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Could "oneitisism" be a manifestation of some sort of autistic hyperfocus?

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Having a oneitis is like hyperfocusing on one girl after all. Considering many fellowcels are autistic, it could explain the largish number of oneitiscels. And yes, I know not every form of autism comes with hyperfocus.
 
normal men get oneitis all the time, it's just that it's usually after they fucked her at least once, that's about the only difference, incels get attached as if they already fucked this girl and she left them, even though it never happened
 
having a oneitis is all dick-energy you're not into her personality nor does she like you, you're only into her because she's pretty and you wanna pump'n'dump that cunt
 
Very possible, I often get fixation on something and everything else goes on standby until I get it, same could be for onitiscels except they can't get the girl (in legal way) so fixation stays.
 
Having a oneitis is like hyperfocusing on one girl after all. Considering many fellowcels are autistic, it could explain the largish number of oneitiscels. And yes, I know not every form of autism comes with hyperfocus.
Yes, I am autistic but I am capable of switching waifus dude,
 
normal men get oneitis all the time
I don't think normal men stay obsessive (e.g., stalking her social media) even when the girl shows no interest in them.
having a oneitis is all dick-energy you're not into her personality nor does she like you, you're only into her because she's pretty and you wanna pump'n'dump that cunt
There are plenty of "pump-and-dumpable" foids out there. Your explanation fails to account for the obsessive aspect.
 
There are plenty of "pump-and-dumpable" foids out there. Your explanation fails to account for the obsessive aspect.
I will go get more iq and explain it in further details in the future. REMEMBER ME
 


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#186214843Sunday, March 27, 2016 8:49 PM CDT
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#184679157Thursday, March 03, 2016 12:13 AM CST
Ah, well, given that you are rating songs from various timelines, I suppose the glorious C.C music group will entertain you:
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Superior music, I suppose.
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#184824073Saturday, March 05, 2016 5:57 PM CST
Given that we are already acquainted, I suppose that I could temporarily cease with my criticism of your abysmal mathematical capabilities to provide a neutral discussion. I have provided the music links below:
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Nah, oneitis is baked into the male brain since it ensures the highest chance of reproduction (which very few men historically achieved)
Obsessing over a girl that ain't interested in you doesn't like like it'll net you the highest chance of reproduction tbh
Perhaps. I'd posit that you do not even need to be atypical to experience such hyperfocus - a manifestation, aptly put. Tunnel vision, much to the detriment of the male if unsuccessful.
I'm inclined to agree that everyone experiences tunnel vision to some extent. I'd argue that "oneitisism" is an extreme, however.
 
No, it's just a normal pair bonding method that everyone has.
Nah, oneitis is baked into the male brain since it ensures the highest chance of reproduction (which very few men historically achieved)
 
How would you differentiate between "oneitisism" and a crush? What lines must one cross before their interest is considered an extreme obsession?
A good question which I have not yet pondered in detail. Not sure I care enough to do so either. But you raise a valid point.
 
I don't think normal men stay obsessive (e.g., stalking her social media) even when the girl shows no interest in them.

There are plenty of "pump-and-dumpable" foids out there. Your explanation fails to account for the obsessive aspect.
stalking social media is a normie behavior to my knowledge

for example when i looked at a oneitis' social media a few years ago, i found her account full of orbiters, and an ex who would join her facebook live to beg her to take him back, even though they had split over a year ago

just normie things
 
No, it's just a normal pair bonding method that everyone has.
So you're saying any one of us can turn into a oneitiscel :horror:
 
stalking social media is a normie behavior to my knowledge

for example when i looked at a oneitis' social media a few years ago, i found her account full of orbiters, and an ex who would join her facebook live to beg her to take him back, even though they had split over a year ago

just normie things
I imagined oneitiscels would check their oneitis's social media often, but I could very well be wrong on that account. You mentioned you yourself doing it, but maybe you didn't do it often?
 
I imagined oneitiscels would check their oneitis's social media often, but I could very well be wrong on that account. You mentioned you yourself doing it, but maybe you didn't do it often?
i got tired of it because it made me feel bad and it wasn't that exciting

a normie would compare himself more with her boyfriends, i guess, but i was never her boyfriend so that comparison didn't do much for me anyway
 
I think autism could contribute to this behaviour, however I do not think it is exclusive to autists
 
i got tired of it because it made me feel bad and it wasn't that exciting
I can imagine. Social media never appealed to me.
I think autism could contribute to this behaviour, however I do not think it is exclusive to autists
Of course normies can have crushes as well. I was thinking that the extremism characteristic of "oneitisism" might be caused by some sort of autism.
 
all oneitiscels are fakecels who obsess over their ex
 
Possibly. I have diagnosed autism, and have had plenty of oneitises in the past. I still do get them, occasionally, but thanks to my acceptance of the black pill, I'm usually able to shoot that shit down in my brain before long.
 
Having a oneitis is like hyperfocusing on one girl after all. Considering many fellowcels are autistic, it could explain the largish number of oneitiscels. And yes, I know not every form of autism comes with hyperfocus.
yea it's probably augmented by the autism thing, but (at least for me) it's also about focusing on the only person who gave you some sort of attention, whether it's romantic or not.
I will never forget the only foid i kissed
 
I will never forget the only foid i kissed
That makes perfect sense, altho most users on this forum will have no such experiences
 

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