Serious Collegecels, please give me tips for starting college. What should I do and what should I avoid doing?

[Deleted member 11159]

I start this month. I'm nervous as fuck but also hopeful. This is the last time in life I have a chance to actually give people a good first impression of me. In highschool everyone saw me as a weird autist in the first week I was there. This is my last shot at being able to live a normal life in school. What can I do to make sure that I build some sort of a social circle? Is there anything you did or didn't do that you regret now? I need to know.

Btw, i'm going to community college for a year because I was going to rope as soon as HS ended so I purposely failed all my final exams.

 

[Deleted member 29003]

community college

Tough, guessing the cc is close to home so you will probably still run into people that already recognize / know you. Normies are fucking retarded anyways, the more time you spend near them the more you want to rope because we can't relate to their issues which are stupid & bluepilled. Any classes in person?

 

[Deleted member 11159]

Brutal!

Picking STEM will keep you from socializing with normies and women. It will actually make you look more autistic. That's the only advice I've got for you.

I'll be able to go to real college after. Not a great one, but it's alright. I don't care about making a lot of money after college, just enough to live in a somewhat decent area and have enough for copes.

Brutal!

Picking STEM will keep you from socializing with normies and women. It will actually make you look more autistic. That's the only advice I've got for you.

I was thinking of doing CS or Business. CS would probably be better for making money, but not for making friends with NT normies and definitely not foids.

 

[Total Imbecile]

community college

Never began

 

[Deleted member 11159]

Tough, guessing the cc is close to home so you will probably still run into people that already recognize / know you. Normies are fucking retarded anyways, the more time you spend near them the more you want to rope because we can't relate to their issues which are stupid & bluepilled. Any classes in person?

I still will, but considering not many of people from my class went to cc and I finished HS over a year ago, I should be able to meet some new people.

Never began

Is it worse for socializing? That's all I care about.

 

[jonvm]

I start this month. I'm nervous as fuck but also hopeful. This is the last time in life I have a chance to actually give people a good first impression of me. In highschool everyone saw me as a weird autist in the first week I was there. This is my last shot at being able to live a normal life in school. What can I do to make sure that I build some sort of a social circle? Is there anything you did or didn't do that you regret now? I need to know.

Btw, i'm going to community college for a year because I was going to rope as soon as HS ended so I purposely failed all my final exams.

just be calm, and you'll be forming social circle soon !

I was very anxious on my first time on the college as well. Had no friends, nobody to talk to, to afraid to talk. But in the end, I saw some peeps who are also a weeb, playing weeb game, and I also a weeb who plays weeb game, so I tried to blend in like, "Hey you play this game too ? Can I add you ?" stuff like that.
I think that's how I get into social circle as I am right now in college.

Also, in my class usually the teacher put us on group project. you can be friends with someone you think compatible with there. Although it doesn't really work for me.

stay safe and good luck in the college !

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

Honestly, my advice is to go in with a good attitude.

I don't know if your school is restricted due to social distancing, but if it isn't here is my advice.

1. Most Universities have orientations for First Year students. This is probably your largest chance to find friends and enter into a social circle. From what I have noticed, most people usually become and stay friends with people they meet at orientation throughout University.

2. First Year is your best chance to make new friends and enter social circles in general. After First Year, again most people will remain closed to meeting new people in Second or Third Year. Be open to going to school events, going to clubs that cater towards your interests, etc.

3. Almost everybody in First Year is going to go clubbing, drinking, etc. I would recommend trying it just to get it out of your system, but do not take it too seriously.

4. People are at their most shallow and most insecure during this time. First Years are anywhere between 18-20, and a lot of them will make their social decisions based off of what is trendy, what is cool, and what makes them look good in front of others. What that means is that this will be the time in your life where people are the most shallow, men are most likely going to bring you down to make themselves look good, and women are most likely to be rude to you to feel good about themselves. Pay them no mind.

5. More guys than you think at your school are in your situation, but they are not going to admit it for fear of being completely socially ostracized. You are definitely not alone in being an incel at University. There are a select number of guys getting laid, and the vast majority of guys are just playing with their dicks. So you aren't really missing out on much compared to the average male your age.

6. Focus more on studies. University is temporary, but what comes afterwards is permanent. Make good decisions while in University, and once you are earning good money you can fuck the very same college girls who usually escort themselves to pay for tuition anyways.

Best of luck Anon.

 

[Deleted member 11159]

Tough, guessing the cc is close to home so you will probably still run into people that already recognize / know you. Normies are fucking retarded anyways, the more time you spend near them the more you want to rope because we can't relate to their issues which are stupid & bluepilled. Any classes in person?

just be calm, and you'll be forming social circle soon !

I was very anxious on my first time on the college as well. Had no friends, nobody to talk to, to afraid to talk. But in the end, I saw some peeps who are also a weeb, playing weeb game, and I also a weeb who plays weeb game, so I tried to blend in like, "Hey you play this game too ? Can I add you ?" stuff like that.
I think that's how I get into social circle as I am right now in college.

Also, in my class usually the teacher put us on group project. you can be friends with someone you think compatible with there. Although it doesn't really work for me.

stay safe and good luck in the college !

Honestly, my advice is to go in with a good attitude.

I don't know if your school is restricted due to social distancing, but if it isn't here is my advice.

1. Most Universities have orientations for First Year students. This is probably your largest chance to find friends and enter into a social circle. From what I have noticed, most people usually become and stay friends with people they meet at orientation throughout University.

