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Serious Crabs in a bucket

eliya

eliya

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A lot of normi people accuse this forum of being like crabs in a bucket where people just put down one another too be miserable together

I have never had a good argument for this criticism
But I see some users bullying other people
And putting them down for no reason

So sometime they do seem to have point


So what do you guys think ?
 
some of the bulling is more a attempt at toughening someone up. and those other sites aint that much better when it comes too bullying.

and dms are a thing, and some users might chat ofsite aswell.

and there is those that help eachother out aswell, but if you look for negativeness that is all that you will find
 
some of the bulling is more a attempt at toughening someone up. and those other sites aint that much better when it comes too bullying.

and dms are a thing, and some users might chat ofsite aswell.

and there is those that help eachother out aswell, but if you look for negativeness that is all that you will find
Allright good argument
Thanks brocel
 
Matches alone dont mean anything, could be bots
 
People on here are supposed to have already given up on dating, we're not here trying to nail women, so it doesn't make sense to say we have crabs in a bucket mentality when by joining you've already given up and accepted incel status
 
People on here are supposed to have already given up on dating, we're not here trying to nail women, so it doesn't make sense to say we have crabs in a bucket mentality when by joining you've already given up and accepted incel status
I don't think people here have given up I mean if they find somebody who would generally love them and not just for money
I think we are just t not simping and putting futile effort into something that is not going to happen
 
@Saysitsover is definitely too obsessed with crabs.
 
Crabs in a bucket only works if we somehow assume that incels can ascend; a genuine incel cannot. And the bar only increases, so it keeps becoming more difficult to ascend as foids standards continue to increase.

The criticism itself is invalid on a fundamental level. An incel cannot improve his situation. If he can, then he is a volcel, not an incel, and that puts him outside the debate. A volcel isn’t a part of the incel community and shouldn’t be brought up into the discussion. I can already sense some bluepillist IT lurker or a foid infiltrator thinking to themselves that it’s our job to make sure volcels don’t get brought down to our level.

NO ITS NOT

Here you go. Brocel, them saying that the incel community has a ‘crabs in a bucket’ problem is their dishonest attempt at reframing our community as something it isn’t; it’s a very insidious attempt at trying to make it appear as if inceldom was voluntary. Inceldom isn’t voluntary, so it is wrong that assume that any amount of demotivation would put someone down; no it wouldn’t, because that person has been born without the ability to get up in the first place!

Being an incel is too miserable. No one would ever be an incel voluntarily. No one deprives themselves from their mental needs for love and female attention, brother. No one.

By saying that we’re putting others down, they’re actually trying to undermine the very thing we are. Involuntary. If we let them assume that we’re celibate out of our volition, we’re opening ourselves to levels of scorn and abuse beyond even the mass media scare tactics that have been employed against us in the past, brothers.
 
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Crabs in a bucket only works if we somehow assume that incels can ascend; a genuine incel cannot. And the bar only increases, so it keeps becoming more difficult to ascend as foids standards continue to increase.

The criticism itself is invalid on a fundamental level. An incel cannot improve his situation. If he can, then he is a volcel, not an incel, and that puts him outside the debate. A volcel isn’t a part of the incel community and shouldn’t be brought up into the discussion. I can already sense some bluepillist IT lurker or a foid infiltrator thinking to themselves that it’s our job to make sure volcels don’t get brought down to our level.

NO ITS NOT

Here you go. Brocel, saying that the incel community has a ‘crabs in a bucket’ problem is a dishonest attempt at reframing our community as something it isn’t; it’s a very insidious attempt at trying to make to appear as if inceldom was voluntary. Inceldom isn’t voluntary, so it is wrong that assume that any amount of demotivation would put someone down; no it wouldn’t, because that person cannot get up in the first place…!!!

By saying that we’re putting others down, they’re actually trying to undermine the very thing we are. Involuntary. If we let them assume that we’re celibate out of our volition, we’re opening ourselves to levels of scorn and abuse beyond even the mass media scare tactics that have been employed against us in the past, brothers.
High IQ response.
 
Crabs in a bucket only works if we somehow assume that incels can ascend; a genuine incel cannot. And the bar only increases, so it keeps becoming more difficult to ascend as foids standards continue to increase.

The criticism itself is invalid on a fundamental level. An incel cannot improve his situation. If he can, then he is a volcel, not an incel, and that puts him outside the debate. A volcel isn’t a part of the incel community and shouldn’t be brought up into the discussion. I can already sense some bluepillist IT lurker or a foid infiltrator thinking to themselves that it’s our job to make sure volcels don’t get brought down to our level.

NO ITS NOT

Here you go. Brocel, them saying that the incel community has a ‘crabs in a bucket’ problem is their dishonest attempt at reframing our community as something it isn’t; it’s a very insidious attempt at trying to make it appear as if inceldom was voluntary. Inceldom isn’t voluntary, so it is wrong that assume that any amount of demotivation would put someone down; no it wouldn’t, because that person has been born without the ability to get up in the first place!

Being an incel is too miserable. No one would ever be an incel voluntarily. No one deprives themselves from their mental needs for love and female attention, brother. No one.

By saying that we’re putting others down, they’re actually trying to undermine the very thing we are. Involuntary. If we let them assume that we’re celibate out of our volition, we’re opening ourselves to levels of scorn and abuse beyond even the mass media scare tactics that have been employed against us in the past, brothers.
High IQ respond bro thanks
 

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