A lot of times on the forum, I see people complaining about others coping or throwing around phrases like, "keep coping," as if coping itself is harmful. But is it?
Coping, on its own, isn’t bad. The problem is that we don’t always have the right tools or environment to make coping effective. It’s like trying to watch TV with a bad signal,sure, you’re still "watching," but it’s frustrating because the picture keeps cutting out. Without the right setup, coping feels more like struggling than surviving.
Now, if we were like Chad or foids, coping wouldn’t even be necessary most of the time. Their lives are like having Netflix on a perfect connection: smooth, uninterrupted, and easy to enjoy. For them, it’s as if the BP doesn’t even exist.
But for us, it’s different. We’re stuck with constant reminders of our situation, like trying to watch a glitchy TV while everyone else enjoys their perfect shows. Chad and foids, meanwhile, live in their own little bubble. They don’t need to question their success because it’s so consistent. Why would they?
Here’s a simple example: imagine waking up every day to find $100 magically deposited into your account. You’d probably shrug, call it good luck, and move on. But if $100 disappeared from your account every day, you’d obsess over it. You’d dig into the issue and do everything you could to stop it. That’s the difference, they don’t feel the need to analyze their lives, while we’re stuck constantly dealing with the losses.
That’s our reality. The BP hits us every single day, so we can’t just pretend it doesn’t exist. But Chad and foids? They get to live their entire lives in a carefree bubble, untouched by the struggles we face.
Our main goal as incels should be to create a system that helps us cope without being constantly dragged down by reality. Once we have that, we can afford to let ourselves believe in delusions, the same way Chad and foids do. Right now, we’re not there. The technology isn’t advanced enough to give us that escape yet, but we might be able to get close.
For now, maybe moneymaxing is the best option, anything to keep reality at bay for as long as possible. In the future, when online gfs, AI friends, and realistic dolls get better (close to perfection), we might finally have the tools to create a more bluepilled life.
Delusion itself isn’t the problem. It only becomes an issue if you’re forced to face the truth. Until we can avoid that moment of confrontation, coping will always feel like a fragile strategy rather than a lasting solution. Still, it is better than nothing.
Coping, on its own, isn’t bad. The problem is that we don’t always have the right tools or environment to make coping effective. It’s like trying to watch TV with a bad signal,sure, you’re still "watching," but it’s frustrating because the picture keeps cutting out. Without the right setup, coping feels more like struggling than surviving.
Now, if we were like Chad or foids, coping wouldn’t even be necessary most of the time. Their lives are like having Netflix on a perfect connection: smooth, uninterrupted, and easy to enjoy. For them, it’s as if the BP doesn’t even exist.
But for us, it’s different. We’re stuck with constant reminders of our situation, like trying to watch a glitchy TV while everyone else enjoys their perfect shows. Chad and foids, meanwhile, live in their own little bubble. They don’t need to question their success because it’s so consistent. Why would they?
Here’s a simple example: imagine waking up every day to find $100 magically deposited into your account. You’d probably shrug, call it good luck, and move on. But if $100 disappeared from your account every day, you’d obsess over it. You’d dig into the issue and do everything you could to stop it. That’s the difference, they don’t feel the need to analyze their lives, while we’re stuck constantly dealing with the losses.
That’s our reality. The BP hits us every single day, so we can’t just pretend it doesn’t exist. But Chad and foids? They get to live their entire lives in a carefree bubble, untouched by the struggles we face.
Our main goal as incels should be to create a system that helps us cope without being constantly dragged down by reality. Once we have that, we can afford to let ourselves believe in delusions, the same way Chad and foids do. Right now, we’re not there. The technology isn’t advanced enough to give us that escape yet, but we might be able to get close.
For now, maybe moneymaxing is the best option, anything to keep reality at bay for as long as possible. In the future, when online gfs, AI friends, and realistic dolls get better (close to perfection), we might finally have the tools to create a more bluepilled life.
Delusion itself isn’t the problem. It only becomes an issue if you’re forced to face the truth. Until we can avoid that moment of confrontation, coping will always feel like a fragile strategy rather than a lasting solution. Still, it is better than nothing.
