I've heard that a thousand times. If someone drives drunk and has to get his legs amputated as a result, it's his fault for being a dumbass, but his life is still destroyed and he has to rehabilitate, etc.
I know I fucked up by going on that call. I wanted to die because of it. I know that was extremely stupid, it was the worst decision of my life, which is why I'm trying to take the videos down.
It is social suicide, ruined my entire reputation. That's why I'm trying to get the videos on youtube taken down. It's impossible to rebuild unless the videos get taken down, and it's possible because I was underage, defamation because it's inaccurate I was a 21 year old virgin if I was a 17 year old minor, and privacy because 2 minors in a video that don't want to be in the video.
It's funny how on 1 hand, there's people who say the video doesn't matter at all, then there's the realists who say "the video fucked up his entire life." The latter, the video fucked up my entire life, but I want to rebuild instead of kill myself, so the most optimal move is to dislike, report, file complaints until the videos get removed. I already got it off tiktok and twitter, just have to get it removed from youtube and instagram, so if you want to help my situation, you should report and help me try to take down the videos.