Blackpill Confidence is unironically very important

[surreal]

You know the type of delusional "just be confident bro" normies talk about? Exactly that, no need to make it philosophical, but you need to actually be confident

You need to genuinely believe you're deserving of the foid you want to get, when normies approach foids, they genuinely think they're good enough and think foids want them, they aren't "it's over" defeatists like us

My cousin is a 6'0 LTN and whenever we hang outside he seriously thinks foids lust over him, doesn't matter if it's delusion, it works, he has never been single for more than a month since 5th grade

It's just very hard to have confedans as a short balding shitskin truecel, and it's almost impossible to believe in yourself after 23 years of negative feedback truecel life

 

[blackpillednigga]

confidence is given, not gained

 

[PLA1092]

Even if you went outside every day approaching random foids and 100% believed Stacy wants to fuck you, you would still be rejected and probably accused of being "creepy"/harassing said foids, there's no winning as a subhuman. Just look at the horn effect. Any confidence is worn down by constant rejection and as you said, a negative feedback loop, but it wouldn't matter anyways. 6'0 is probably rarer in Iran than in the West.

 

[MiSKiRaT]

confidence is given, not gained

This, how can you be confident and trust the same scumciety that rejected you and belittled you for not fitting in their physical standards. Fuck these normscum, they forced you to be social anxious around them since these fucks will eat you up the moment you stutter by accident.

Even if you went outside every day approaching random foids and 100% believed Stacy wants to fuck you, you would still be rejected and probably accused of being "creepy"/harassing said foids, there's no winning as a subhuman. Just look at the horn effect. Any confidence is worn down by constant rejection and as you said, a negative feedback loop, but it wouldn't matter anyways. 6'0 is probably rarer in Iran than in the West.

^

 

[Med Amine]

if i looked like this

then i would never need confidence

 

[THE TRUE HONKLER]

there is no power like the confidence of a thousand indian men

 

[Ci Jey]

no confidence for your subhuman genetics

 

[Incedel]

confidence is given, not gained

Pretty much, true confidence comes from affirmation and positivity, anything else is cope. Which is why expecting shut in retards to be confident is like expecting a nigger to pick himself up by his boot straps

 

[mrlunatic]

You know the type of delusional "just be confident bro" normies talk about? Exactly that, no need to make it philosophical, but you need to actually be confident

You need to genuinely believe you're deserving of the foid you want to get, when normies approach foids, they genuinely think they're good enough and think foids want them, they aren't "it's over" defeatists like us

My cousin is a 6'0 LTN and whenever we hang outside he seriously thinks foids lust over him, doesn't matter if it's delusion, it works, he has never been single for more than a month since 5th grade

It's just very hard to have confedans as a short balding shitskin truecel, and it's almost impossible to believe in yourself after 23 years of negative feedback truecel life

How to be confident after lifelong trauma ? Any advice brocel ?

 

[mrlunatic]

confidence is given, not gained

Holy giga based

 

[surreal]

Even if you went outside every day approaching random foids and 100% believed Stacy wants to fuck you, you would still be rejected and probably accused of being "creepy"/harassing said foids, there's no winning as a subhuman. Just look at the horn effect. Any confidence is worn down by constant rejection and as you said, a negative feedback loop, but it wouldn't matter anyways. 6'0 is probably rarer in Iran than in the West.

But most users here aren't MrSamEntertain tier, they would ascend if they had the confidence

 

[stunDripper]

There’s aspects of truth in all the takes I see in this thread so far. Confidence will give you and edge, unless you’re too subhuman for it to work, let alone be something you can convincingly fake despite years of belittlement. Once you suffer too much it becomes exponentially more difficult to act confident because you project the belittling directed at you in the past onto the new people you meet.

 

[surreal]

How to be confident after lifelong trauma?

Idk

 

[surreal]

There’s aspects of truth in all the takes I see in this thread so far. Confidence will give you and edge, unless you’re too subhuman for it to work, let alone be something you can convincingly fake despite years of belittlement. Once you suffer too much it becomes exponentially more difficult to act confident because you project the belittling directed at you in the past onto the new people you meet.

True

 

[DespressedCurryCel1]

NT

 

[surreal]

you project the belittling directed at you in the past onto the new people you meet.

 

[sneed (not chuck)]

I was confident in high school because I was a top academic student and I thought girls would be impressed

 

[Count Yorga]

How to be confident after lifelong trauma ? Any advice brocel ?

 

[surreal]

I was confident in high school because I was a top academic student and I thought girls would be impressed

You're 5'1 it never began for you, you're legit trucel tier like me

 

[Adolf Hitler]

no confidence for your subhuman genetics

 

[Adolf Hitler]

But most users here aren't MrSamEntertain tier, they would ascend if they had the confidence

 

[sneed (not chuck)]

You're 5'1 it never began for you, you're legit trucel tier like me

 

[stunDripper]

Might sound like a Redditcuck tier answer but fitness/gymmaxxing did some work for me. Foids don’t give a fuck about muscles but observing improvement in your own appearance no matter how minor heals the brain a little bit and can lead to a confidence boost.

 

[zangano1]

I need to improve meine