach more rotten femoids :feelsohgod:
 
Therapy is the biggest scam when it comes to self-improvement. It only helps normies with imaginary depression or anxiety.
Also everything my therapist said to me I figured out on my own before. I don't even know how people can't link their psychological issues to it's causes. It's literally like following the breadcrumbs.
 
hmm maybe try showering and lifting weights while in therapy
 
I am surprised you've come around to this line of thinking. I always took you for the foreveralone incels without hate variety. I must say, I am pleased. This is one based thread.
 
BrazilianSmegma put you on CuckTears frontpage. Congrats
Fuck that cuck. I also love the disingenuous retard calling me a psychopath for celebrating the death of guy who used to do nothing but attack me, threaten me, and mock me. Another suggesting that I've sexually assaulted foids, which ironically if I had, I very well might not be incel. Given their whole propensity for rewarding such men with sex, not to mention you'd have to be very low inhib to even do that in the first place. JFL

I seriously hate people.

Tell me again why braincels was banned for bullying yet this shit is fine? I mean ultimately people can believe whatever they want about me, it's not so much I care about that, however Reddit's blatant hypocrisy and arbitrary enforcement of their own rules is a different story. They should restore braincels tbh.
 
psychology is a pseudoscience
 
I generally dislike going to therapy, much of it is useless cope. Seriously why should I try to downplay, forget, or in any other way alter my memories of rejection and ostracism I've received since I was a child? What, so I can become better able to be productive to society despite being a lifelong outcast? FUCK THAT! Honestly one of the only things which keeps me going is watching the very people and society who did this to me ultimately fail, or discern how futile their own actions are.

A few years ago I remember hearing about a chadlite who bullied me for years as a kid dying in a car accident, that shit made my day, hell it made my month. Of course it was difficult to hide the feeling of immediate satisfaction I felt upon hearing of it, but still, why would I rob myself of this pleasure? Tbh I can't wait until each and every one of the pieces of shit discovers exactly how mortal they are, how their lives are really no less futile and pathetic than my own. JFL@ being a castrated drone, ensuring the relative happiness of people who have demonstrated time and time again exactly how much they despise me.

Seriously the FAcels and their cuck mentality of "maybe something will happen when you're 40" makes me feel a strange mixture of pity and disgust. I mean how could this possibly sound appealing to anyone? Why would I want a used up whore after decades of rejection, slaving away for luckier people, many of them being people who likely wouldn't want anything to do with me? Even attempting to imagine this scenario makes me feel like roping right now, I resent the very notion. How cucked can someone be?
TBH that's the whole point. The therapist understands that you have roughly 4 choices: kill yourself, live in incel blackpill pain forever, go ER, or try to put it behind yourself and live a normal life. A Therapist's goal is to take you out of mental pain and make sure you don't harm anyone, so they really only have one choice to push you towards.
 
You can't win as a man. If you complain, you get told to shut up. If you don't complain, then they try to force you to express your feelings. Therapy is only good for a person that actually wants to be there. Sometimes it's better to not think about your trauma.
 
A few years ago I remember hearing about a chadlite who bullied me for years as a kid dying in a car accident, that shit made my day, hell it made my month.
Some fucker once stole $50 from me. It was some typical nigger faggot wannabe thug who thought he was hot shit. I remember how about a year later I discovered he had died. I literally smiled and laughed. Little cock sucker got what he deserved. Moments like these are truly lifefuel.
 

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