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Here we go, another post about myself. There’s this girl I’ve recently started to show interest in. I have this equestrian program that I did in the spring time that she was in. I’m currently in this job program my school has, and she’s doing it as well. Would this be a good conversation starter?
“Hey_____. Do you remember me from equestrian?”
“ Well, I just wanted to say hi.”
 
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:feelskek::feelskek::feelskek: JFL, women are ONLY interested at Chads, while you are here, she is hitting Chads up.

JFL @ approaching.

I don't know how blue or blackpilled you are, but you may think that this is untrue and that if you would just approach and "run game", you'd probably leave this site thinking "Lol @ these virgins, not knowing anything", but sooner or later, you'll find yourself here again. Lurking this site. Lurking r/braincels. Watching eggy. Browsing lookism.net. One day, brother, one day. You'll find yourself here again. Remember, the first part of the blackpill, is denial of it.

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Blackpill theory states that if you are good looking and she is attracted to you, it doesn't matter what you say. Even believing that what you say matters is proof that you haven't swallowed. The best conversation starter would be to look good, and if you don't, max as much as possible.

also:

>equestrian

teehee i broke it horseriding
 
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Why are you asking us? If we knew how to help you, we wouldn't be here.
 
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If you can't "bust" her watching at you for at least 3 times, she is not interested.

Expectations are killers. You could approach her and push for a conversation but those convo's are usually too awkward unless you can act like a man who's intention isn't about approaching/hitting up.

If you can 'show' you are living decent or are having a good time, you'll seem more trusted and likeable and people would be more likely interested in talking with you.

So your body language matters. As soon as you are seen you would be like a "dot" on her radar, there is nothing more than to just going with the flow and expect nothing. If your paths do cross somehow with a cause, the conversation would be different right. As you wouldn't have to push for a conversation and there is nothing weird about crossing eachother paths. You wouldn't look like a dude who tries too hard and there is no lose in asking how she is doing and how she has been doing lately. Maybe she has something to share, if not, don't push it but be a man and see that all conversations are easy come and easy go.

And yes, not everyone will cross you path, sometimes you just let it go. Something you let it "happen".

So unless you got something important to discus, i wouldn't approach it. Being a little bit selfish is not bad as this would show that you know what you want vice versa.

Show that you are in control of your body by sticking to your own rules. Say no to the things you do not want. And don't joke around too much, it shows insecurities. If you really are into this girl, find out more about her as this would give you a little advantage in keeping a conversation up. Your interest in her must be genuine, or she will find out and be bored with you anyway.

Someone once told me as a kid: "You shouldn't bother your time with people who wouldn't do the same for you."
This is something that helped me through some times. As i would live more for myself and started seeing the things that do not matter.
 
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blackoutwhitein3 said:
Here we go, another post about myself. There’s this girl I’ve recently started to show interest in. I have this equestrian program that I did in the spring time that she was in. I’m currently in this job program my school has, and she’s doing it as well. Would this be a good conversation starter?
“Hey_____. Do you remember me from equestrian?”
“ Well, I just wanted to say hi.”

Doesn't sound to bad, but to keep the conversation going you need to ask some questions. Maybe related to the program you did or your shared interest in horses in general (e.g. did she continue something like that in the meantime, how did she like it, she wants to do something like this again etc.) the job program (why is she there, what does she think of it, etc.), recent events, or whatever comes to your mind. If you say “ Well, I just wanted to say hi.”, you risk her saying "Ok :)" and the conversation is finished :D
“Hey_____. Do you remember me from equestrian?”
I would also maybe reword this like "Hey________, we were in the equestrian program together last spring, do you remember me?" Then you can proceed to ask her how she is doing and ask her more open question like I suggested above.
But I'm not an expert on human interactions either, so take it with a grain of salt
 

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