I mean why would they? What does a guy really have to gain. He's expected to do all the work in the relationship, Planning the dates, pursuing, initiating contact, make the first move, pay for the date, pick her up, buy her gifts. Yet he absorbs all the risk. If he makes the first move and it's not well received well there's an assault/battery charge, if he gets her pregnant there goes child support, if they get married he can lose the house, pay alimoney, and lose access to the kids. When he makes the approach he is the one who risks rejection. Plus women aren't appreciating guys anymore, they literally expect men to pay for everything and give them princess treatment the whole time they're shopping other men, getting DM's, advertising their sexuality on social media with thirst traps, and they don't appreciate men for anything they do. They only ever want more, then at the slightest inconvenience they're out. Especially if the men faces a set back like losing his job. women initiate 70% of divorces. So what's really in it for a guy to put in all this work for little to no return. It's literally all downsides with no upside to putting in all the work just to be treated as disposable and taken for granted.