2. First Year is your best chance to make new friends and enter social circles in general. After First Year, again most people will remain closed to meeting new people in Second or Third Year. Be open to going to school events, going to clubs that cater towards your interests, etc.

3. Almost everybody in First Year is going to go clubbing, drinking, etc. I would recommend trying it just to get it out of your system, but do not take it too seriously.

4. People are at their most shallow and most insecure during this time. First Years are anywhere between 18-20, and a lot of them will make their social decisions based off of what is trendy, what is cool, and what makes them look good in front of others. What that means is that this will be the time in your life where people are the most shallow, men are most likely going to bring you down to make themselves look good, and women are most likely to be rude to you to feel good about themselves. Pay them no mind.

5. More guys than you think at your school are in your situation, but they are not going to admit it for fear of being completely socially ostracized. You are definitely not alone in being an incel at University. There are a select number of guys getting laid, and the vast majority of guys are just playing with their dicks. So you aren't really missing out on much compared to the average male your age.

6. Focus more on studies. University is temporary, but what comes afterwards is permanent. Make good decisions while in University, and once you are earning good money you can fuck the very same college girls who usually escort themselves to pay for tuition anyways.

Best of luck Anon.

Thanks bros. This means a lot to me. And yeah, thankfully, I won't be having any online classes if the situation doesn't get worse.
Sadly, clubs will probably remain closed for a long time, which is sad because I was really counting on them for ascension.

 

[Billowel]

if you want to rope i guess college is the fastest way.If i was you i wouldn't do it.Unless you lost enough fat to change your appearance or had some plastic surgery or something of the sort.

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

Sadly, clubs will probably remain closed for a long time, which is sad because I was really counting on them for ascension.

Saying it right now, you won't ascend from going to clubs.

 

[Indari]

bring rope

 

[Deleted member 21883]

Get good grades. Be friendly to the oldcel stemcel professors and don't try to blackpill them. Even if they were bullied by jocks, they still were able to eventually get married when monogamy was still in effect and can never really understand the world now. Don't watch videos in your free time, just listen to the audio while you study. Try to find a oneitis and act now and tell her you love her before she transfers and is gone forever.

 

[Koruga]

Are you smart OP? If so, why not stay at the community college and reign there? I did this in high school, I was free from competition and stress.

 

[nihility]

be cool

 

[Babica Yaga]

JFL at some of the bluepilled answers here...

 

[based_meme]

What are you planning to study?

 

[minecraftcel]

I'll be able to go to real college after. Not a great one, but it's alright. I don't care about making a lot of money after college, just enough to live in a somewhat decent area and have enough for copes.


I was thinking of doing CS or Business. CS would probably be better for making money, but not for making friends with NT normies and definitely not foids.

I'd take economics if I were you, it's risky (unless you're actually educated about the market) and especially if you have tendencies to rope but if you lose all your money at least you've got a better reason. and never go to r/wallstreetbets for advice that's how you rly lose all your money. plus you could be a broker or something if you don't want to risk your own money.

 

[Total Imbecile]

Is it worse for socializing? That's all I care about.

Yes, the crowd is a bit older

it will be mostly single mothers and ex addicts trying to flip their life around

 

[TheIncelRepublic]

I start this month. I'm nervous as fuck but also hopeful. This is the last time in life I have a chance to actually give people a good first impression of me. In highschool everyone saw me as a weird autist in the first week I was there. This is my last shot at being able to live a normal life in school. What can I do to make sure that I build some sort of a social circle? Is there anything you did or didn't do that you regret now? I need to know.

Btw, i'm going to community college for a year because I was going to rope as soon as HS ended so I purposely failed all my final exams.

Take night classes. Befriend Incels. Studymaxx.

If you can, try to ascend in college, if you can’t, get the hell out of there ASAP, college is not a place for Incels.

 

[Uglymuggly]

Saying it right now, you won't ascend from going to clubs.

Unless he’s a fakecel
Ok if you are fakecel follow bluepilled advice. If not just try to find a few losers to drink/smoke with. And don’t be afraid to drug cope

 

[Deleted member 11159]

Take night classes. Befriend Incels. Studymaxx.

If you can, try to ascend in college, if you can’t, get the hell out of there ASAP, college is not a place for Incels.

Why night classes?

 

[starcrapoo]

That phase of my life was so painful I don't even know why I'm replying on this thread.

All I can tell you is focus on whatever you're majoring in and ignore foids as much as you can.

You will slip in your studies, descend into depression, abuse alcohol, and eventually drop out if you pay too much attention to foids.

 

[TheIncelRepublic]

Why night classes?

Walk on campus during Summer pre - covid for more than 5 minutes. Your suicidal tendencies will go through the roof.

Night classes, less people on campus at night. Peacefully walking on campus. And you can have a day job to money maxx.

 

[Deleted member 11159]

That phase of my life was so painful I don't even know why I'm replying on this thread.

All I can tell you is focus on whatever you're majoring in and ignore foids as much as you can.

You will slip in your studies, descend into depression, abuse alcohol, and eventually drop out if you pay too much attention to foids.

Foids are basically the only reason i'm going. I don't care about making a lot of money after college. Life ends at 30 anyway.

Walk on campus during Summer pre - covid for more than 5 minutes. Your suicidal tendencies will go through the roof.

Night classes, less people on campus at night. Peacefully walking on campus. And you can have a day job to money maxx.

If there are less foids then there will also be less chances to ascend though.