View: https://medium.com/eros-is-everywhere/cheating-on-my-husband-made-me-a-better-mother-53bad23e1494
Hidden bending a paywall, so maybe this works:
https://archive.is/1lFiU#selection-327.0-327.46
My affair made me happier and, by consequence, also my kids.
Here's what they also do, they always make it about
them. In some way, they never once seemingly consider the impact this will have upon their own children -as hinted by how she's trying to spin it as a positive- nor did she consider her husband.
Kids are merely bargaining chips for foids in a way, they seemingly view them as assets to use as one excuse.
While waiting in line at the market to buy groceries with my two children, my younger son reached to hug me. Pulling my cheek toward his lips, he planted a kiss there.
“What a sweet boy you have,” the checker said as she began to scan our items.
Not to be outdone, my older son helped bag the groceries. The checker gushed more.
I was astonished myself. This was not normal.
Usually, my two sons, aged eight and nine respectively, were getting into mischief. They broke down into tantrums as a daily occurrence. They acted out more than they behaved.
So in other words, you boys behaved like average normie NTs.
Had my sons changed? Or was I the one who was different?
That's the question here, isn't it?
Regardless, people in their youth are more vulnerable & impressionable.
I had changed. After years of suffering in a miserable marriage, I’d decided to have an affair.
Peak foid narcissism on display yet again, truth is she didn't really change as in all likelihood she cheated before. Simply, her affair was just her way to get what she wanted.
I was no longer the same person. I felt happier than I had in a long time — and that happiness was rubbing off on my sons.
Have you considered it's not your self-centered, narcissistic, destructive "happiness" & perhaps is the fact that they're now worried if they don't give into what foids want, they're gonna end up emotionally hurt, you dumb cunt.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not promoting cheating on one’s spouse as the solution to a couple’s marriage problems
>Makes article claiming it made her "happier" and also her kids somehow "happier"
>Claims to not be encouraging cheating
Cheating was but a Band-Aid over the festering wound that was my marriage. Though admittedly an analgesic, my affair did provide a reprieve.
A band-aid for the pain of missing Chad.
My sons benefited from my improved mood.
Think of it this way. I’d been cranky for months on end. Often in a dark mood, I was easily annoyed at the slightest infraction on the part of my sons.
Suddenly, my mood had brightened. I could sweat the small stuff and go with the flow. Of course, my sons reacted to that.
Children are just leverage for foids, by stating this she thinks she may be given a pass.
They're neglecting the bigger picture here, why was she unhappy in the marriage? She didn't even really touch upon what her husband was doing, which we can amount to just being him being insufficient as a beta.
Before I had an affair, my sons were failing in school.
Before I met my lover, I often received calls and emails from my eldest son’s teacher about how he was disrupting the classroom. My youngest was still unable to read. I believe our miserable home life was affecting both my sons’ ability to sit still and learn.
Again, the "
: Won't someone think of muh children!" argument.
