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Confidence as a general attitude only works if you EXPRESS it in a good way. Proving confidence alone working is bullshit.

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You need to be funny, swaggy, bad ass, aloof, manly, and if you express confidence in some gay/ autistic/ unwholesome form of expression the nit doesn't work.
BUt this is just an inferential trackback to what really attracts women if confidence isn't a reliable trait in all cases.
There are so many different formats of attraction that the most typical one is looks/ money./ status/ dominarchical value.

But in the rare cases that doesn't apply, then you have to look at the mechanics of life, and what works in the most general sense.
Even when looks, money, status don't work/ dominarchicality, then you still have to have the strenuously-demanding catch factor.
All things, from being good at a video game, or sport, or having a business/ money/ food/ power or whatever require a strenuous catch. Power/ things of interest will concentrate those who want it. And then to receive it will require those who are more suited for having it to have it more/ in greater abundance. And women look at this the same as well.
The rule of distinciton is where most things go difficult in life.

Most generally the greatest things that stand in the way of attraction is being non-rare/ non-distinct. Selection is huge and critical for women.
Distinction among the rabble is in higher proportion. Due to the fact that women choose the BEST guy because they can only have one child a year while men can have 10 a day be impregnated.
So the female must be far more calculist about fucking than a guy. Because it's just a biological necessity, and the calculation gets subconsciated in her mind. (made subconscious). Most of the time our thought patterns/ mental structure as a species are evolved for the general situations we're given. And women must be far more discerning than men. Whenever men notice something, women notice it twice.
Women want distinction. Even if it's immaterial based attraction somehow from wits, charm, personality, high inhibition peculiarities (like being an emo neet... given that you find the right girl), etc. These things have some value to them.
But the umbrella of attraction constitution still mostly comes down from the most important thing... which is distinction. All things emerge from a positive distinction and sprout outward into the details/ wonderment they desire.
 

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