SORRY FOR BAD ENGLISH, SINCERELY YOUR RUSSIANCEL.
I see how many of you guys call everything or almost everything, except getting laid, as "cope", implying that it's something bad, stupid and suitable only for NPC. And usually these guys say that with such attitude as though their "cope-resistance" make them more noble, wise and shit.
And in absolute terms i can agree with that, yes, we indeed can call "cope" everything, except fulfiling your basic biological needs (someone can argue even with that). But you really can't live with such mindset, it's pathway to deep nihilism, self-deprivation and depression. I'm right now in such state, i can't find meaning nowhere, and even when i find something similar to it, my rational part quickly breaks down it, making more once again more depressed. Generally, notion that something is "cope" comes from your mind and not from your "feeling" part, if you understand. But in the end of the day your feeling are far more important than your thoughts.
With that said, we should understand, that coping it's inevitable in one form ore another, whole our life is consist mostly of coping. Without it you simply fall into abyss, so if someone have "copes", especially big ones i would say, like religion - well, just leave them alone for their good.
I have not been able to fully express my thoughts on topic, but i Hope you understood me.
I see how many of you guys call everything or almost everything, except getting laid, as "cope", implying that it's something bad, stupid and suitable only for NPC. And usually these guys say that with such attitude as though their "cope-resistance" make them more noble, wise and shit.
And in absolute terms i can agree with that, yes, we indeed can call "cope" everything, except fulfiling your basic biological needs (someone can argue even with that). But you really can't live with such mindset, it's pathway to deep nihilism, self-deprivation and depression. I'm right now in such state, i can't find meaning nowhere, and even when i find something similar to it, my rational part quickly breaks down it, making more once again more depressed. Generally, notion that something is "cope" comes from your mind and not from your "feeling" part, if you understand. But in the end of the day your feeling are far more important than your thoughts.
With that said, we should understand, that coping it's inevitable in one form ore another, whole our life is consist mostly of coping. Without it you simply fall into abyss, so if someone have "copes", especially big ones i would say, like religion - well, just leave them alone for their good.
I have not been able to fully express my thoughts on topic, but i Hope you understood me.
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